Dating Advise for Men In Waikiki

The Only 3 Ways To Attract A Woman

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Have you ever wondered why women you see out at
bars and nightclubs (and even at malls and
restaurants) sometimes dress so SEXY?

It’s an interesting question.

I mean, let’s think about it from the woman’s
perspective…

An attractive woman gets attention from men all
the time… no matter WHAT she’s wearing.

Attractive women don’t have to “accent” their
beauty in order to attract men.

And the question becomes VERY interesting when
you consider that often it’s the most BEAUTIFUL
women that go to the GREATEST lengths to enhance
their beauty.

You know what I mean…

A perfectly beautiful woman gets an expensive
operation to make herself “one cup size” larger…

A tall, stunning model spends all day at the
mall shopping for just the right high-heeled
shoes…

A naturally beautiful woman spends hours in
front of the mirror getting ready to go out… and
puts on tons of makeup…

AND FOR WHAT?

Could it possibly be worth all the extra time
and effort… spending HOURS and HOURS to get that
“extra little bit” of beauty, when a woman already
has “more than enough”?

Hey, no one ever said women made SENSE.

(Don’t get too excited. Men have their strange
points as well.)

Let me tell you about a few of the reasons why
women go to these lengths to squeeze that “extra
little bit” out of their beauty…

1. To Maximize Her Strengths In Order To Attract
The Best Man

Let’s turn this picture around, and look at it
from another direction.

Let’s imagine that an attractive woman is
getting ready to go to a party.

There are going to be a hundred men and a
hundred women at this party (I know, I know… you
think that I must be smoking something… because
most parties have 100 men and 10 women… and
resemble the sausage counter at your local
market… but humor me here for a second).

If there are going to be a hundred men at this
party, it follows that a few of those men are
going to be the “best” ones.

Do you think this particular woman is going to
want to settle for one of the “random sausages”
running around?

Nope.

She wants the “best” one… if possible.

And that guy has OPTIONS.

Soooo… she needs to “fix herself up”, EVEN
THOUGH SHE’S ALREADY BEAUTIFUL… if she wants to
have the BEST chance of getting THAT guy.

2. Competition From Other Women

This particular idea was one of the most
interesting and surprising things I learned about
women while I was educating myself about dating
and attraction.

Here’s the deal:

Attractive women tend to be VERY, VERY
competitive.

A few years ago, when I first moved to Los
Angeles, I was introduced to a concept called “The
Bitch Look”.

Sounds charming, doesn’t it?

Here’s how it works…

When a “hot” woman walks into a room, EVERYONE
checks her out.

The “sausage” looks her up and down with a “let
me get a really good look because I’ll be using
her as a spank-it fantasy later” stare.

The “top guys”, who have options, glance at her
and make a “mental note” to talk to her later.

The OTHER hot women look at her and give her…
yep, you guessed it…. THE BITCH LOOK.

Why?

Because another hot woman is instantly seen as
COMPETITION.

A hot woman doesn’t want OTHER hot women
competing with her for the “best guys”.

So they give other women “bitch looks”.

It’s competition, intimidation, and millions of
years of evolution all rolled up into one special
package.

(Think about this for a minute, because there’s
a clue here about how to attract the MOST
attractive women. I’ll reveal the secret later…)

So let’s just say that attractive women DON’T
LIKE COMPETITION.

In order to MINIMIZE their competition, they
FIX THEMSELVES UP… and emphasize their good
points TO THE MAX.

When an already-beautiful woman goes to the
trouble to pick out just the right clothes… the
ones that flatter her figure… and put on just
the right makeup… in a way that draws attention
to her finer points… and styles her hair… in a
way that draws attention to her and frames her
face…

…it puts her ABOVE the competition

3. To Get The Most Attention And Approval

Now that we’ve talked about a couple of the
underlying reasons why women go to great lengths
to make themselves more beautiful, I want to talk
about the one reason that has the most VALUE to
you…

This reason holds the secret of actually
ATTRACTING beautiful women.

But let’s not get ahead of ourselves just
yet…

At the very CORE of human psychology and
behavior are the twin concepts of ATTENTION and
APPROVAL.

Some evolutionary theorists think that the
basic formula goes like this:

If you get more attention from others, and
those others like you more, then you and your
offspring are more likely to survive and pass on
your genes to future generations.

Is this making sense?

Think about it this way:

If others of your species DON’T like you and
don’t give you any attention, you are going to
have a hard time finding a mate… and
reproducing.

And if others don’t like you, then you aren’t
going to have the benefits that come from the
group… like protection, combined effort, etc.

It just so happens that an attractive woman has
a SUBCONSCIOUS (but VERY accurate) indicator of
whether or not “the group” likes and approves of
her…

It’s the amount of ATTENTION she gets.

If a woman is getting a lot of attention, it
keeps her feeling “OK”. She knows, on a deep,
primal level that she’s accepted by the group…
and that she’s going to stay healthy and have a
good chance of mating with a “top male”.

But this particular concept has a DARK SIDE to
it… and don’t they all?

Just like anything else that triggers
feelings/emotions (very addictive chemicals),
attention and approval can lead to a literal
ADDICTION.

It’s like money, fame, power… all the famous
ones… YOU CAN’T GET ENOUGH.

And here’s another VERY interesting point:

If you’re a beautiful woman who is always
getting attention and approval from men and you
meet a man who DOESN’T give you that attention and
approval, it has an INSTANT and POWERFUL impact.

Furthermore, if the man you’re interacting with
actively AVOIDS giving you attention… and gives
you DISAPPROVAL, it can have the effect of
instantly SCRAMBLING YOUR SYSTEMS.

Again, attractive women don’t meet a lot of
guys that could care less about her beauty… and
instead see it as a “cover up” for some “hidden”
thing…

Which leads me to the “secret” I mentioned
earlier…

If you want to learn how to ATTRACT these
“unusually beautiful” women, then you need to get
a clue about what creates the idea in her mind
that YOU are one of the most “desirable” men.

And how can you do that?

…Oh, by the way, before I give you the secret
here, I want to mention something: If you want to
REALLY get an “insider education” on the deeper
psychology of attracting women… and on how to
build a powerful SEXUAL PRESENCE… then I highly
recommend that you check out my “Power Sexuality”
program. This is like ROCKET FUEL for creating
CHEMISTRY with attractive women… and you can
only get it in one place:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/PowerSexuality/?cid=9ZZZV7&lid=2&ll=1

OK, back to the secret…

1) Become rich and famous

or

2) Get plastic surgery to look like Brad Pitt

or

3) Trigger ATTRACTION inside of her.

Here’s the interesting thing about triggering
ATTRACTION:

When you do it, she can’t CONTROL it.

If a woman starts feeling ATTRACTION for you,
I’ll guarantee you that she didn’t “THINK about it
and DECIDE to feel it”.

And I guarantee you that she can’t CHANGE IT by
THINKING ABOUT IT.

And guess what one of the BEST ways is to
TRIGGER this “automatic and subconscious” physical
and emotional response called attraction IS?

Here’s a hint:

It has something to do with these two concepts
we’ve been talking about… ATTENTION and
APPROVAL.

If you’re interacting with an unusually
attractive woman, it’s VERY important that you
don’t communicate to her that you are “overwhelmed
by her beauty”… or that you can’t control
yourself.

Furthermore, if you actively control the amount
of attention that you give her… and you don’t
show her “approval” too quickly (and even show her
some DISAPPROVAL)… you’ll often create a
POWERFUL interest inside of her.

Why is this?

Well, think about it for a minute.

You’re the hot woman walking into the “sausage
party”.

For the first two hours, you keep having guys
walk up to you and say, “You’re really hot” and
“Can I get you a drink?”

Every guy that comes within ten feet of you
can’t stop looking at you, and the ones that talk
to you make it clear that they would be willing to
do anything for you…

And then you meet a guy that isn’t like any of
these other guys AT ALL.

He’s clearly not impressed with your beauty,
and he’s even busting your balls…

You can’t tell if he likes you or not, and you
feel CHALLENGED by him.

How are you going to respond?

Let’s add another element…

For some reason you can’t explain, you’re
starting to feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for him.

NOW what do you do?

That’s right: You give him all of YOUR
attention and approval… hoping that he will give
YOU some in return.

In other words, you switch from the one being
pursued to the one DOING the pursuing.

And so the question is… HOW?

How do you create this situation, and
communicate these things to an attractive woman?

How do you do it in such a way that it creates
ATTRACTION… and gets her to start pursuing YOU?

I’ve given you a lot of good ideas here.

They will get you started.

But, if you’d REALLY like to learn how to take
control of “attention and approval” and turn them
into TOOLS that you can use to attract those
“unusually beautiful” women, then I’d like to
recommend that you invest in my Cocky Comedy
CD/DVD program.

It has taken me many years of time, effort, and
energy to really “get” how to use a “personality
based approach” to attract beautiful women.

If you’ve been reading these newsletters for
any length of time, then you understand just how
important the “Cocky & Funny” technique is for
attracting women.

You may have even used it, and found that it
gets a VERY different kind of response from women
than “normal conversation”.

Well, in this program, I and some amazing guest
speakers will teach you the foundations of Cocky
Comedy… and then we’ll teach you literally
HUNDREDS of different ways to use it… with
individual scripts and lines…

And we’ll teach you how to weave it all
together into conversations in ANY situation.

This program is not only comprehensive, but
it’s COMPLETELY different from anything else
available anywhere.

It’s a concept that I’ve pioneered, and it’s
only available here.

I really encourage you to go here and watch the
video clips of the program (you’ll get a lot from
just watching the samples):

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/CockyComedy/?cid=9ZZZV7&lid=3&ll=1

And if you haven’t taken the time to go and
download my online eBook “Double Your Dating”,
then you need to do that immediately. You can
download it right now, and be reading it in
literally MINUTES. It will teach you a TON about
how to control yourself and your interactions with
women in a way that triggers ATTRACTION… go
download it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/?cid=9ZZZV7&lid=4&ll=1

And I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Don’t forget to look at my entire “catalog”
of programs to help you attract women. You can
even see video clips of every one of my different
programs when you visit…

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/?cid=9ZZZV7&lid=5&ll=1

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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>>>DATING QUESTION FROM A READER:

Hi Dave,

I’m glad you put together this newsletter because
it’s so helpful and awesome! But anyways, I have a
couple questions if you could please help me.

Number 1, I have your book and follow your stuff
and I LOVE IT…to say the least. I’ve noticed
though, that a lot of your stuff dealing with
first encounters and pickups seems to be best fit
for the club/bar scene which is great and
everything, but I’m wondering how you go about
doing pickups in regular places, like a
supermarket, store, or coffee shop for instance?
What suggestions do you have for meeting women
here and how would you personally approach a women
in these circumstances? I mean, after a
conversation has progressed, I can see how the
cocky and funny will work but I wondering about
the first encounter if you could help please.

Second, I see that one of your biggest suggestions
is seeking out other successful guys in your area
and hanging with them and learning from them. My
problem is even though I live in a huge college
campus area with PLENTY of women around and lots
of stuff to do, I can’t find any other guys in my
area who I can go out with and kick some a** with.
Most of my family and friends are back home and I
haven’t really made any close guy friends that I
can hit the clubs/bars with here (the ones I do
have are just nerds who want to stay home and just
drink only). I mean I can go out by myself but I
like having a wing with me-it’s funner that way! I
really agree with you though about the importance
of this and I was wondering if you any suggestions
on how to find other guys who you can go out and
chase tail with? See…why can’t you live closer
to me damn it!!

Thanks for everything Dave and I hope you have
more success in the future because you’ve helped
bring that to a lot of people.

Sincerely, F.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

First of all, I want to point out that the
ideas in my programs and books are NOT designed
for meeting women in clubs and bars only. Most of
my personal success with women, and most of the
success of my readers, happen in more “normal”
places like coffee shops, bookstores, schools,
parties, and even online.

I think that maybe some people just mentally
apply what they read to situations that they’re
familiar with, so it might seem that I’m talking
about “clubs and bars” when I’m really talking
about more than that.

With that said, let’s talk about some of the
“how to’s”.

I chose your particular email because of the
way it was worded. Part of the question is:

“…I’m wondering how you go about doing pickups
in regular places, like a supermarket, store, or
coffee shop for instance? What suggestions do you
have for meeting women here and how would you
personally approach a women in these
circumstances? I mean, after a conversation has
progressed, I can see how the cocky and funny will
work but I wondering about the first encounter if
you could help please…”

It sounds to me like you’re assuming here that
you should have a fairly in-depth conversation
when you first meet a woman. I think that most
guys have a fear of approaching women because they
don’t really know what to say, or where to take
the conversation. I know that was a big one for me
when I first wanted to learn this stuff.

But here’s what I learned: YOU DON’T HAVE TO
HAVE A “CONVERSATION” AT ALL WHEN YOU FIRST MEET A
WOMAN. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GET HER DIGITS!

In my ebook, I teach you how to get a woman’s
email and phone number in about 3 minutes. I know
that it kind of sounds sensational… like I’m
probably just using that as a marketing trick…
but I’m actually very serious about it.

Now, there’s a lot more to success with women
than just getting numbers. But for the sake of
this argument, let’s just say that ALL YOU REALLY
NEED TO BE CONCERNED WITH WHEN YOU’RE FIRST
MEETING A WOMAN IS GETTING HER EMAIL AND PHONE
NUMBER.

Yep, that’s it.

And you can do that in a few minutes, if you
know what to do and how to do it. I’ve had MANY
friends of mine go out with me and watch me get 5+
numbers in an evening from women, and only talk to
them for a few minutes each to do it. And I’ll
tell you what… it changes their perspectives
forever.

