Hi Casanova,
We’ve all been there before…
We had a girl we KNEW was into us, but for
some reason or another, we chickened out and
didn’t make our move.
After that, it was OVER.
Opportunity gone – bye, bye!
Recently, I got an email about this very
problem…
QUESTION FROM A READER>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Hi Joseph,
I have a quick question for you. Do you
think there is a point were if you don’t
make a physical move that it is too late
to salvage?
Just for context, I was seeing the woman,
probably saw her about 4-5 times or so and
every time we spend about 5-6 hours together
and had a really good time. Definitely felt
like we connected. She’s not the most
physical person but I could tell that she
was into me I just had to make a move. I
learned not to take it as a failure but I
clammed up and did not make a move. Now
I would like your opinion if you have time.
I haven’t seen her in about two weeks but
have had brief emails with her. She’s been
telling me that she’s been really busy with
a new job and school and hasn’t had time to
make plans. I took this as a ‘not interested
anymore’, but she continues to write.
I’m droning on here so I guess my question
really is if you chicken out well past the
point of making a connection, is it salvageable
or should I just take this as a learning
experience and move on?
I think I answered my own question here but
am interested on your opinion about the timing
of making a move and when you feel it’s too
late.
Thanks again for everything.
Mike
MY RESPONSE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
First of all, let me say this:
THIS IS A COMMON PROBLEM!
There are SO many guys who either know the
time is right and don’t act on it, or they
miss the signals the girl is sending out
entirely.
Mike’s question is: Is there a way to
salvage this situation?
My answer to him is: Yes, but its very
difficult and not guaranteed to work.
And I’ll tell you why…
If a girl is interested in you, there’s going
to be a point where she WANTS you to make
a move.
If you continue to pass up this escalation
of physical connection, she is going to
start thinking that you just aren’t into
her.
And when that happens, in her mind, she
just WRITES YOU OFF.
You are instantly plopped in the “oh well,”
category.
So that later, when you DO finally work up
the nerve to make yor move, the girl is
TOTALLY not into it…
Because she’s already moved on.
At this point the only thing you can do is
hope she is still attracted to you, and
start flirting with her all over again.
This can be difficult because she may not
want to waste time dating you if she thinks
you’re not interested in her.
But if you ARE able to get together with
her again, you have to really up the flirting
WITHOUT coming off as needy.
That’s the real trick.
In fact, the same strategies I outline in
my ebook “Escape The Friend Zone” apply
directly to a salvage situation like this.
(That’s a free bonus when you download a
copy of The Art Of Approaching.)
But as always, the best defense is a good
offence.
Translation: DON’T LET THIS SITUATION HAPPEN!
It is very important that you get physical
with a woman as fast as you can.
Why?
Because the sooner the two of you can establish
a physical connection, the clearer your
romantic relationship becomes.
Delaying this or hesitating WILL serve to
blow your chances.
You need to work hard to recognize when the
right time to get physical is.
If you’ve followed the instructions I lay
out in my ebook The Art Of Approaching, then
you know exactly what you have to do to
make sure this happens…
Establish a connection.
Flirt to show interest.
Read body language to know when the time
is right.
These are all very important steps, and if
you skip one of them YOU WILL PAY FOR IT.
Do not allow yourself to let an opportunity
pass you by when it presents itself.
The best way to do that is to learn my
strategies. If you really want to get good
and nab that special girl, download my ebook
today by clicking the link below:
http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?fQbtlB9gLpRZgxj5elBB.A
And if you REALLY want to get into advanced
tactics, you have to check out my multi-media
home study course. Click the link below to
take a gander:
http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?Wr5pE6oJVsfcwDo4R_gQTg
Once you learn these simple relationship
secrets, you’ll always know when to make
your move.
Talk soon,
Joseph Matthews
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