Dear Miss Right,
You’re about to learn secrets to meeting and
attracting men that most women will never know.
But first, let’s get something out of the way.
Have you ever talked to your friends or family
about what you should do in your love-life?
Ok, so you know about all that lame “common
sense” dating advice everyone has to offer.
Here’s something you might not know about it…
Most of that advice has nothing to do with how
things ACTUALLY work with men, dating and
relationships.
That’s right. Nothing.
Especially when it comes to how men become
attracted and interested in long term
relationships with women.
So if you’ve been listening to your mom, your
girlfriends, guy friends, etc., then odds are
you’re not having a lot of success, right?
But tons of women (and men) still follow that
everyday “common sense” advice and try things that
just don’t really help.
Here are a few examples of the advice you’ll
hear from the people around you:
- Act a little “bitchy” because men secretly like
it
- Go hang out where “good men” are likely to be
and you’ll meet a great guy
- Be active, have fun and keep a busy and
interesting life of your own
- Don’t act clingy or needy
- Don’t expect to meet any good men in bars,
clubs, party places, etc.
- Meet men while doing things you like to do so
you have similar interests
- Let him initiate… wait for him to call you or
ask you out
- Play a little bit “hard to get”
Sound familiar?
Well, if you’re like lots of women I know, then
one of the following probably describes your
experience with this advice:
1. The ideas just didn’t “click” with you when you
went to put them to use in your REAL LIFE… so
you never even got around to doing anything at all
2. You put the advice to use and had some
“success”, but when push came to shove, the same
obstacles came up in your love-life and you were
back to where you started
3. You put it to use and it got you NOWHERE
So what does this mean?
First things first – all of these basically
lead to the same outcome in the real world.
You end up QUITTING them because they don’t
really do anything radical to improve your love-
life.
And guess what?
There’s a “statistical certainty” that applies
to quitting…
It gets you NOWHERE.
So what should you do instead?
I’m glad you asked.
You need to find the right information and
tools in your life that will WORK and create
results.
The truth is, you only get one shot at living
your love-life, so now’s the time to get it right.
So let’s get right to what works…
TWO TYPES OF ATTRACTION, TWO WAYS TO ATTRACT A
MAN…
After years of study, reading, observation and
thinking about what “ATTRACTION” is and how it
works, I’ve found something that most people who
study the subject have seemed to miss…
There’s more than one type of attraction.
I know… it seems simple and straightforward,
right?
I’m sure you’ve experienced different types of
attraction in your life.
But the truth is that no one in the “scientific
world” of psychology, biology, sociology, etc. has
bothered to, or been able to look at these things
and separate them out into their parts.
Let alone actually describe how to go about
creating these kinds of attraction and what
they’re made up of.
Well…
I figured out something FASCINATING a few years
ago while I was thinking about attraction.
There are two types of attraction a man can
feel for a woman:
I call these “Physical Attraction” and
“Intellectual Attraction”.
Here’s a secret about these two types of
attraction:
ANY WOMAN can learn about these and go about
creating one or both kinds of attraction with a
man if she wants to.
PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
Let’s talk about the more “common” type of
attraction first – and how it’s created.
It’s the easiest and most understood.
We all know what Physical Attraction is and
what it feels like.
And as a woman, I’m sure you’ve experienced and
recognized how Physical Attraction can be
triggered in a man.
Here’s a quick list of things that most women
use to trigger Physical Attraction in a man:
- “Speaking” with your body language in a way
that gets him looking at you physically – smiles,
flipping your hair, laughing, etc.
- Wearing certain cool or seductive fashions,
styles and ornamentation that attract attention
- Initiating and maintaining eye contact with men
- Wearing enticing perfumes or scents
- Being really “nice” to a guy and complimenting
him
- Creating subtle or “accidental” touches on the
man’s arm or leg
- Talking and flirting
- Teasing
- Getting physically close to a man
These are pretty obvious for most women, and
sometimes they can create Physical Attraction with
a man.
But here’s where it gets interesting.
If you want to get close to a man…
And if you want to create the kind of
attraction that has him pining away just see you
or hear your voice…
And if you want him to crave a deeper level of
involvement, intimacy and commitment with you…
Then Physical Attraction alone is NOT going to
get you there.
Never.
And here’s where I see tons of women make a
huge mistake when it comes to understanding men
and their “dating psychology”.
They believe that by creating an intense amount
of Physical Attraction, a man will feel
emotionally attached, involved, committed,
intimate, etc.