Long conversations are not a pre-requisite for
getting a phone number, email address, or future
date.

I can hear the arguments now:

“But no woman is going to just give out her
number…”

“What makes you think a woman is just going to
hand over her private information to a stranger?”

Well, I’m here to tell you that I, and many
guys I know, have done it SO many times that it’s
no longer a question in my mind.

And here’s why you might want to do it this
way:

Let’s say you’re relatively NEW at learning how
to approach women and begin conversations…

The longer you talk to a woman when you first
meet her, the more likely you are to say something
stupid, say something that disqualifies you in her
mind, or get into a conversation that goes down
the wrong road. It’s as simple as that.

If you don’t waste any time, and just focus on
getting her email and number, you’ll be able to
set up a second meeting… where you can focus on
taking things to the next level. And trust me,
it’s a lot easier to recover from a mistake or bad
conversation when you’re sitting across from her
alone over a cup of tea then when you’re looking
at her over the mango section in the supermarket.

Think about it.

So let’s land the plane…

The question is, “What do you do to get her to
give up the info so quickly?”.

Easy.

1) Know exactly how you want the conversation to
go.

2) Know HOW to ask.

3) Know WHEN to ask.

4) Have pen and paper on you.

Also, if you’re PARTICULARLY interested in
learning how to approach women and start
conversations, then you should get yourself a copy
of my program… it’s called “Approaching
Women”… duh! Go check out the free preview video
clips of the program and get all the details about
it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/ApproachingWomen/?cid=ZZZV7S&lid=2&ll=1

I recommend that you take a few minutes every
day to imagine having conversations with new
women. It might go something like this:

“Hi there, you’re cuter than the average woman
that I see in the produce section… are you
friendly?”

Her: “Ha ha… well, sometimes.”

“So, are you shopping for a special occasion,
or is this just a routine produce visit?”

Her: “No, just here for some fruit.”

“Nice. Are you from the area?”

Her: “Yeah.”

“Are you from here originally?”

Her: “Born and raised.”

“Well, it was nice meeting you… and enjoy
your mango…”

Her: “Thanks.”

“Hey… do you have email?”

Her: “Yeah, I do.”

Check this out… treat the “Yeah” as an
agreement to give it to you, then take a pen out
of your pocket (I prefer the Space Pen) and hand
it to her to write down her email. As she’s
writing say, “and write your number there too…
and your name, which I didn’t get…”

The key is that you have to act LIKE THIS IS
THE MOST NATURAL THING IN THE WORLD.

…OK, see how easy that was? Is that
realistic? I think so. I’ve personally gotten
HUNDREDS of emails and phone numbers (from women
I’ve just met) with dialogues like that.

I think a key is to MENTALLY REHEARSE how you
will handle yourself so you know exactly what to
do when the time comes. It all has to flow and
seem natural.

OK, to address the second part of your
question… how to meet other guys who know what
they’re doing…

I think it’s a good idea to go out once in
awhile to the local hotspots and WATCH what’s
going on. Specifically, I think it’s a great idea
to look for beautiful women that are with guys,
and watch how the GUY is behaving. Also, it’s
interesting to watch guys picking women up to see
what they’re doing. You’ll learn a few really
important things first-hand when you do this:

1) You’ll see the body language of guys that are
able to attract and keep women.

2) You’ll see the gestures and hear the voice tone
of guys that are approaching women, and see how
the women respond.

3) Invariably, you’ll see some guys are really
good with women, and you can make friends with
them. It’s easy… just say, “Hey, you are the mac
with the babes. Let me buy you a beer. I need you
to tell me a few things.” A beer is a cheap price
to pay for wisdom.

Of course, you probably realize, as I did, that
getting a number or a date is A SMALL PIECE of the
puzzle.

If you REALLY want to master all of the
different aspects of success with women and
dating, then you need to get yourself a copy of my
Advanced Dating Techniques program.

Everything I teach in my Advanced Dating
Techniques CD/DVD program is very specifically
designed to teach you the ATTITUDE and BODY
LANGUAGE and all the other little things that
cause women to feel ATTRACTION inside… for
reasons that they don’t even understand.

This program will teach you everything from how
to overcome fear and shyness to how to approach
women in different situations… all the way to
how to take things to a “physical” level smoothly
and without “rejection”.

Two more important points:

1) I’ll send it to you at zero risk… meaning
that you don’t have to pay anything at all until
you have gotten it, tried it out, experienced
success, and convinced yourself that it’s worth
many times the investment.

2) I’ll send it to you in a plain box, with no
identifying marks that indicate what’s inside.

Go get it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/?cid=ZZZV7S&lid=3&ll=1

And if you haven’t downloaded your copy of my
online eBook “Double Your Dating”, then you need
to go and do that right now. You can download it
right now and be reading it within a few minutes.
It’s here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/?cid=ZZZV7S&lid=4&ll=1

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Don’t forget to check out my entire “catalog”
of different programs. You can see them all, plus
watch killer video clips of each of them right
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/?cid=ZZZV7S&lid=5&ll=1

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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Copyright 2007 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
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reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
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affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
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***QUESTION***

First of all, lets get things straight. I don’t
like you. In fact, I hate you. Your success with
women disgusts me, and the way you have it down to
a science so well that you even make ME laugh
sometimes with your smartassed comments to the
lamers who write you vexes me. But it intrigues me
as well. Your stuff works. So I use it. Doesn’t
mean I like you. Just means I like your “tools.”

Anyway, the problem I’m having lately is I meet
and flirt with a lot of women using c&f, but when
it comes time for things to get a little physical,
they tell me they’re waiting for marriage to do
all that! WtF?! Is there a way around this kind of
a “defense” that women use on me oh so often?
(Besides dumping their celibate asses.)

Name: D Location: Bufffalo, New York.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, this is just a guess, but maybe your
challenges with women stem from the dark cloud
around your SOUL!

…ah-hem.

Dude, I can tell that you’re attempting to be
funny here, but it also sounds to me like you’ve
got some anger issues that might need professional
attention.

OK, the way to “get around” the “I’m waiting
for marriage” defense is to stop acting like a
bitter WUSSY.

If women consistently tell you, “I’m waiting
for marriage before I get physical”, it can only
mean one of two things:

1) You’re shopping for women at the convent.

2) You’re CAUSING the resistance you’re getting.

Most guys don’t realize this, but THEY are the
ones who cause women to resist and make excuses.

Really.

And by the way, don’t EVER again say that you
don’t like me, but you like my TOOL. That’s not
cool.

***QUESTION***

Dave- you da man! I just had a great experience
that I feel merits an email to you. There’s a very
upscale restaurant/bar at which you can even buy
cigars from their humidor. There’s a piano player
that plays jazzy tunes, and the place is pretty
expensive, quiet, with the aura of big money
patrons. (I love cigars and jazz, which is why I
wanted to go there so badly.)

So, as I’ve always wanted to go there, and I
finally mustered the courage to put on my best
suit and tie (complete with cufflinks), so I’d
look the part, despite the fact that I’m not rich
like the other patrons. The women there are
usually in groups, and they wreak of old money.

I sat alone and nursed a martini for about 30
minutes, while I scoped out the babes. I zeroed
in on a tall, stunningly gorgeous blond. (I have a
weakness for tall blonds.) I used the “Can I
borrow her for a minute?” trick, and it worked
like a charm! Then I teased her for having
friends who would just let her go off with a total
stranger. Then I mixed a lot of listening with a
bit of c/f once she joined me at my table.

She told me she was hungry, so I told her I was
getting hungry, too, and that I was about to
become nasty if I didn’t get something to eat
soon. Then I said, “You’re not very attractive,
but since I do happen to like that dress on you,
I’ll be a sport and let you buy me dinner just
this once.” I couldn’t believe I said that!!!! I
was a little scared that she’d get pissed off and
leave.

She ended up buying me an expensive dinner!!! Plus
I got her phone number and email. I told her I do
a lot of traveling (which I don’t), but that I’d
try to remember to call her next time I was in
town. She then asked me for my number and email!

I am still in shock. This girl looks like a
supermodel, plus she’s rich! I really want to
call her or email her, but I’m deliberately
waiting, in order to give her the gift of missing
me. And though it’s only been a day since it
happened, I still think she’ll contact me first.
Should I wait for her to contact me or should I
contact her?

J

>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol… you’re cracking me up over here.

While I don’t recommend lying to women, I still
find your story pretty funny.

Thanks for the email, and for affirming that
these concepts we’re talking about appeal
universally to women… rich and poor alike.

***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

Your book and newsletters are great and I TRULY
appreciate them, so I won’t waste time telling you
about that. I had a success story tonight that I
just had to tell you about even though it’s 4 in
the morning, I’m just that pumped. I just left a
fraternity party of mine, and there was this chick
there that has been hanging around the house and
with some of the other guys for a while (tall,
thin, blonde hair, bout an 8.5). She was at the
apartment we were partying at, and she sits down
next to me no the couch. I introduce her and have
a little small talk, and she makes a comment that
one of the guys told her that I am a photographer
(I work for a local newspaper full time) and that
she wanted me to take some pictures of her so that
she can get into modeling. I say, “So, you want
to be a parts model? You have some sexy toes?
(you’re good Dave). She says, “What, you don’t
think I’m hot?” I just kind of shrug that one
off. She acts shocked and I just go on.
Basically, all night I busted on her, looks and
everything, and she would act shocked at my
comments but I could tell she liked it (she’s
5′11, so when I leave to go to the bathroom or
whatever I tell her, “You’re like 6′5, so if
anybody takes my seat you put them in a choke
hold.” Needless to say my seat never got taken
when I told her). I couldn’t believe it Dave, I
would never have done this stuff before. She even
made a comment that I was such an a**hole and none
of the guys had ever treated her like this. I
would just smile and say “I know.” She was eating
it up. I even told her at one point to go get ME
another beer. I was shocked when she said yes.
Later I gave her a ride back to her dorm, and on
the way home she was talking about how she needs
to quit hitting on guys, and told me about a game
she plays at parties with her friends where they
bet if they can get a guy to make out with them in
a certain amount of time. I tell her I wouldn’t,
I’m not that easy. She’s like, “Not even me?” And
I go on with the not easy part and she would at
least have to buy me dinner. Long story short I
get her number and she tells me to call her like 3
times. Right before she gets out of the car I
say, “Can I kiss you?” She says yes, and I say,
“Ok, I’ll make sure to do that,”… She says oh
right and leans in to kiss ME. I couldn’t believe
it Dave. I am on a high that no drug could ever
give, and I have you to thank for it. This is
probably too long, but I had to tell you.

Thanks a million. K. in Texas

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, what else is there to say?

There’s really nothing like experiencing this
stuff in real life.

The first few times that you apply the material
and get women feeling ATTRACTION for you, are
amazing.

You wonder why the hell you didn’t figure it
all out before.

Great job. You’re the man. Thanks for the
story!

***COMMENT***

Hi Dave,

First off, not to sound like everyone else, but
your stuff rocks!!! With that being said I’d like
to offer a comment on J.M. from New Hampshire’s
predicament.

J.M. said “What’s the best way to deal with a girl
coming out and saying “oh, you’re so
cute/funny/etc…”? Should I ignore it and keep
the c/f going? Should I address it in a cocky
way?”

A couple of my favorite lines to use:

She: Your so cute. Me: If you want cute buy a
puppy.

She: Your so funny. Me: Yeah, but looks aren’t
everything.

It works great to down play her comments. Make
fun of yourself, but don’t draw too much
attention. Act disinterested in her comments and
move on with the conversation. Let’s her know you
really are comfortable in your skin and she should
really be closer to that skin!!

Hittin Heavy in Iowa, (with no sheep, LOL) S.W.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Man, I don’t even like sheep JOKES anymore.

You know, what I’m wondering is why they sell
those blow-up sheep DOLLS in the adult stores.
What’s the deal? Are they for guys that don’t even
have enough game to pick up a SHEEP?

OK, whatever.

These are great comebacks.

I personally don’t use very much humor that
makes fun of myself early on… but your stuff is
great.

Thanks for the comments.

***QUESTION***

What’s wrong with this letter. She works at Burger
King and I handed it to her. She didnt talk to me
anymore.

[The Letter]:

C,

I like you!

You have an electrifying gracious attitude at
Burger King. You are leaving soon so lets chat on
the phone. Don’t judge me by my lack of
conversation at the restaurant. I get a mental
block at times. Let me know if your interested.
OK…. Thank you

>>>MY COMMENTS:

What’s wrong with this letter?

Well, other than the fact that it’s the worst
thing I’ve ever seen, nothing really.

“You have an electrifying and gracious attitude
at Burger King…”?!

Say what?

Dude, why didn’t you just say, “I am a stalker,
and every night when I go to sleep I can see you
flipping Whoppers”?

You need the kind of help that only my ADVANCED
DATING TECHNIQUES program can give. Do not pass
go, do not collect your two hundred dollars. Go
IMMEDIATELY here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/?cid=ZZV7IZ&lid=2&ll=1

…before it’s too late.

***QUESTION***

Hey David,

I love reading your newsletters every time you
mail them out, and I am going to buy your e-book
as soon as I get back from my vacation in New
York. While I’m out there though, I’d like to
know one thing. I like the newsletters you mail
out that deal with getting a girls number for the
first time. But I can’t get myself to get started
even to that point. Yes, I know I’m really afraid
of rejection and that makes me make up excuses as
to why I won’t come up to a girl.

