Hi Casanova,
Today, I’ve got some really interesting
answers to some important questions for
you.
QUESTION FROM A STUDENT>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Hello Joe,
I’m still a little confused on some of your
openers. I’ll use my intruder and say “hey
guys,” and give a time constraint, but after
that I’ll forget everything or mix up the lines.
What are so easy tricks to help me out?
I also have a problem with approaching, especially
if someone says “go talk to her” or tries to force
me to approach.
What do you at bars that have loud music?
Chris
MY RESPONSE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Wow, three questions for the price of one.
I must be feeling generous today. =)
Okay, I’ll field these one at a time…
The first thing I want to say is:
MEETING WOMEN SHOULD BE FUN! NOT WORK!
If you’re trying to memorize so much that
you break out into cold-sweat performance
anxiety when approaching, you’re doing
something WRONG.
Approaching should be kept as simple as
possible.
If you have trouble, just work on memorizing
1 good opener that you use over and over
again.
I have an opener that I always use, and it
never fails me.
This way, I don’t have to think about what
to say to a girl. I just automatically
know!
And if your brain freezes up, here’s a great
trick to keep things moving along easily…
ASK HER A QUESTION!
Keep asking her questions until you find
something you can talk to her about.
Just remember to have a good time doing it.
If you’re uneasy, nervous, or uptight, its
going to affect the girl you’re talking to
in a negative way.
So learn to control your anxiety!
The second part of your question has to do
with peer pressure.
I’m all for people who help motivate you
to approach women. But if they’re pushing
you to do something you don’t feel you’re
ready for, that can be tough.
Why?
Because you run the risk of KILLING your
confidence. That’s why.
You must protect your confidence at all
costs!
That’s what will get you the women.
So take your time. Don’t feel rushed to
meet women.
BUT…
Don’t use this as an excuse NOT to approach.
If a buddy of yours is egging you on to
approach a women, be sure to do so, but
on YOUR terms.
Take your time. Think about what to say.
Study her for a bit. Figure out the best
way to approach.
Finally, when it comes to noisy bars and
clubs, here’s what I do.
I’ll usually hang out in the quiet places
of a club, like the patio area, or where
people go to smoke. Its much easier to
approach women there.
But, if you’re in the club, you can do
two things…
The first is to TALK LOUDER.
Be high energy, high volume, and use the
same techniques I teach in The Art Of
Approaching. Works like a charm.
The second option is to go more physical.
Physically lead a woman into a quieter
part of the bar or club and then talk
to her there.
Some guys may call this the “caveman”
approach, but it still works pretty good.
I’ll usually say something like:
“Hey, come with me. I want to tell you
something…”
Then I’ll take her by the hand and lead
her to a quieter spot.
Now, all this stuff should be second nature
to you by now IF you’ve read my book The
Art Of Approaching.
No other course on the market will teach
you the secrets you need to know to meet
the woman of your dreams.
By the time I’m done with you, you’ll have
more women than you can handle!
So if you haven’t already, click on this
link:
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And get your own copy of the Art Of Approaching
today.
The sooner you get it, the sooner you can
find the woman of your dreams.
And if you REALLY want to supercharge your
success with women, be sure to take a look
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Talk soon,
Joseph Matthews
Bizlancer, Inc.
368 North Ave
Los Angeles, CA
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