WRONG.
If you haven’t seen or heard about the book
“He’s Just Not That Into You”, this end result
about men is what the author is talking about.
But in my opinion, he doesn’t explain the how
and why… and more importantly, what to do about
it if you don’t just want to accept that a man
isn’t “into you”.
That’s where I come in.
The answer is – he’s just not that “attracted”
to you.
But there IS something you can do about it that
I’ve discovered after years of studying situations
like this.
Here’s the catch.
A man CAN experience “connection”, involvement
and a stronger level of attachment when he’s
“physical” with a woman (Physical Attraction)…
But, unfortunately, the situation where a man
is feeling Physical Attraction and becomes deeply
connected and emotionally committed to a woman is
RARE.
In other words, with most men, even if they’re
feeling an intense amount of Physical Attraction,
it doesn’t mean he wants anything but to continue
the physical connection.
I know it would be easier if it were different.
But it’s not, so get over it.
And now that you know, here’s what to do about
it.
First, don’t make the painfully common mistake
of assuming that if a man is physically attracted
to you, that he also feels the desire to have more
than just a physically driven relationship in the
long term.
Next, start learning about what to do and what
actually works to change the situation…
A good place to start is with my program,
NATURAL AND LASTING ATTRACTION. This is the best
way to learn how to build an emotional attraction
that makes a man feel literally addicted to you,
so that he wants to be with you – and only you -
forever.
This amazing program takes an in-depth look at
the REAL REASONS WHY a man either “feels it” for
you and KNOWS that you are the one and only woman
for him (and thus pushes your relationship
forward)? or is UNCERTAIN about his feelings for
you and seems almost INDIFFERENT about where
things are going between you both.
Go here to watch some free video clips and learn
more:
http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/NALA
And now back to creating a deep level of
attraction right now…
HOW TO THINK ABOUT “INTELLECTUAL ATTRACTION”
Instead of giving you the “techniques” and
“tactics” for creating Intellectual Attraction,
there’s something a thousand times more important
that I want to talk with you about first.
It’s about creating the right MINDSET so that
you can start to create Intellectual Attraction
naturally on your own and avoid all kinds of
resistance with men, dating and relationships.
Like the old “emotionally unavailable” guy
trap.
Then you can go through all the steps and ideas
I’ve got to create and AMPLIFY Intellectual
Attraction.
Sound good?
Good.
Let me ask you something to help you get into
the Intellectual Attraction “Mindset”…
Have you ever been in a situation with a man
where you had been dating and physical together,
but quickly you started to notice that he didn’t
do much to initiate conversations or connect with
you anymore?
He was withdrawing physically and emotionally
and you could feel it and sense it, even if
nothing had really been said.
And so you brought it up with him… and
instead of him listening, opening up and seeing
how he was acting and how it affected you both, he
actually got IRRITATED with you.
Which freaked you out even more.
And at some point in the arguing, frustration,
irritation, etc. did you deep down wish that he
would just ACCEPT you and be OPEN to how great
things really were when you were together?
ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND!!?
Think about it…
Do you think a man should just accept or
“tolerate” the person who is supposed to be the
love of his life!?
Absolutely not.
No, instead he shouldn’t be able to keep his
mind and his hands off of you.
I’ll bet that you’d rather feel this way with
the person you spend your life and time with too,
right?
What if you were with someone and instead of
finding a way to make you FEEL love, lust and a
deeper sense of ATTRACTION to them, they wanted to
CONVINCE you to feel these things.
And when you didn’t feel how they wanted you to
feel, they got upset with you and it hurt and
frustrated them to the point of being upset with
you.
How do you think you’d react?
Would it MAKE you feel how they wanted you to
feel?
It probably wouldn’t feel very comfortable with
them.
And it definitely wouldn’t make you feel more
ATTRACTED to them.
Get where I’m going with this?
If you want to make a man feel that deep
burning desire to be with you both physically and
emotionally, then “convincing” him or trying to
use Physical Attraction to get close to him won’t
work in the long run.
HOW TO TAKE YOUR CONNECTION AND RELATIONSHIP TO
THE NEXT LEVEL
So here’s where I give you the simplest piece
of information you’ll ever be able to put to use
in your life that will have DRAMATIC POSITIVE
EFFECTS.
Remember when we were talking about the “common
sense” advice that lots of women follow?
Well, even if you’re having a terrible time and
getting advice that doesn’t work, DON’T QUIT.