I completely feel the way you say that I should
come up to a girl, talk to her for a minute, then
say something like “I have to get back to work
now,” leave and then turn back and say “Hey, do
you have e-mail?” But my question is this: How do
I get a girls attention to begin with? In other
words, what do I say to her so that she will want
to talk to me for that minute you talk about? I
don’t feel like saying “Excuse me, Hi… my name
is …, do you work around here?” would be the
best solution for this. Do you?

Thanks for the newsletters because they are slowly
but surely making me grow some balls enough to get
up and go talk to a girl!

CAT, San Francisco, CA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, it’s funny…

You’re asking a question that every guy in the
world wants to know the answer to.

It’s a simple answer… and it’s a DAMN complex
answer at the same time.

One of the KEYS to approaching women you don’t
know is being able to do it as comfortably and
naturally as you call your mom.

If you get nervous, shaky, and freaked out the
woman will pick up on this… and it will make HER
nervous.

You can walk up to a woman and say, “Hi, I
don’t have time to talk, but if you’re single I’d
really like to talk to you sometime… do you have
email?”… and if you do it in a calm, comfortable
way, you can get a HIGH percentage of women to
give you their info right there on the spot with
no conversation needed.

On the other hand, if you’re freaked out,
nervous, and acting like you’re all jacked up on
speed while driving a getaway car, it doesn’t
matter WHAT you say.

Experts estimate that approximately 7% of your
communication is the words you use, and 93% is
your voice tone and body language.

In other words, the WORDS aren’t very important
at all.

So, how do you get the voice tone and body
language under control… and more importantly,
your EMOTIONS?

Well, this is a simple and complex problem as
well.

Personally, I have found that understanding
exactly how and why women feel sexual attraction
for men has DRAMATICALLY changed the way I
interact with women.

If you DON’T understand this important process,
you’re just going to be “faking” it. If you DO
understand it, you’re going to be COMMUNICATING
differently, and communicating with a different
PART of the woman.

Keep educating yourself. My eBook and Video/
audio programs will give you an amazing education
in this area, and can help transform your fear and
hesitation into ACTION.

***QUESTION***

David,

I’ve got to say that your emails have been a
great help and your CD series is unstoppable! In
both your emails and CD’s you mention movie
characters to study and model yourself after.
Could write up a list of movies that you think are
worth watching for the Cocky & Funny attitude.

Thanks Dave.

B. D. Chicago

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Some of my favorite scenes:

- Indiana Jones And The Temple Of Doom… the
after-dinner scene when they’re in the bedroom.

- Top Gun… when he follows her into the
bathroom.

- The newest James Bond flick… basically
everything.

- Gone With The Wind… the scene right after
Scarlet and Ashley are alone in that library type
room toward the beginning… when she throws the
vase and then Rhett Butler stands up from behind
the couch and starts chatting with her.

- Also, listen to how Howard Stern and David
Letterman mess with people CONSTANTLY. Great
stuff.

***QUESTION***

Dear David,

Amazing job with your e-book “Double your Dating”,
I finally understand why most of the girls I’ve
been with left me after less than a month. I had
the natural humor, but it was mostly meant for
goofing off instead of being cocky.

My question is about kissing. From my dates, in
the second or third date, I would kiss the girl
using your tips (e.g. the hair) but I am not
really sure I am getting a good *job* into kissing
a girl. Its not like I can leave a comment box
after the date? do you have any suggestions on how
to make a good and memorable kiss? You did say
that a first kiss with a girl is pretty much like
first impressions

- From one of your many loyal fans

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great question.

I’m going to share a little secret with you.

It’s a secret that I talk about all the time…
in my newsletters… my book… my seminars… my
Advanced Program.

The secret is ANTICIPATION.

Anticipation is such an important concept when
it comes to “getting physical” with a woman.

I believe that it’s important to incorporate it
into every part of your interactions with a
woman… really.

Now, if you really don’t know how to kiss a
woman, then I have a recommendation:

START SLOW, THEN MIRROR WHAT SHE DOES.

Here’s how to mix this strategy with
ANTICIPATION.

Let’s say that you decide it’s time to kiss
her. You use the “Kiss Test”, and she’s enjoying
it… so you lean over to kiss her.

Just as you start to kiss her… when you first
feel your lips touching hers… stop right there.
Brush your lips back and forth on hers a little
bit… then pull away without actually kissing
her.

Then smile at her.

You’ll probably be sitting there thinking, “Why
the hell didn’t I just kiss her?”

She’ll probably be sitting there tingling all
over, and feeling like she wants to jump on you.

Next, lean back. Talk a little more.

A few minutes later, touch her hair again.

Then lean over to kiss her again. This time, go
VERY slowly… gently press your lips against
hers. Hold them there for a moment, and feel how
she responds.

If she kisses you the same way, then just stop,
lean back, and relax again for a few minutes.

The next time you kiss her, open your mouth
just a little bit, and see if she does the same.

Do this a couple of times.

At some point, she will probably start
“escalating” the kisses, because the anticipation
is just too much for her.

At this point, stop her. Push her away, and
smile.

MORE ANTICIPATION.

Just keep mirroring how she’s kissing you as
things get more and more intense. This is a great
way to “learn” how to kiss… and she’ll enjoy it,
because you’ll be doing exactly what she likes!

By the way, if you’d like to learn how to both
SPARK and BUILD that magical thing that women call
“chemistry” and “sexual tension”, then it’s
important that you learn and MASTER the technique
that I call “Cocky Comedy”.

Before you can get into building PHYSICAL
anticipation and taking things to a PHYSICAL
level, you must trigger ATTRACTION inside of
her…

And Cocky Comedy is the one single technique
that accomplishes this for you… and the best
part is that you can do it with your COMMUNICATION
ALONE.

No good looks, no buying dinners, and no giving
lavish gifts required (in fact, these things can
actually work against you).

And what’s the best way to learn Cocky Comedy?

It’s simple: Get yourself a copy of my new
Cocky Comedy CD/DVD program.

Listen as I and my guest teachers take you
“behind the scenes”… and teach you the magic
technique that guys who are NATURALLY good with
women use to create ATTRACTION.

It took me a massive amount of time and effort
to even DISCOVER this technique… and then years
to MASTER it…

And you can learn dozens and dozens of sure-
fire lines and comebacks with just a few hours of
fun listening.

In fact, check out this email that I got from a
guy who just got this program:

“Dear Double D,

Do you remember when you said that some guys “get
it” in a week and others in a year or more? Well I
was one of the “Year or More”. Well two years,
three months, and 24 hours later I finally “get
it” and it happened right when I was about to give
up entirely.

Well let me give a little background on me. I was
that 1 in every 3 guys that are below average
looking, suffer from morbid obesity, 21,
generosity is a good thing, mom’s advice for
picking up women is the best, and always have a
date every year or so. Now I AM that 1 in every
three guys that are below average looking, 21, and
suffer from morbid obesity. I did exactly what you
told me not to do. I just jumped in head first
into the Advanced and Mastery programs, negating
all the signs saying I should go back to the
beginning. I thought to myself “Hey I can just use
the pick up lines and some of this other stuff and
I’ll be instantly successful with women.” That
didn’t work and I found my face getting very red
and my shirt getting very wet from women’s
rejections.

I got your Cocky Comedy program a few days ago. I
listened it back to back probably eleven times and
I still wasn’t getting it. Well, last Friday I
tried again using the new lines I had learned but
I still found my shirt wet. I got very upset. Now
I am not talking hissy fit upset, I am talking
“it’s go time” upset. I decided to go and blow off
some steam. I had heard that a new coffee shop was
opening up. I thought why not can’t hurt anything
more. No more than about two minutes after me
entering the shop, a feisty definite 10 redhead
walks in. I got up to try. I got behind her in
line and looked at her thinking what could I say.
She caught me looking and said “It’s not polite to
stare, you know.” I snapped back with “Then why
are you staring.” “I am not.” she said. I then
mocked it, gave her the name Kid, then she was
putty in my hand. I asked for email and then said
“You know you’re probably just going to stare at
my picture the entire time online. Why don’t you
give me you number as well?” She wrote it down and
slammed the piece of paper in my hand. “There,
happy. Now be here at 7:00 next week.” I said “No
you be at Starbucks at 7:30 next week. And I’ll
think about joining you.” “Think about it..?” she
said in a kind of cooing voice. I said dominantly
“Think about it!”

I never in all my life felt like that. And I could
never have done this without your help thanks
Double D. I’ll let you know how everything works
out.

Thanks in MS, DA”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

…lol, I guess that will teach him to start
from the beginning and learn the basics first.

Anyway, this program will teach you the one
skill you can learn FAST… that will help you
meet more women and create more attraction NOW.

I’ll even send it to you to check out for a
month with ZERO risk. I’m absolutely convinced
that it will help you succeed with more women
INSTANTLY.

If you don’t like it, just send it back and
don’t pay anything… NO JOKE.

All the details, plus some FANTASTIC sample
clips of the program are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/CockyComedy/?cid=ZZV7IZ&lid=3&ll=1

…Oh, and if you’re reading this right now and
you haven’t taken the time to download my online
eBook “Double Your Dating”, then you need to go
and do that FIRST. You can download it and be
reading it within just a couple of minutes. It’s
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/?cid=ZZV7IZ&lid=4&ll=1

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. To check out all of my programs in one handy
place, just follow this link…

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/?cid=ZZV7IZ&lid=5&ll=1

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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Hey Casanova,

I wanted to share a secret to attracting women
that I believe is one of the ULTIMATE advantages
you can have.

When I was first learning about how to get past
my internal fears… how to approach women and start
conversations… how to create attraction and
chemistry… and how to take things to the next
level… I wound up trying a TON of different
“tricks and techniques”.

Whenever I found a new “trick” that worked for
me, I felt like I had just put another piece of the
puzzle together… that I had gotten just that
much closer to REALLY understanding how things
worked.

But there was another feeling that happened
even MORE often:

It was when I would try something that had
“worked” before, but it DIDN’T work this time.

It was the feeling that I must have MISSED
something… that I must not REALLY get it.

I’m sure you know exactly what I’m talking
about here.

It was probably a couple of YEARS after
starting my quest that I had what I consider to be one of
the biggest “Ah Ha!” experiences of my life.

Here’s what my realization was:

The guys I knew who were the MOST successful
with women didn’t read books to learn a bunch of “pick
up lines”… and they didn’t rely on tricks to
attract women.

The guys I new who were MOST successful had a
certain something about them that just seemed to
MAGNETICALLY attract women.

In fact, these guys did and said things to
women that seemed like they COULDN’T work to create
attraction.

But it worked. It seemed to ALWAYS work.

At first, I just assumed that these guys must
be good-looking, or have some kind of natural charm
that I would never have.

It seemed like an “unfair advantage”.

Well, I learned that it WAS actually an unfair
advantage. But I ALSO learned that it was
something that ANY guy can have.

WARNING: What I’m about to say might sound a
little “new-agey”… but stick with me.

This “Ah Ha!” led me to an even deeper and more
powerful realization:

These men who were consistently successful with
women had a QUALITY about them, and a deep
UNDERSTANDING of how male/female attraction
works…

….SO THEY DIDN’T NEED TECHNIQUES.

Because they had this magical quality, and
because they understood how to direct and channel any
situation and conversation… they created success
without needing the tricks.

In fact, one of my friends who was VERY good
with women started LEARNING some “pick up lines”
and other tricks, and started doing WORSE with
women.
True story.

He had the quality, and the tricks messed it up
for him!

Well, after really digging into this topic and
trying to translate this “secret knowledge”… and
how to develop this quality I speak of… into a
system that a regular guy could “get” use, I
finally create the Master Key.

It’s a Master Key that will unlock doors that
NO guy with a bunch of “tricks and techniques” can
open.

It’s a key that will attract — AND KEEP — the
more desirable and attractive women… the kinds
of women that most guys will NEVER even have a
chance to date.

I could go on and on about it, but if you’re
interested in learning more about this key, then
go here and read THIS:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/OnBeingAMan/?ZV78ZZ&lid=1&ll=1

I hope this secret helps you as much as it has
helped me in my success with women.

Talk to you in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. You really should take a minute and look
through the list of programs I’ve created to help
you learn how to attract and meet women. You can
see them all right here, plus watch some KILLER
free video clips as well:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/?ZV78ZZ&lid=2&ll=1

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as “professional advice”. You are responsible for
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David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
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>>>If you’re new to my dating advice and
concepts, then you might want to take a minute and
browse through all of my different educational
programs for learning how to meet women. You can
see them all in one place right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/?cid=V7RZZZ&lid=1&ll=1

MOST MEN ARE DEATHLY AFRAID…

Most men don’t know the FIRST THING about how
to take things to a “physical” level with a woman.

Here’s why:

Let’s say you’ve been out on a date with a
woman, and you’re now back at your place, having
an enjoyable conversation.

You look over at her.

She looks back at you.

You want to kiss her.

She KNOWS that you want to kiss her.

You know that she is the one with all the
power.

If you try to kiss her, and she pulls away, she
might reject you forever.

If you DON’T try to kiss her, maybe it will
happen later, or maybe she’ll even kiss you…

The risk of being rejected FOREVER is so
powerful and creates such fear that you decide to
just “walk away” from the situation and hope
something happens later.

Or, let’s say that you’ve been out with a woman
a few times, and you have just kissed her for the
first time.

You know that she’s enjoying it.

She knows that you want her.

You’d REALLY like to do more, but you’re afraid
that if you try, you’ll be seen as “moving too
fast”, or even worse… a “pushy pervert”.

You hate the idea of being rejected after
you’ve invested all that time and come so far…

So you decide to stop and hope that maybe
things will “heat back up” later.

WE’VE ALL BEEN THERE

If you really stop and think about it, the
reason why you run into problems in situations
like these is that:

1) You don’t understand exactly what turns women
on.

2) You are afraid of rejection.

3) You don’t know what SHE’S thinking, so you
hesitate.

I honestly believe that most men CAUSE their
own problems and resistance when it comes to
“getting physical” with a woman.

Yes, you read that right… MEN are the ones
who CAUSE the problems.

It’s not the woman!

It’s the fact that you don’t understand the
situation, what’s REALLY going on, and how to
proceed.

WHAT WOMEN WANT… BUT WILL NEVER TELL YOU

Here’s a little secret that most women will
NEVER share with you…

SHE KNOWS WHAT’S ON YOUR MIND.

Women can tell what you’re thinking!

If you want to kiss her, but you’re nervous
about it, SHE KNOWS.

If you’re kissing her and want to do more…
SHE KNOWS.

And here’s the KICKER:

If you’re afraid of her rejecting you, SHE
KNOWS.

Really.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES as good at
men when it comes to reading and interpreting
subtle body language, and THEY KNOW WHAT WE’RE
THINKING.

Let me correct myself… slightly.

They know what MOST men are thinking.

If you understand the dynamics of how and why
women become sexually aroused, then EVERYTHING
CHANGES.

I’ll also mention… if you’d like to get an
education on how to increase your inner “Sexual
Confidence”… then you should check out my
program called “Power Sexuality”. Inside this
program, I will reveal to you the “sexual secrets”
that most men will simply never know. You can
check it out here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/PowerSexuality/?cid=V7RZZZ&lid=2&ll=1

Now, let’s talk a little bit about the topics
of RESISTANCE and REJECTION.

Here’s an interesting thought:

In their book “Sexual Interactions”, Albert and
Elizabeth Allgeier mention that in one study
almost 40% of women reported refusing sexual
intercourse when they actually WANTED it. They
call this “The token no”.

So, what’s going on here?

Hold on… one more thing before I discuss
this, I want to point out that this DOESN’T mean
that a woman wants a man to force himself on her.
NEVER force a woman to do anything!

Here’s what’s going on…

Women enjoy ANTICIPATION.

Anticipation leads to sexual arousal.

Write that down…

…on your forehead.

You need to remember that women like the idea
of WANTING and EXPECTING what’s going to happen.

The reason why a lot of women say that they
don’t want to sleep with men even when they do is
because the man doesn’t GET IT.

Men act like they would enjoy it if a woman
just took off her clothes and said, “Let’s do it.”

Women act like they want a man to chase them
around all night… and then MAYBE do it. Maybe.

So if you want her to feel more turned on, and
to get less “resistance”, then USE ANTICIPATION.

I have a technique that I teach that’s called
“Two steps forward, one step back”.

This is a way to INCREASE a woman’s sexual
arousal and AMPLIFY the ATTRACTION that’s already
present in the situation.

Here’s how it works:

Let’s say that you’re talking to a woman at
your place, and you start holding her hand.

After a few minutes, take your hand back and
STOP.

Lean back.

Keep talking.

A few minutes later, reach over and take her
hand again… and keep talking.

Then, lean over and kiss her (use “The Kiss
Test” as described at my website and in my “Double
Your Dating” ebook).

After you’ve kissed her, STOP.

Lean back again.

Keep talking.

A few minutes later, reach over and kiss her
again.

This time, kiss her for a little longer.

Kiss her a little deeper.

Then stop.

Lean back.

Smile.

ARE YOU WITH ME?

When you use this technique, you will be
absolutely STUNNED at the results.

First of all, it completely changes the
situation.

Instead of a woman RESISTING you, she’ll be
MUCH more likely to try to get you to DO MORE.

She’ll very likely be confused.

She’ll be thinking to herself, “What’s going on
here? Most guys try to push themselves on me, or
they don’t do anything at all. This guy seems like
he’s so in control of himself. And I keep getting
more turned on. Maybe I should tell him that we’re
not going to sleep together tonight. But this is
so great…”

And the best part of this technique is that
IT’S WHAT WOMEN WANT YOU TO DO!

Of course, they’d never TELL you this. And even
if a woman COULD explain it, she wouldn’t WANT to
tell you. Women want men who ALREADY GET IT.

I want to mention a couple of more important
things.

First, if you want to even GET to the point
where it’s time to hold a woman’s hand, kiss her,
and get even more physical, then you MUST
understand how ATTRACTION works, and how to make
women feel that powerful emotion.

If you don’t, then knowing all the fancy
techniques in the world won’t help you.

It’s also VERY useful to understand what to do
AFTER you’ve kissed a woman… the details of how
to do OTHER, more INTIMATE things.

Where can you learn this stuff?

I recommend my online eBook and my Advanced
Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program.

When you download the ebook, “Double Your
Dating”, you’ll also get three free bonus
booklets. One of them is titled “Sex Secrets”. In
that report, I explain in greater detail how to go
from one step to the next with a woman, from the
first kiss all the way to the bedroom.

In my Advanced Dating Techniques program, I
give an incredibly detailed explanation of how and
why women feel ATTRACTION for men. It’s taken me
literally YEARS to figure all of this stuff out,
and you can learn it ALL in a matter of 12 hours
of listening.

It will blow your mind, and get you a LOT of
dates.

The eBook is here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/?cid=V7RZZZ&lid=3&ll=1

The Advanced Dating Techniques Program is here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/?cid=V7RZZZ&lid=4&ll=1

I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

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***SUCCESS STORY***

Hi Dave

I’m 59 years old and I can vouch for the fact that
this stuff works no matter how old you are! I’ve
generally done reasonably well with women but I
never really understood why. Now I get it, and
its as if someone turned the light on. I have
dates coming out of my ears, girls in their
twenties, thirties and forties call me up or text
me all the time. After I bought your book I went
out clubbing on a mission to get phone numbers.
Got five which is not bad for an old man and these
chicks were all in their twenties and I dated one
of them later. I’m halfway through the audio
series now and that stuff is absolute dynamite!

Couple of C&F incidents which your readers might
like. I’m in this 400 year old pub/restaurant just
paying for my meal and complementing the barmaid
for the excellent food when this snooty pair of
girls in their late twenties sitting at the bar
said “Don’t thank her — thank the chef”. I asked
“You seem to know everyone here — did you used to
work here?” “No, we used to live here in the
village. We’ve been around as long as the
furniture” Quick as a flash I came back with.
“Really? What… 120 years old. No..I wouldn’t
have put you as a day over (pause) 110.” This
absolutely cracked them up. Unfortunately I was
with another woman so I did not get their numbers.
But this punched straight through the snooty
persona.

Just walking down the high street mid morning when
I see this bunch of girls dressed up as cowboys
leading a pantomime horse collecting money for
charity. I walked up to the tallest blondest best
looking one and said “When is it your turn to be
the back end of the horse?”. The classic deer
caught in the headlights look on her face. Who is
this guy insulting me? Then she cracked up and
said she worked in HSBC bank and I should come
over and see her. Still with C&F I said “What,
dressed like that!” Maybe I will follow that one
up and maybe I won’t.

Got to go now — hot lunchtime date with a leggy
24 year old blonde. An 8.5 on the richter scale.

Keep up the good work.

Cheers,

H. Newquay, Cornwall

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Aside from the fact that your stories are GREAT
and inspiring… they also bring up a little known
or not-often-realized point. And that point is
that it’s VERY COMMON for younger women to be
attracted to older men who are interesting and
charming.

And no, I’m not talking about Anna Nicole Smith
and her four thousand year old bazillionairre dead
husband who only survived one year of her whining
mouth before checking out.

I was just on the phone yesterday with one of
the guys who came to my New York seminar… he’s
in his late 40s and he’s dating beautiful women in
their 20s and 30s, and having no problems at all.

If you have game, your age doesn’t matter much
at all.

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

I have been reading your stuff (ebook & n/letters)
for a while now and have been enjoying some new
experiences. Although I think your stuff is
bang-on, I am still having a lot of trouble. I am
a pretty shy, quiet, introverted type of guy and
as such, have never had much success with women. I
am 31yrs old, pretty decent looking, fit/active,
gainfully employed, etc so don’t have to worry
about that stuff. But as you so often mention,
that’s not what really matters anyway. I can get
phone #s, get 1st coffee dates and often 2nd dates
but when I try to take things to the next level,
that’s where it usually ends. When I first go out
with someone, she seems quite interested at first
but that seems to fade fairly quickly as if I am
doing something to turn them off. There’s always
lots of “awkward silences” and “talking about the
weather”. Its always like she seems bored and I’m
struggling for things to say/talk about which
usually ends in her hitting the road. I did used
to be overly “nice” and “wussy” but have started
doing that way less now yet something still lacks.
I really have a hard time with the whole
teasing/flirting/ C&F stuff you always go on
about. Which is probably the trouble, eh? How do I
overcome this and start incorporating this stuff
into my dating when it seem so unnatural to me?
Also, I am somewhat inexperienced sexually which
occasionally concerns me. how can one prevent that
from getting in the way of success ? I hope you
can answer my questions as I’d really appreciate
your help. Thanks and keep up the good work!

AB, BC Canada

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, the first thing I want to point out is
that at some point in your life EVERYTHING felt
unnatural to you.

This is just another skill you’re going to need
to learn.

Don’t let the idea that you’ve been shy up
until now lead to a mental block about the issue.
Just get out there and practice and work with the
materials.

Next, it’s probably a good idea for you to
start ONLINE.

Get an AOL account or some free instant
messenger account and start messaging women to
chat. Chatting online gives you time to consider
what you’re going to say, and it keeps
distractions to a minimum. There’s no body
language to deal with, etc.

Every day, take some time to read the sections
in Double Your Dating on humor and being Cocky &
Funny, and then get online and practice. If you
have my CD Series, then listen to the sections on
communicating with women as well.

Finally, you really need to make friends with a
couple of guys who are good with women, and WATCH
what they do in person. You’ll learn a lot by
combining what you’ve learned with the real-world
experience of watching guys in person who are
skilled at attracting women. This combination
should help you get up to speed much faster.

***QUESTION***

Jedi Master Dave,

I was receiving your newsletters for a while and
finally went and bought your ebook. And that book
is absolute gold!! I had become single again and
had not remembered the true art of meeting women
until now. But I recently ran into a problem. I
was at a party and met this girl, we’ll call her
Cat. She was about an 8 or so. I was totally
using the C & F routine on her and she was just
eating it up. At this party they only had beer
and I wanted to drink something else so as I was
leaving I turned and asked Cat to go with me. As
we got into the car I had “accidentally” left my
book on palm reading on the passenger seat. And so
when she saw this book she asked if I could read
her palm right there in the car. And of course I
told her no, maybe later. So we got back to the
party and started reading her palm and I totally
freaked out! It was a blast!!! Palm reading is
the ultimate bridge! It worked amazingly!! I had
told her because of the size of the pad of her
thumb that she was very sensitive to touch, and
slowly ran my fingers up her arm!! It was great!!
So we were hanging out and then I found out one of
my best friends was in the bathroom puking his
brains out. So being the good friend that I am I
had to go and check on him and make sure he was
alive. So when I came back to Cat there was this
guy (that I went to high school with) talking with
her, when I arrived he had left. And Cat told me
that the guy had told her some interesting stuff
about me. But she refused to tell me what he had
said. So then she went to kiss me and I turned my
head and refused to kiss her and I walked away and
started talking to some friends of mine. So she
came up to me and told me what he said. He had
told her that I was a player and to be careful of
me. So then the whole rest of the night she kept
on dropping little hints about me being a player.
I just denied it and said that yes I do go out
with a lot of women but I don’t “play” them. So
then things started getting pretty hot and heavy
between us. And she kept on saying “she never
does stuff like this with someone she just met”
and “this is moving very fast” and she had this
guard up, how would I go about getting this guard
down when she already has this idea in her head
that I’m a player?! Also in your book you say not
to tell them where you work, live, etc… so then
what do you say when they ask you about it?!

Thanx for your wisdom, M in Chicago

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, cool friend from high school.

I really love JACKASS guys who like to tell
women negative things about you because they’re
insecure and have no game.

Charming, isn’t it?

OK, great job… you’re on track here.

You were actually doing fine, and you didn’t
even realize it…

If you’re getting “hot and heavy” with a woman
you’ve just met, and she starts saying things like
“I don’t do this kind of thing with someone I just
met” or “this is moving fast” it doesn’t mean that
she’s not enjoying it! And it also doesn’t mean
she wants to stop.

Often, women just aren’t used to getting
physically involved with a guy so quickly, and
their self image is telling them that this is
unusual.

If you want to make light of the situation,
just stop kissing and say, “OK, well then let’s
just be friends”. After she opens her mouth with a
shocked look, then KISS her again.

When you hear a woman say, “this is moving very
fast” just realize that you’re doing the RIGHT
things, not the wrong things. “I don’t usually do
stuff like this with someone I’ve just met”
usually translates into, “But I’m about to do it
now”.