Not even if the ideas or advice you’re working
with aren’t helping you.
Huh?
Why in the world would I recommend using advice
that I know isn’t likely to help you too much in
the long run?
Here’s the “elusive obvious” thing going on
here -
You’ll LEARN a thousand times more by not
quitting and trying new things in your life…
even if they don’t get you exactly where you’d
like to be or seem like they aren’t working at the
time.
There’s no substitute in the world for
KNOWLEDGE and learning.
But learning doesn’t take place if you quit and
don’t find the lessons inside what you’re
experiencing.
The trouble is that NOBODY wants to go through
the process and learn all the lessons.
We ALL want INSTANT GRATIFICATION.
I sure do.
Unfortunately, that’s not how things usually
work in the world.
But there is a shortcut here.
There are THREE CRITICAL STEPS that will help
get you to a better place in your love-life…
FAST
1. Finding the right information
2. Start learning
3. Stick with it and stay AWARE
Luckily, you’re in the right place.
My eBook “Catch Him And Keep Him” is maybe be
the worlds best collections of ideas, concepts and
strategies for creating both Physical and
Intellectual Attraction with a man.
Best of all, it’s all boiled down from “psycho-
babble” into simple real-world steps that will
have you seeing changes and improvement in your
love-life in no time.
It has tons of dating and attraction
“shortcuts” that I’ve put together after years of
talking and working with women in the real world.
Here’s a few samples of what you’ll find in the
ebook involving Intellectual Attraction:
- “The Relationship Balance”: There are 2 roles
a man and woman can play with each other in
relationships. One can create an intense level of
Intellectual Attraction with a man, and the other
can kill both Physical and Intellectual
Attraction. I explain these roles, how they are
established, and how to take advantage of them to
build an amazing relationship that a man will be
obsessing over.
- “The Power of Contagious Emotions”: A woman’s
strong and potent emotional sense can be her
biggest strength or her greatest weakness. I
explain how to use this strength to “effortlessly”
keep a man connected and close… and avoid all
the deadly mistakes tons of women make that works
like “man-repellent”.
- “The Honest Woman Response”: As soon as a man
meets a woman, there’s a “love category” that he
puts her into in his mind. There’s a specific way
of communicating when you first meet a man, and
into the relationship, that will make sure he sees
you as “girlfriend material” and gives you all the
respect and loyalty that goes along with being a
woman in this category in his life.
- “The Secret Communication Button”: One of the
biggest mistakes that I see women make with men is
acting or communicating in a way that makes a man
withdraw during the “transition” from casual
dating to a committed relationship. This is the
most dangerous and critical time where most
relationships fail. I’ve put together a specific
step-by-step way to communicate with a man to make
sure your move together from casual to committed
is easy, and instead of scaring him away, creates
more love and intimacy that will last.
- And there’s LOTS more…
These steps will give you a “fast-forward
education” that you can’t find anywhere else.
So what are you waiting for?
Go and check it out now.
You can download your copy of my ebook and be
reading it in literally minutes from now.
And best of all, I’ll let you try it absolutely
free to make sure you like it.
I don’t want you paying for the book if you
don’t get anything out of it.
But I’m so sure that you’ll love it and it will
change your love-life, that I’m willing to let you
have it for free if you’re not completely
satisfied for any reason.
So what do you have to lose?
Go here now:
http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/eBook
And again, if you want to learn exactly how
this “deeper” level of attraction with a man
works, and start creating these intense feelings
with the man in your love life… go here and
check out my “Natural & Lasting Attraction” CD/DVD
program.
http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/NALA
I’ll talk to you again soon, and best of luck
in life and love,
Your Friend,
Christian Carter
P.S. You should also take a few minutes and
look at all of the different programs I’ve
created to help you find and meet great guys,
connect with them on a deeper emotional level,
create the type of intense attraction that leads
to a man wanting to commit to more, and help you
build and enjoy a secure and lasting relationship.
You can see all of my programs, get the details,
and watch some great free video preview clips of
all of them right here:
http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/Catalog/
P.P.S. I’d LOVE to hear what you think about my
newsletters, my eBook, and my other programs.
Feel free to email me at Stories@CatchHimAndKeepHim.com,
as I do read my email.
*Important Note*
If you’re going to write me, please follow
these quick guidelines so your email gets my
attention right away…
1) Keep it short and to the point. A few
paragraphs at most please.
2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your program works” comments, but the fact is that
I DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other women to see what’s working in
different situations.
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Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
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