IMPORTANT NOTE: If a woman ever asks you to
stop, pushes you away, or indicates that she does
not want to continue directly, then by all means
stop. Never force yourself on a woman. If you do,
you’re a dumb ass and deserve all the love and
affection you’ll be getting from BUBBA, your new
cellmate.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

what else can I say but thank you. You changed my
life completely. Before reading your book I had
had 3 other girlfriends throughout my life, I’m 19
so maybe some people wouldn’t necessarily see that
as a bad thing. But let me tell you, after you
experience this type of new found dramatic
change, you definitely come out a happy camper.
Now I can finally say with all honesty “I GET IT”.
I’ve only encountered one problem with your
techniques (a problem that most guys would kill
for). When your confident, you come across many
women who pretend to be confident at first glance
but after you start busting on them they paralyze,
they totally freeze without knowing what to say,
and then they come out with some dumb comment
trying to be funny. I know it sounds mean, but a
wussy woman is equally as unattractive to an
overly confident guy as a wussy-boy to an
attractive confident woman (sure it can be fun).
Oh well, I guess its just one of those things I’ll
have to live with until I find a woman with the
same mentality. Oh and you know what I
reaaaaaaaaaally love doing in those cases, that
whole thing of taking two steps forward and one
back, its great seeing women chasing you for a
change. So a word of personal advice for you,
(like many women have already suggested). You
should market this product for women. Man, I can
only imagine how much fun that would be.

Later bro, thanx again.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh yes, isn’t it great when you start to see
how this whole thing really works?

And yes, a “Wussy Woman”, as you put it, isn’t
very attractive when you have choices.

Good job, thanks for the email and comments.

***QUESTION***

Hey man.

I love your stuff, and anyone who doubts that this
cocky and funny stuff works is either blind or
simply has not tried it. I have a question
though… would it be to my advantage to use cocky
and funny lines while *in the process* of making
love to a woman? I’m not talking about during
foreplay or using it to turn her on or after the
sex when she’s curled up next to you in bed, I
mean DURING actual intercourse. Is this the one
time that you should give cocky and funny a rest
and be serious and intimate, or would you say a
woman would enjoy a little teasing while in the
act?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a sensitive subject, and it’s a GREAT
question.

Being Cocky & Funny is all about flirting,
teasing, and communicating with a woman in a way
that shows that you’re not at all intimidated by
her.

It’s not about hurting a woman, making her feel
bad, or being abusive in any way.

But when you’re making love, it’s a special
situation.

Most people let their emotional guard down
during the process of having sex, and it’s
probably not a good time to tease and bust on a
woman.

That’s my two cents on the subject.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

Just thought I would share my recent success. I’ve
been trying the online personal stuff to get some
practice. At first I would send the following
WUSSY email:

“I saw your profile and think we might have
some things in common. I have included my profile
for you. Please let me know if you are interested
in knowing more. Hope to talk to you soon”

As you can guess not many responses and those who
did, not very desirable. But with your help I
changed my approach and almost have to fight them
back with a stick. Here is my new and improved
response.

“Saw your profile and I think you deserve a
chance to get to know me. I think we could get
along well. I’ve included my profile. If you are
interested (which I know you will be). drop me a
line, and if you sound as interesting as your
profile says I might write back ”

Guys this stuff works. Also just received the
CD’s, great work. They have helped changed my
life and not just in the dating world.

Thanks for all your hard work.

R. New Orleans, La

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Love it.

If you act like a Wussy, women will not be
attracted to you… it’s just that simple.

Your first response sounded weak and AVERAGE.
It sounded like every other guy in the world.

Your second is Cocky, Funny, and playful. Women
aren’t interested in being BORED TO TEARS by some
uninteresting guy who says, “Hi, here’s my
profile, please let me know if you’re interested
in knowing more”. They want a challenge, they want
electricity… they want someone who can hold
their interest.

Women aren’t interested in finding another
FRIEND when it comes to dating and romance. They
want someone who makes them feel ATTRACTION!

As a side note, if you’re reading this right
now and you want to learn more about how to use
this great technique that I call “Cocky & Funny”
to create ATTRACTION with women, then go and check
out my Cocky Comedy CD/DVD program. It will teach
you a ton of different “lines” for every type of
situation… along with the METHOD for creating
your own.

You can read about it and watch some great free
video preview clips right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/CockyComedy/?cid=7ZZZV7&lid=2&ll=1

***QUESTION***

You are the man. Never have I had this kind of
success with women. You deserve major props. I was
the typical wussie boy that would do just about
anything to get the girl, then I got your
newsletters and started seeing how much success
these guys were having with women. Finally, after
about 5 or more months of procrastinating, I
decided I needed a change in my life and took
action. On to my success story… I was at this
party last night with a couple of friends, and the
girl to guy ratio was very small, then I saw this
one girl come in at least a 8.5, ok, so she was a
9. At first she didn’t seem to interested in
talking with me, so I laid on a comment about the
outfit she was wearing. She chuckled about it. So
we talked, well I talked and she just laughed.
After about 3-5 minutes, she decides she wants to
dance with me. I refuted until she gave in, then I
went out to dance. She followed right behind me.
So after all was said and done, she gave me her
number and a peck on the cheek. Thus, I didn’t get
to talk to any of the other girls either. And this
is where I have a question, how can you bring an
effective end to a conversation without having to
leave the scene?

You’re Ever So Grateful Student,

AD, Connecticut

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, the problem in these types of situations
is that most guys don’t want to get a woman’s
number, then be seen talking to other women or
getting other numbers because they don’t want to
be seen as “players” or as insincere.

Get over it.

If you enjoy talking to a woman, and you’d like
to get her number AND go talk to other people,
just say, “Here, write down your email and number.
I’m going to get back to my friends” and DO IT.

You’re only going to be seen as more
interesting if you are talking to all the women at
the party.

***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***

Hey Davemeister, I was wondering if cocky and
funny techniques would work for a woman? I have
been getting your newsletters for several months
now and I love reading all the success stories. It
is interesting to see the male psyche in action. I
can agree with so much of what you say. Women hate
wusses!!! I just wondered if guys would buy into
a woman acting funny and cocky. I can play off of
a guy who is being cocky and funny, but have never
tried it as a pick up. Any advice for the
females?

SH ~Nashville~

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Cocky & Funny works GREAT for women.

Unfortunately, most guys are total WUSSES, and
therefore can’t handle it.

I’m doing my very best to change this, but it
might take a little while…

You’ll find that most guys will buckle if you
bust on them too much too early… but this is
kind of a good thing, because it weeds out the
girly-men early on for you… and helps you find
ME faster.

Kiss Kiss

***QUESTION***

David:

I just keep improving and I owe most of it to you.
I wrote to you a while ago and said my “new life”
at college was off to a great start. Well, things
are getting even better. I have more girls than I
can remember the names of who are positively
desperate for my attention (I’ve learned their
name comes up eventually, its not that hard to
fake it…LOL).

Though I struggled with this it at first, I have
learned an important lesson regarding success…
even though I am much happier now, I keep the same
desire to succeed as when I was unhappy. By
maintaining a constant desire to succeed (which
can be hard as people tend to be content with what
they have when they should continue to do what
made them happy in the first place) I will get
better and better and more good results will come.

However, part of getting better is talking to
masters, and since you’ve taught me as much as
anyone, I pose a question to you: You have oft
said to avoid cocky and funny at the VERY
beginning, and bring it in later, and my
experiences reflect this. I have found that there
is a fairly large percentage of girls who do not
respond well to this type of interaction when you
are trying to get her email.

Certainly a large enough percentage to make me
convinced that there has to be a better way. Your
ebook details specific things to say in this
critical first 3 minutes, but as we both know,
what you say is not nearly as important as how you
say it. So my question is, what has worked best
for you in terms of what characteristics to convey
in this first interaction? If not cocky and funny,
then what? Thanks again, R

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I love you, man. And that’s not my mineral
water talking.

This is a VERY intelligent question. I wish I
would have thought of it myself.

You’re right. I’ve found that if you want to
just walk up to a woman and walk away with her
number 3 minutes later, it’s better to be more
DIRECT about it.

If you’re in a bar, and the girl standing next
to you starts up a conversation, then it makes
sense to move right into the flirting, Cocky &
Funny attitude.

But if you want to approach women and get
numbers/emails quickly, then you need something a
little different.

I personally think that you need to convey a
direct, matter of fact air of “this is the most
natural thing in the world”.

If you act like it’s normal and natural, then
she will.

If you act uncomfortable and nervous, then she
will do that too.

Most guys are very nervous about approaching
and starting conversations with women. They get
all uptight and start acting sketchy at just the
THOUGHT of walking up to a woman and asking her
for her number.

If you can just realize that women WANT to meet
men, and that they WANT men to approach them, it
makes you consider that women probably want guys
who aren’t acting nervous and insecure.

Right?

So be direct.

If you’d like, you can use the “One Compliment”
approach.

Give her a compliment to start the conversation
(but don’t give her any more for a LOOOOOONG
time).

Pause to create an air of mystery.

Try saying, “Hi, you are… … beautiful and I
had to take a moment and meet you.”

The pause is priceless. Look directly into her
eyes as you talk… and as you pause. This
communicates that you’re NOT AFRAID of her.

Then make small talk for a minute. Ask her
name, ask her if she’s from the area, etc. Then
use the 3 Minutes email/number technique.

The objective is to get her information, not to
start an interesting dialogue.

Now, if you want to ask her to coffee right on
the spot, etc. then you might want to be Cocky &
Funny right off the bat.

Remember that there’s always time to show off
your Cocky & Funny charm the next time you see
her.

…and that about wraps it up.

If you’re reading this right now, and you’d
like to learn more about how to approach women,
get numbers, get more dates, and have more success
with women in general, then I’d highly recommend
that you check out my CD Audio Program “Advanced
Dating Techniques”.

It includes over 12 FULL HOURS of me teaching
exactly what to do in order to attract the kinds
of women that you’ve always wanted.

You’ll learn literally DOZENS of ways to meet
and approach women, including some of my personal
secrets you won’t find anywhere else.

All the details, plus several free sample clips
are at:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/e/$sourceid$/AdvancedSeries/?cid=7ZZZV7&lid=3&ll=1

And if you haven’t downloaded my eBook “Double
Your Dating” and the three bonus booklets that
come along with it, then you need to do that
IMMEDIATELY. It’s the foundation for everything I
teach in these newsletters, and it’s the best
place to start.

Go here to download it:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/?cid=7ZZZV7&lid=4&ll=1

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Don’t forget to look at all of my different
programs… you can check them out, plus watch
some great video clips of each of them right here:

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1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
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2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
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your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
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4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

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…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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>>>Note: If you’d like to read the story of how I
learned to meet women, plus watch video clips of
all my different dating advice programs, then take
a minute and check this out:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/?cid=ZZZV7Q&lid=1&ll=1

You know, it’s been too long since we talked
about how to get a woman’s email address and phone
number quickly after meeting her.

I thought it might be time to have another
conversation about it, and give you some more
great ideas…

THE CHALLENGE…

I can still remember exactly what it was like
before I learned some of the secrets of how to
meet women.

I have very clear memories of women that I saw
literally YEARS ago who I wanted to meet… but I
just didn’t know what to do or how to do it.

In some of the cases, I was actually talking to
the girl, enjoying a conversation… and REALLY
wanting to ask her for her number… but I just
didn’t do it.

But WHY?

Why didn’t I just say, “Hey, give me your
number?”

The fact is that I was AFRAID.

I was afraid that I’d say the wrong thing, or
that the woman I was talking to would say “no”, or
that I’d offend her… or whatever.

At the time, I always assumed that this was
some kind of strange curse that I had. I was
afraid of women, and didn’t know what to say to
them, and I was ALONE.

In other words, I not only felt like I had a
SERIOUS insecurity issue and fear, but even WORSE,
I didn’t feel like I could TELL anyone about it…
or get help.

I felt like a dork if I even MENTIONED the
topic to other guys… as if even talking about it
made it clear that I was a loser who didn’t even
deserve an answer.

So here I was, over and over again, in
situations where I would see women I wanted to
meet… but I just didn’t know what to do.

And I didn’t know what would happen if I DID do
something. I was afraid of the unknown.

Eventually, this led me to believe that there
was probably something wrong with ME – that I
should just accept and deal with it… and that
I’d probably wind up either alone or having to
settle for a relationship with a woman that I
wasn’t attracted to.

Ever been there?

THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION…

Well, when I finally made the decision to learn
about how to meet women on MY terms, I made it my
goal to learn how to get women’s phone numbers.

I “naturally” assumed that if I was able to get
a woman’s number, that would be the key. That was
the “hard part” to me. If I could approach women
and get their numbers quickly, I thought I would
be “The Man”.

So I went to work.

Here’s what I learned…

To begin with, I learned that most women will
respond somewhere between “neutral” and “positive”
to being “approached” by a man.

Explained differently, out of the hundreds and
hundreds of times that I’ve started conversations
with women and seen my friends start conversations
with women, I have VERY, VERY rarely seen a woman
respond by getting upset, saying something rude,
or acting offended.

The typical worst case scenario is a woman not
even stopping and just walking away, or responding
coldly.

And like I said, this is a typical WORST case.

Another important lesson that I learned is that
when a woman responds in a way that is something
other than positive and receptive, it’s usually
about HER, not about ME. In other words, either
she’s not a nice person, she’s not available,
she’s in a hurry, she’s in a bad mood, or
whatever… things that aren’t within my control,
and that aren’t my fault (or problem).

I also realized that I was CAUSING a major
problem for myself without even realizing it…

I used to have this idea that it would be
better if a woman didn’t think that I was
“interested” in her. I thought that if I could
figure out a way to start a conversation and make
her like me because I was a “nice guy”, then I
could somehow get her to see me in a “more
romantic” light later on.

HUGE MISTAKE.

Little did I know, but women ASSUME that you’re
interested in MORE than friendship from the very
beginning, no matter WHAT you do or say.

So when you try to act all innocent and
friendly, like you just want to be friends, women
usually assume that you’re HIDING something, or
that you’re just another major Wuss Boy…

This is a bad thing.

I learned that it is FAR better to make no
excuses at all and NEVER try to cover up the fact
that you’re approaching her.

Later on, as you’re talking to her over tea or
coffee, and you’re teasing her, making fun of her,
and busting on her, SHE’LL start to wonder on her
own what the hell is going on… which is perfect.

In the beginning, just be damn good at what
you’re doing… and don’t try to cover it up or
pretend.

Pretending that you’re a nice, friendly guy
who’s only starting an innocent conversation is a
direct express route to an evening of self
touching.

>>>Before I get to “the goods”, I need to
mention something. If you’d like to become a
MASTER of approaching women and starting
conversations, then make sure you check out my
“Approaching Women” DVD/CD program. It’s the
ULTIMATE education on this topic. If you’d like to
see some video clips of the program and get all
the details, just go here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/ApproachingWomen/?cid=ZZZV7Q&lid=2&ll=1

THE GOODS…

OK, so here are a few pointers when
approaching:

1) It’s OK To Ask Immediately…

It STILL amazes me that a woman will give her
phone number and/or email address to a guy after
only a minute or two of conversation… but it’s
true.

If you act cool about it, so will she.

Do this: After talking for a minute or two say,
“I’m going to get back to my friends” (Or whatever
you were doing), and then turn away from her and
begin to leave.

If you’re getting ready to actually LEAVE the
place where you are (say you’re at a bar, and
you’re getting ready to go home or go somewhere
else), it’s even BETTER.

In that case say, “We’re going to leave… it
was nice talking to you”… then turn away.

Now, just after you break eye contact and turn
away, TURN BACK and say, “Hey!”

She’ll look back up, and be surprised…

2) Start With Something “Low Risk”

…as she looks up ask, “Do you have email?” in
a calm, normal tone of voice.

When she says “Yes” – you say, “Great, give it
to me, I’d like to talk to you again”.

Then pull out a pen, and hand it to her.

As she’s writing down her email address, just
as she writes the @ symbol (in other words, in the
middle), say “…and write your number there
too….”

Finally, tell her to write her name down as
well.

Why do it this way?

Good question.

- At first you’re asking, “Do you HAVE email?”

This is a no-brainer. If she does (and most
women do), she’ll say, “Yes”. You’re just treating
the “yes” as if she said, “Yes, I’ll give it to
you…” It’s a smooth, easy way to ask a “low
risk” question, and have a woman be the one to
MOST likely give you her information.

- Email is considered “safe”.

I mean, what are you going to do, send her 100
emails a day? Ooooohhh, scary.

- You’re waiting until she’s actually in the
MIDDLE of writing down her email for you to ask
her to also write her number down.

This makes it FAR more likely that she’ll give
you her number. At this point she’s already
demonstrating to you and her that she’s OK with
you contacting her again… and since she’s
ALREADY writing, she’s very likely to just KEEP
writing… her number.

3) The “Do You Have A Card” Variation

You can also ask, “Do you have a card?” if you
choose.

This is a classy, low risk way to ask a woman
for her contact information.

Now, a lot of women DO NOT have cards, so
you’re going to need the follow-up for when she
says, “No, I don’t have one on me”… such as
“Well, invent one for me!”

This is funny, charming, and smooth.

Just take out a pen, and hand it to her.

She’ll know what to do.

4) Be Ready

Probably half to two thirds of the time, a
woman will just write down her email for you.

It’s AMAZING how easily women will give out
their email addresses.

But sometimes you’ll meet with resistance.

I can’t go into all of the millions of possible
scenarios, but I will talk about the most COMMON
one.

Probably a quarter of the time, a woman will
say something like, “I don’t give out my email to
people I don’t know” or “I don’t even know you”
etc.

This one used to REALLY stump me… until I
found a simple solution…

Here it is: Just point to the paper, and say
“Write it down”.

If she keeps resisting, make a joke.

Say, “It’s OK, just write it down. I’ll only
email you every five minutes for the next month.”

The SIMPLE “Write it down” works wonders.

You’ll probably overcome HALF of the “I don’t
give out my email/number” comments with this one
simple answer. Use it.

5) Mentally Rehearse

One of the greatest investments you can make in
yourself is MENTAL REHEARSAL.

Take some time to imagine exactly what it’s
going to be like when you ask a woman for her
email/number.

Close your eyes, and picture a situation.

Imagine how you’re going to be standing, what
you’re going to say, what she’s going to say, how
you’re going to take out the pen and hand it to
her, how you’re going to answer any objections
that she gives you.

Don’t wait until you’re in the situation to
realize that you don’t know how to handle
something!

You’ll realize all kinds of great stuff when
you mentally rehearse.

You’ll be vividly imagining a great
conversation, then you’ll get to the part where
you ask, “Do you have email?” and she says, “Yes”
and you say, “Great, give it to me, I’d like to
talk to you again…” and as you mentally put your
hand in your pocket you’ll realize that you don’t
usually carry a pen with you!

Or you’ll realize that you don’t carry paper
with you.

Or you’ll realize that your pen is usually in
your jacket, which is usually on the back of your
chair, and not with you at the bar.

When you mentally rehearse, you program
yourself for success. So just DO IT!

6) Don’t Sell Too Far In Advance

This is SUCH an important concept. Maybe even
the most important thing I’m going to say.

When you’re getting a woman’s email and number,
DO NOT try to convince her to marry you on the
spot!

Don’t “ask her out”.

Don’t tell her that your mom is going to love
her.

Don’t ask typical stupid questions like, “Do
you have a boyfriend”… and make it seem like
you’re qualifying her for marriage.

No, no, nooooo!

As a matter of fact, the ONLY thing you want to
do is get her information.

Many guys make the mistake of talking about
going out on a date, being interested, etc. or
tipping the woman off in some way that he’s VERY
interested in her.

This creates pressure and resistance. There’s
ZERO mystery or tension created when you do this
stuff.

All you have to say is, “I’d like to talk to
you again.” That’s enough.

And by the way, when you DO talk to her again,
make sure you avoid the same mistake! Don’t talk
future and relationship and marriage then either.

Just take things to the next step, which should
be a simple thing like tea and stimulating
conversation.

One small step at a time, and don’t sell too
far in advance… ever. It only creates resistance
and nervousness on the part of the woman when you
hint that you’re “interested” in a big way.

So there you go… you’ve now learned how to
get a woman’s email and number within minutes of
first meeting her.

Use this stuff, it’s taken me YEARS to figure
it all out…

And if you’d like to know what to do AFTER you
get her email and number, I have some advice for
you. Check out my Advanced Dating Techniques
Series.

Remember at the beginning of this email when I
mentioned that I originally thought to myself that
if I could get a woman’s number fast, I would be
“the man”?

Well, I quickly learned that there is A LOT
more to this than just being able to get numbers
fast (although being able to get a woman’s number
in 2 or 3 minutes doesn’t exactly suck)…

There are many steps between first meeting a
woman and getting her to feel a POWERFUL GUT LEVEL
ATTRACTION for you… and between her feeling that
attraction and the two of you “getting physical”.

If you know all the steps, and how this all
works it will likely go very smoothly and
naturally. If you DON’T know all the steps, it
will likely NOT go smoothly AT ALL, and you’ll run
into more problems than you can imagine.

That’s where my Advanced Dating Techniques
program comes in…

You will get over 12 solid hours of digital
video and/or audio of me teaching everything from
the ground up on how to take things all the way
from beginning to end… from the first meeting
through the first date…all the way to the
bedroom, and beyond.

You’ll learn how to overcome your limiting
beliefs about women… how to eliminate your fears
of talking to women… how to make women feel
ATTRACTION for you, even if you don’t have money
or looks, etc.

In other words, it’s a complete system.

You’ll learn everything you need to know in
order to start meeting and dating more women
IMMEDIATELY.

The best part?

You have ZERO risk.

I’ll send the program to you… and you can try
it for a month. If you don’t like it, just send it
back and you don’t have to pay anything.

Isn’t that the way it SHOULD be?

All the details, and some great audio and video
samples are here… check it out:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/?cid=ZZZV7Q&lid=3&ll=1

…and if you STILL haven’t downloaded your
copy of my original eBook “Double Your Dating”,
then you need to do that now. It’s jam packed with
dozens and dozens of my personal techniques for
meeting and dating women, and it comes with THREE
great bonus booklets that aren’t available
anywhere else. Go download it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/?cid=ZZZV7Q&lid=4&ll=1

I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. If you’re serious about learning how to
attract women, make sure you check out all of the
other programs I’ve put together to teach you. You
can watch video clips of all of them right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/?cid=ZZZV7Q&lid=5&ll=1

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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Hey Casanova,

Let me ask you… honestly…

Do you ever worry that you might be coming
across as “nerdy” to women?

I don’t mean “nerdy” as in, into comic books
and computers… I mean nerdy as in the OPPOSITE
OF COOL.

Call it “dorky”, “wussy”, whatever… they are
all synonyms for one thing:

UNDESIRABLE.

These are all names women use to describe guys
who behave and act in a way that is the OPPOSITE
of what they want.

There is an old saying in poker that goes like
this:

“If you can’t spot the “sucker” at the table
within a few minutes of sitting down, then YOU are
the sucker.”

I love it.

And after going through most of my life as the
type of guy that women saw as a “nerd”, FINALLY
doing something about it… then showing other men
how to do the same, I know now that one thing is
for sure:

If you are not 100% CERTAIN that you AREN’T
coming across as “nerdy” to women… then you
probably are.

And if you’re struggling with getting women’s
phone numbers after you approach them, or getting
second dates… then you DEFINITELY are.

WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT

I remember when I first started on the path of
trying to become more successful with women, I
figured that if I could just figure out the right
things to SAY… everything else would fall into
place.

I was looking for the “pick up lines”… and
“routines” I could use to basically FOOL women
into taking an interest in me.

What I didn’t realize at the time was that a
“nerd” who is armed with lines and techniques IS
STILL A NERD.

It was only when I figured out all of the OTHER
STUFF that I started having success… the stuff
that REALLY MATTERS.

What stuff is that?

I’m glad you asked.

I just finished up a KILLER interview with a
guy who went from being perceived by women as a
“nerd” they wanted to AVOID to an attractive, COOL
guy they want to be with.

He was able to make this transformation in a
very short time by figuring out a few key
principles that women use to “size” a man up, and
putting them into action.

His results were remarkable… and in this
hard-hitting interview he’ll show you how
understanding and applying these 6 powerful
concepts will 100% GUARANTEE that you are ALWAYS
perceived by the women you meet as a “catch”.

If you’re looking for a way to skyrocket your
game INSTANTLY… get ready… because this is
TRULY powerful stuff.

Here is a small sample of what you are going to
learn:

-A dangerous mistake nearly all beginners make
when meeting a woman for the first time that
INSTANTLY causes her to see you as UNDESIRABLE

-How to go from conversation to physical contact
SMOOTHLY… and with ZERO chances of rejection

-The scientific PROCESS of attraction and how to
LEAD A WOMAN THROUGH IT (This is the exact method
“naturals” use to actually CREATE attraction in
the women they meet instead of hoping it will
happen on it’s own…)

-How to show a woman that your emotional state is
INDEPENDANT of her actions (Use this to make sure
she doesn’t see you as “needy” and make yourself
very attractive by doing LESS work and LESS
talking)

-What to do when another guy comes up and starts
talking to the woman you are talking to (Most guys
lose their composure when this happens and screw
up BIG TIME. Here’s what to do instead to make
yourself look like the OBVIOUS best choice)

-Why you need to take things to the next level
FAST (Here’s how to show a woman you are the type
of SPONTANEOUS, exciting man she wants within the
first few minutes of a conversation)

-How to build CREDIBILITY with a woman and let her
know you are a cool guy who “gets it”

-The simple word to use when describing your
friends that lets her know you are a REAL person
AND makes her feel safe around you very quickly…
making her MUCH more likely to want to see you
again… and go further with you physically

-A place to SIT when you have a woman over to your
house for the first time that makes her want to
COME TO YOU instead of feeling “pressured” to get
physical

-A fantastic, never-fail way to approach a woman
who is working at a store (If you can’t approach a
woman who is on the job after learning this one
there is something wrong with you… it’s BRAIN
DEAD SIMPLE and perfectly sets the stage for a
great conversation)

-A way to isolate a woman when she is with her
group of friends that makes it feel like it was
HER idea to get you alone!

-What to say when a woman gives you a compliment
on your shirt (This one is truly awesome)

-A great move to lead into PHYSICAL CONTACT when a
woman gives you a compliment!

-What to say when a girl compliments your cologne

-What to say if a girl makes fun of you or rejects
you to INSTANTLY turn things around and get her
laughing

-My friend’s step-by-step formula for “getting
physical” that he uses with EVERY single woman he
meets (This one is PURE GENIUS… my friend has
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allow you to slowly ramp up physical escalation
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her ULTRA EXCITED and turned-on during the
process)

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come over that all but GUARANTEES she won’t say
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nightclub, or anywhere else that NEVER FAILS to
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***QUESTION***

Hey Dave, how’s it hanging?

Read your stuff…interesting. Makes a lot of
sense to appear different then all the others. I
have one question, however. This C&F stuff (can I
call it “friendly mocking”?) really only works on
women who are sure of themselves and who will not
take your jokes to the heart. But how many of
those are in the world? I mean, with today’s
“perfect” pop-stars most women have at least some
insecurities. So, how can you use this technique
and not accidentally hit a weak spot? Is there a
neutral C&F approach?

J Brooklyn, NY

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I think you’re hitting on an important point
here.

I think that a lot of guys “secretly” want to
figure out a way to meet women without RISKING
anything.

This is probably why personal ads and online
dating web sites are so popular.

The problem with not wanting to RISK anything
is that it creates a mindset that leads to being
AVERAGE.

And “average” doesn’t create ATTRACTION.

I teach guys to use a specific kind of humor
that I call “Cocky & Funny”.

One of the purposes of the Cocky & Funny
technique is to clearly demonstrate that you are
NOT intimidated by a woman, and to INSTANTLY
communicate that you are DIFFERENT from other men.

You’d like to know the magic way to “not
accidentally hit a weak spot”…

But guess what?

Accidents happen.

Risk is part of life.

Don’t worry so much about hitting a “weak spot”
while you’re teasing or busting on a woman… just
concern yourself with making sure you’re being
FUNNY while you’re doing it.

If you meet a woman who is so sensitive that
she can’t take a joke, or you “accidentally” over
do it, don’t worry about it. No biggie.

She’s probably either too uptight or
emotionally fragile for you to have a good time
with anyway.

If you want to make a cake, you have to break a
few eggs, man.

Remember, your objective isn’t to be MEAN to
women, or to hurt them… your objective is to use
a specific type of humor to create ATTRACTION.

And give up this “neutral” idea. Neutral is
BORING. And Boring is NOT the way to create
ATTRACTION.

***QUESTION***

David “The Man”–

First of all, your Advanced CD Series is THE most
definitive exhaustive resource on dating ever
written. It boggles my mind that nobody ever
figured this stuff out before. You are the
research scientist that broke the mold of all that
bookstore fluff, the Darwin of Dating.

I can now approach and get the email of a woman
who would have made me shake in my boots just a
few months ago. My most recent success was a girl
I dated who I turned up the C+F to the max, but my
old inner wussy made a brief appearance and that
was that. Oh well. “Next!” I’ll get better and
better.

I have improved quite a bit, but I’m looking for
some guy friends as you suggest. However, I’m
having a problem finding guys who are good with
women. I’m not seeing them. All I see everywhere
I go are wusses. Any thoughts or ideas?

I’ve also thought about finding friends who are
students of yours so we can get together for team
efforts. Any suggestions here?

Thanks again for the incredible impact you’ve had
on my life.

J.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, I have one thought for you…

This “Everywhere I go all I see is wusses”
thing can be a challenge. I shake my head almost
every single time I go out, because I think we’re
in the middle of a WUSS EPIDEMIC in this country.

Keep looking.

It’s worth it.

If you have to, ask friends and associates at
work if they know any guys who are really good
with women.

And remember, be cool. Guys who are good with
women often like to help other guys learn. But
don’t be a boat anchor around his neck…

If you do your homework and find some guys who
can help you, it will REALLY pay off.

***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

Sir,

I received one of you Q&A emails by mistake, I’m
sure. I am an intelligent, female professional and
I reall-ll-ll-lly had a good laugh after reviewing
your web site as well.

If you think that ALL women will be turned on by
these things, you are very mistaken. The classy,
sophisticated, and well educated as well as
intriguing and very attractive will have totally
different opinions on all these subjects. I think
you would do better to consider your experience as
incomplete.

However, I’m sure you are making an obscene
amount of money by offering this misinformation
for sale to men.

Laughing Uncontrollably in Alaska

>>>MY COMMENTS:

An intelligent female professional that lives
in ALASKA?

Don’t even get me started there…

And since you seem to be claiming here that
you’re an AUTHORITY on “The classy, sophisticated,
and well educated… as well as intriguing and
very attractive” women… I have to ask you where
you’re getting this particular education…
Alaska?

Maybe those words mean something different
where you’re from.

Whatever.

Look, I used to be a “nice”, sweet, BORING guy
who did nice things for women, acted respectful,
and generally was everything I thought a “good
guy” should be.

And my success with meeting and attracting
women was horrible.

I had a few good relationships with attractive
women, but these were ACCIDENTAL. It only happened
because I was in the right place at the right
time, and because the women just happened to have
NOTHING BETTER GOING ON.

Now that I do what I teach, I’m able to attract
beautiful women whenever I want.

You do the math.

***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

Hey Dave,

I forward your news letter to my ex-husband and to
my other male friends and they all thanked me for
it. I agree with all of your advice. It’s kind of
scary how well you read women. You have also
helped me to realize what I’m attracted to and
why. Take care!

S MD

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, it’s OK for you to admit that you’re
attracted to ME.

I don’t blame you.

You forgot to include your picture, dear.

Waiting patiently.

Your friend,

David D.

P.S. Stop forwarding these emails to your Ex.
It’s bad enough that you love me… but to add
insult to injury for the poor guy…

***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

So, I go into a shoe store the other day and I’m
just kind of browsing. The clerk– a cutie of age
21–asks me if she can help me. I kindly ask her
to get me a certain pair to try on. As I put the
shoes on, she enthusiastically squeaked, “WOW
THOSE SHOES LOOK GREAT ON YOU!!!”. I mocked her in
the same hi-pitch tone, “YOU’RE ON COMMISION YOU
NEED TO SAY THAT!!” She gave me that playful
little slap on the arm and told me I was “a little
sh**”. I go on teasing her for 5 minutes or so
and she asks me if I would like a job at this
store. When she gave me the application, she also
hands me her HOME ADDRESS and phone number and
asked me to hand deliver it that night. To keep it
short, that nite I gave her more than my job
resume!!!

Now, David, the previous situation is very unusual
for me, as I rarely have much to say, period. I’ve
always been very shy and very quiet but am
starting to come out of that. I’m not scared to
approach women or anything but I just don’t know
how to start or keep conversation, you know? I’ve
read books on this, listened to tapes and nothing
seems to help. Dave, I need some advice!!!

DK Indiana

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh, nice one!

Great example of how to use Cocky & Funny with
a woman!

And as for meeting women, stop worrying about
STARTING OR KEEPING CONVERSATIONS GOING.

Just walk up to women, get their phone numbers,
and then get together with them later for a cup of
tea.

No “starting of conversations” required.

Use my 3 minute email/number technique, and
then break out your killer sense of humor later
when you’re alone with her.

You’re doing fine… don’t worry about
“conversations”.

And if you do wind up in a conversation, just
start out by talking about normal things, then
transition into the Cocky & Funny material as you
progress.

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

I have been receiving your emails for a while now
and boy have they been working. As a matter of
fact, I was actually using the C/F all the time,
without even realizing it. For example,

In one of my classes there is this girl that acts
weird most of the time (she’s a solid 9.5) and one
day she was talking to me, and I just turned
around and said to my friend: “Did you say mental
hospital?” I got a shot in the arm for that one.
I kept unknowingly using C/F on her for maybe
three days and then after one C/F comment she
replied (with her hand on my shoulder): “I like
you, you make me laugh” then she winked and turned
around. I was shocked! I mean, I had basically
been making fun of her. Little did I know that I
had been doing everything right (this was before I
started getting your emails).

So anyway, my question. I have no problems meeting
women in malls, on campus etc, but what about
online? Are there any C/F comments I can use to
start a conversation? The only ones I can think of
are when they have ridiculous/absurd chat names.

Thanks

A

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, one of the GREAT things about teasing
women is that you can basically GUESS things about
them and they’ll respond.

For instance, if you’re talking to a woman
online, and you haven’t seen her picture, you can
say:

“OK, you’re probably some hairy, manly, seven
hundred pound beast… and that’s why you haven’t
sent me your picture…”

(Use this kind of thing when she says that
she’s a model or dancer, etc. and it’s obviously
not even close.)

The bolder you are, and the funnier, the better
you’ll do when guessing.

Try it, you’ll like it.

***QUESTION***

Dave-

Whussup Man? Well I’m not gonna waste your time
or mine telling you about how great your teaching
and knowledge is, because we both already know
what’s up! I’m a 19 yr old who has downloaded your
ebook and I’ve read about the last 20+ emails..
I’m learning a lot. But I’m not where I want to be
yet.

Well here is what happened. I had lady friend
of mine over to the house the other night. Now we
have been friends for a little while now and I
have to tried in the past to pursue this woman but
like a lot of males in the world.. I would always
turn wussy on her. This women is about 5′
nothing’,
with a beautiful mind and a beautiful body, (she
is a 8 or 9 on my scale, and I’m picky.)*the radio
is ON* We haven’t talked in a while so we caught
up on each others lives..had some laughs with the
cocky/funny attitude and I even fixed dinner! Well
I told her before I made dinner that when we
finished eating she owed me a 30 min. massage. She
said okay. Now, we get done eating and she tells
me to dim the lights and lay down. She tells me
she is goin’ to wash her hands and never comes
back.. SHE LEFT!!!!!!! WHAT HAPPENED?!?!

JF from Texas

>>>MY COMMENTS:

What happened?

You went and spanked your chicken with reckless
abandon?

You cried yourself to sleep?

lol… it’s probably horrible that I’m laughing
at your misery, but hey, these things happen.

Don’t worry about it, man.

Next time, try making something other than
“Hamburger Helper” with rainbow popsicles for
dessert.

I think you’re gonna live.

The problem is that you acted like a WUSSY for
so long, that the thought of you being anything
more than a friend made her RUN all the way home.

You created your own problem, by trying to make
a girl who was convinced that you were a Wuss into
something more than a friend. It’s not easy.

***COMMENT***

Today I met an ex-girlfriend (and now good friend
and occasional date) for lunch at an Indian
buffet. This is a woman who has commented in the
past that she didn’t like my cocky side (either I
wasn’t doing it right, or she was lying), so I was
looking for a good opportunity to segue into a C&F
routine and see how it affected her. At one point
she complained that the bread was cold, and that I
should go get some fresh stuff…

ME: What’s in it for me? (unoriginal line) HER:
I’ll stay and finish lunch at your table.
Otherwise, I’ll go get the bread and sit over
there by myself. (great answer!) ME: Well,
that’d be embarrassing. HER: Yup. ME: Everyone in
the restaurant would think that you had to
move because you’ve got real bad gas.

And it went from there. You could see her eyes
getting brighter throughout the conversation, and
it ended with:

HER: Wow, you’re feisty today… ME: Yeah, so…?
HER: So, it’s really… attractive. ME (laughing):
Boy, you’re easy today…

That’s a confession straight from the source:
feisty = attractive. And she went on to
demonstrate her attraction after lunch in an
unusually aggressive manner. I think everything
you’re saying is capital-T Truth, brother.

You know, people assume that Kissinger was talking
about political power being the ultimate
aphrodisiac, but I think there are many nuances to
the word “power”, and you don’t have to be a
senator or CEO to exploit it.

Interesting aside: I was discussing this with an
insightful female friend, and she agreed with
everything you say, and added that women don’t
want to be our mothers… and if we treat them
like we treat our mothers (i.e., act like a wuss),
what does that say?

C.K.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Amen, brother. Amen.

Feisty, Sassy, Cheeky, Ballsy… = ATTRACTION.

***QUESTION***

hey dave-lets get to the chase. 2 things (first
the success story).. i met this chik who was
getting off work..yelled out “HEY!” and she came
over to me.. i started talking about anything and
everything to get/keep her attention..busting on
her and all ..she gave me her # after 20 minutes..
BUt i didn’t call. then i ran into her again in
the
neighborhood but this time i did the same thing
“whats your # again?” and then finally i wrote it
down and scored on the second meeting after
coffee.. the stuff works bro

now for the wuss part..i meet this chik last
summer who was in town for her job assignment that
lasted for 1 month. Shes a real player. We met
again after the party (she called me and said hey
I’m coming over) and within 30 minutes she was in
my bed in her bra/panties BUT i didn’t do anything
cause she was complaining about how guys are such
dogs. so i didn’t do anything for the next 5
meetings. She said “I’m glad you never did
anything
cause we still wouldn’t be talking if u did”.
Anyway, last time we meet she invites me AND 4
other guys for dinner. she sits on their laps
(just like she did with me) to make me jealous. we
have kept in touch for 5 months and next month
she’ll be back for a 2 week visit. i have heard
shes talking to 5 other guys in town besides me.
whenever i confront her on the phone about these
guys she says “nooo! I’m not! and I’ve never slept
with any of them so ignore the rumors! who do you
believe them or me??!” she called me 1 month ago
and let my phone ring once, and then when i called
her back it was a guys voice (she moved in with
her “friend” from high school)

my question is: i told her how i felt about her
and she already said she just wants to be friends
because she travels around a lot. she’ll be
staying with 1 or 2 of these guys shes talking to
when she comes back and will try to make me sooo
jealous i know it. she called me last week and
actually asked me for one of these guys numbers. I
got angry and hung up on her (something i would
never have done before) and then she called me
back and actually seems a lot more interested.
Then i called her yesterday from work and told her
that a stripper approached me at a bar and asked
me out and then this girl said “ohh well why don’t
you go out with her then?” but then said “OH by
the way Im coming back on APRIL 21st”.. i want to
beat her at her own damn game! but i already gave
her so much power. i wish i could just take it all
back and make her feel the same way.

HOW DO I HANDLE THIS GIRL:??? SHES DRIVING ME
NUTS!!!

CJ

Houston,TX

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, this is actually a very powerful story.

First, she intimidated you by telling you that
“guys are dogs”… which caused you to not try to
take things to a physical level.

When you did that, YOU FAILED THE FIRST TEST.

She intimidated you with her words!

Then, the more you pursued her without
progressing, the more she tested you.

Until she finally started INSULTING you…
right in front of a bunch of other guys!

By the way, when you mentioned that after you
hung up on her she seemed a lot more interested…
it’s probably true.

Look, man…. BAIL! Drop it. Hit the road.

You screwed up in the beginning by handing over
control of the relationship to her, and it’s not
worth the trouble or hassle to try to take it
back.

She’s probably the type of girl that LOVES to
play guys and make them chase her… and who
enjoys seeing how much a guy will do to get her…
only to leave after he does all he can.

Move on.

But remember the lesson. Steer clear of women
like this in the future.

Note: If you’ve read this story, and you can
IDENTIFY with this guy who wrote it… and you
know what it feels like to want a woman, but be
completely OUT OF CONTROL of the situation… then
I recommend that you work on your INNER GAME as
much as possible. Self Image and Self Esteem are
keys in this area, as they help you pass these
“tests” that women throw at you… and they help
you raise your standards, and avoid unhealthy
women. If what I’m saying is making sense to you,
then you should go RIGHT NOW and check out my DEEP
INNER GAME DVD/CD program. This program will help
you out in this area more than any other program
ANYWHERE:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/DeepInnerGame/

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave

For the past 6 weeks I’ve been hearing…

“You scare me” (said jokingly) “I never know if
you’re being serious” “You know what I love about
you? You make me laugh…”

…. and its all down to you.

Dave, you are “da man”, so I just wanted to say a
huge thank you and tell you what happened – all
thanks to your newsletters and amazing book

I got in touch with D via a personals web site, we
started emailing, and I started the C&F. The first
date was amazing. We went out to lunch – I never
laid off the C&F and she was lapping it up. We
went back to her place and started getting “cosy”
(with the comments “I don’t normally do this on a
first date”). I had to leave for another
engagement but she desperately wanted me to stay!!
So I went back on the Sunday and we’ve been
together ever since.

Dave, you have saved another lost soul. Once
again, a huge thank you.

R England

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Hey, you’re welcome.

Cash donations are welcome, along with large
gifts and other favors (no, I don’t want a kiss).

Just make sure you keep doing what worked to
begin with, and don’t turn into a WUSSY!

***QUESTION***

David,

First, I LOVE your Advanced Dating Techniques CD
program. Everyone; do yourself a favor, BUY
David’s stuff! It’s EXCELLENT!!! Well worth the
INVESTMENT in YOURSELF!!!

This past Thursday, I was on a second date with
this attractive female. Been using the c&f on
both dates and she eating eating it up. Anyway,
we end up back at her place. First, we get there
and I sit back on the couch. She asks if I want a
drink, so I tell her NO. Suggesting that she is
just trying to get me drunk. We watch TV for a
little bit; then when I was thirsty, I got up and
asked her if she wanted a drink.She said no, so
when I went to her fridge and I asked her what do
you want me to bring you back, because I’m not
drinking alone. After we both finish our first
drink, I lean over and pecked her on the lips. She
tried to kiss me back and I told her to settle
down and go get us another drink, which she did.

…..Fast forward, after a night of everything, but
sex (I didn’t have a condom), as I was kissing her
good night (she wanted me to stay, but I was
leaving for a trip Friday morning, so I told her
No.)

she said, “I’m going to regret not sleeping with
you in the morning.”

I smile and kiss her.

She said, “Maybe next time.”

I said, “Maybe.”

Then she said, “or the time after that.” That
light bulb my David D. light bulb went on, this
preparedst.

Being prepaid I said, “What makes you think I’ll
want to have sex with you next time? Or the time
after that?”

She said, “You’re a guy and that’s what all guys
want.”

I said, “Maybe I’ll only kiss you next time.”

She said, “I hope we’d AT LEAST do that.”

Driving the nail home that I was in control and
she wasn’t going to use sex as a weapon, I said,
“Fine, then hand holding it is.”

She said, “Hand holding?”

hand-holding, “Yes, you’ve been promoted to
hand holding.”

She said, “How is that a promotion?”

I kissed her and said, “I’ll tell you next time.”
and left. Needless to say, next time I’ll score,
if I want to. LOL!!! Of course I will, because
that’s what all guys want. hehehehe!!! This
stuff is GREAT!

I haven’t finished cd 10 or 11 yet, but I do have
a question about paying? When is it appropriate
to let her pay? How often? How do I let her pay
without being perceived as a wussy?

Thanks again. You have changed my life for the
better. I now get it. Plus, it’s fun to watch
the guys who Chicago-land This stuff is VERY
POWERFUL, use it with caution.

J Chicagoland

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Very nice.

Mixed messages, teasing, stepping back, making
her feel anticipation and want it badly… GREAT.

This is a great example of how to handle a
situation like this one.

As far as letting women pay…

The whole topic of “paying” is kind of a pain.

It has gotten into many women’s heads that if a
guy pays it means that he’s a “gentleman” and if
he doesn’t it means that “he’s not”.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Howdy, Dave — I wrote to you about a year ago
with what I thought was a great “Success Story”
involving a biker chick. She was just so hot, and
she came on to me right in front of her biker
boyfriend, after I busted on her about how I
thought only good-looking women got to ride on
Harleys. Well, she turned out to be one sick
puppy. Chock full of really strange mental and
personality things. Well, I kept being C&F with
other women while I was dating this chick — and
I’m sure glad I said, “No” when she wanted to move
in with me! Anyhow, to make a long story a bit
shorter, I’m now involved with a 50 year-old 10.
Perhaps a 10.5!! I’m 55, average looking,
divorced x2, definitely not wealthy, etc, etc. I
treated this woman as if she was my “bratty little
sister” and after a couple months of banter, she
asked me for a date! I had not even bought her a
cuppa! Anyhow, we have been dating since last
summer, and back around Christmastime, I started
getting wussyfied with her. I saw immediately
that it was not the right thing to do. She began
to withdraw, so I did not call her or see her for
a week. It was tough to pull back and get back to
doing the right things. (No, I didn’t have dreams
of you bitch-slapping me! I got that vicariously
in your emails!!) My point is this — if it works,
keep doing it!! Don’t stop. And, as soon as you
realize you’ve reverted, AS SOON AS, get back to
right behavior. This woman loves me even more now
because I was able to backpedal quickly. Pay
attention to yourself and what you are doing and
saying, guys! Don’t ever go back to wussiness.
Wussy only works with your mom, and you don’t want
to date her, do you? Pay attention to yourself and
what you are doing and saying! Be in control of
your life.

Thanks, Mr. Dave. G from Colorado

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Exactly… do what works, and if you start
slipping, pull back and then get back with the
program.

Good job, and keep it up.

Thanks for the email.

***QUESTION***

Here’s a Q for you…I haven’t ordered you CD’s
yet, I’ve been reading your emails and taking in
the info slowly, but I’ll definitely do so soon.
On the issue of being generous….It has always in
my nature to be generous of myself unconditionally
with most people I like, but I don’t give away my
life just for attention or to “buy” people’s
friendship, and certainly for a woman’s attention,
I have always known that just doesn’t work. I come
from a family in which it is natural for us to be
generous as a matter of good form, but never
beyond the means available. It’s a cultural trait
I guess. Being tight and always expecting a reward
for everything is neurotic anyways. Problem is
between women and I is that I have no problem with
doing a small favor for a woman just out of what I
feel is just decency. But I don’t expect to
immediately jump in the sack with her. It’s a
paradox for me. Like going to a club and buying
some woman a drink, but not expecting anything in
return except having a good time and just getting
along. Maybe it’s a good way to sort out the
user/flaky types from the cool and normal types,
doing a small favor and seeing how they react.
I’ve had good results from controlling how much I
will give, and sometimes throwing in some humor
like this “O.K. one drink ( sly grin he re) but if
you
start stumbling around I’m not paying your cab
fare
home!”, This always gets a laugh and loosens up
the woman, and keeps me in control(I think)
without seeming that I’m a sucker or trying to buy
her attention. What is your view on this kind of
thing? Oh, another thing I’ll do is _not_ get
clingy if I do something like that..in fact I’ve
found that if I just walk away and find something
to do for a few minutes( talk to a friend or even
go to the bathroom or whatever that) right after
doing a small favor, and allowing some “breathing
space”, that the next time around they get at ease
and usually a good conversation usual starts
leading to and exchange of digits. Do you think
I’m on the right track? or is it too
“friendly”(read doomed wuss)?

Thanks C.M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great question.

I think that most of us REALLY want to be
“good” to women… we want to do nice things,
treat women well, and “take care” of them.

I can understand your generosity mindset, and I
actually admire you for having an “abundance”
mentality.

But I’m going to present you with another way
of looking at things… one that might really help
you.

What if you thought of “generosity” a little
differently?

What if you were to realize that being
“generous” with a woman sometimes means to ACT
like you’re being NOT generous at all?

What if you were to see that if you were too
“generous” at first, that a woman would SUSPECT
that you were only being generous to MANIPULATE
her?

It’s not you.

It’s that women are so used to men trying to do
things for them in order to get attention and sex
in return that they:

1) See this kind of generosity as “average” and
expected behavior… and immediately slot you into
the “regular, nice guy” category when you do it.

2) Often see generosity as a form of manipulation,
whereby a man uses gifts and dinners to set up a
situation where the women feels that she needs to
“put out” in return.

Lean back.

Be generous LATER, when it will be perceived to
be more authentic and special.

It sounds to me like you’re a genuinely good
guy.

The challenge is getting a woman’s attention
for long enough that you can actually SHOW her
this side of you, and have it not come across as
“ass kissing” behavior.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Hey Dave,

First, let me say how powerful your techniques
are. A lot of the methods you teach have been part
of my success in the past; I just didn’t realize
it until I started using your various Double Your
Dating materials!

I’m from Manhattan, New York; and I work in
probably one of the best places in the world to
find unbelievably beautiful women; the “fashion
district.” In this part of NYC, their are hordes
of models going from fittings to fittings, to
photo shoots etc. Here is a real-world example of
your excellent teachings in action!

#1, when I go out to lunch; I don’t go to a fast
food joint, I go to a salad bar (these are very
popular in this part of town). The theory being
that, I desire a girl with a great figure, and
fast food is not the path to one, so I hit the
salad spots! Recently, I see this very well known
model (who happens to have a major modeling
contract with a cosmetics company) at my favorite
lunch spot, waiting on line to pay for her salad.
She is of course an absolute 10, wearing a super
sexy outfit complete with some killer stiletto
style heels; so I see my ‘in.’ I walk up behind
her and say “what is up with those shoes,” in
*almost* a disapproving way. She gives a half
glance towards me and says in a slightly confused,
self conches way “what, their Jimmie Choo’s.”
Still looking down, I respond “their sharp.” She
responds “thanks.” At this point, I’m still just
not much more than another guy looking to get her
attention, in her eyes. So I respond “that wasn’t
a complement, I’m saying that they’re SHARP; like
they could be used as a weapon!” She responds with
a big smile. At this point, the woman at the
register says “next! (we both walk to the
register) Are you together” I quickly respond “no-
way did you see those weapons she calls shoes?”
this don’t even make complete sense, but that’s
the point! I make sure I pay first (cutting ahead
of her), then as she starts to pay for her order,
I say “I’ll tell you what, if you promise to keep
your shoes on the floor, I’ll LET you have lunch
with me today.” After that c&f comment she had
this really confused look on her face like, who
the hell is this guy to talk to me like this?
Notice DYD-ers, I didn’t even act like I knew who
she was. As a matter of fact, to this day I never
play into her fame/success AT ALL!

To keep a long story from getting any longer, I
got her email that day at lunch, and now we have
been dating for three months! I cannot thank you
enough Dave, for showing me the errors of my ways,
and helping me date so many beautiful girls.

G from Manhattan

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Ah, models.

The object of desire for so many men.

And what do most guys do when they run into a
woman who is of “model quality”?

They get nervous, act stupid, and say things
that sound exactly like the other 47 guys that she
has talked to that day…

Beautiful women are some of the VERY BEST
people to bust on.

Think of it this way:

Her beauty (and in your case, fame) is her
weapon.

It’s where her power comes from.

When you approach a woman like this and
immediately acknowledge her beauty, you also say,
“I see that you are powerful, and I’m one of those
who your power affects”.

On the other hand, when you totally disregard
her “outward beauty” and instead start making fun
of her, teasing, and enjoying yourself, you
instead say, “I am the powerful one, and your
beauty magic doesn’t work on me”.

This has an INSTANT effect.

It separates you from 999 out of 1,000 other
men that she meets.

And if you’re CHARMING and FUNNY as well, it
just says all the right things.

Great job, and congratulations on finding a
beautiful woman who you enjoy enough to date on an
ongoing basis.

…and if you’re reading this Mailbag right
now, and thinking to yourself, “Man, I need to
start learning this stuff and get this part of my
life handled…”

…then YOU’RE RIGHT.

There’s no better time than the present.

Here’s an interesting thought…

At one of my live seminars, I met a guy who
owns my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

Get this:

He told me that he has listened to the CD
version of the program 13 times now. 13 times!

Why do you think he’s listened to it so many
times?

Because he still learns NEW stuff EVERY time he
listens to it.

So what am I trying to say here?

I’m trying to say that it’s JAM PACKED with
incredible information.

My Advanced Series was actually recorded at a
special 3 day seminar I did. It was then edited
down to a tight presentation (over 12 full hours),
and released on CD and DVD.

It’s me teaching all of my very best stuff.

I don’t hold anything back, and I have the time
to explain all of my concepts in detail… with
examples and step-by-step techniques for each of
them.

This is the best program you’ll find on meeting
more women and getting more dates, and I highly
recommend that you check it out.

It’s here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/

…and it’s also important that you read my
eBook “Double Your Dating”. It’s the foundation
for all of the things I teach in these
newsletters, and all the things I teach in my
Advanced Dating Techniques program. You can
download it here and be reading it in just a few
minutes:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Make sure you go and look at all the
different programs I’ve created to help you meet
women… you can watch video clips of each of them
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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