Hey Casanova,
Got a new mailbag for you today. The
questions just keep rolling in.
If you want to learn how to successfully
approach women, then you’re going to need
to learn both the “inner” game – which is
all about overcoming fear and building
confidence – and the “outer” game – which
is all about having the SKILLS and “lines”
for the different situations you’ll find
yourself in.
And where’s the best way to learn to MASTER
both? Glad you asked, it’s right HERE:
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Onto the questions:
QUESTION:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Good morning, Joesph.
I’ve bought your book, The Art of Approaching,
and I find it absolutely ballistic, so
in-depth. It has opened my eyes about women
and their actions which I never realized before.
Kudos for you. You really pick things apart.
I really appreciate all the tid-bits of
e-mail that you send. I’m about halfway
through your book. You should get the
citizen’s Medal of Honor for such tenacity
of research.
Question. I would like to get into seducing
women, to get into their brain, so to speak,
upon meeting them. How can a guy make moves
to do this?
Bob
ANSWER:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Thanks for your kind words Bob. I try very
hard to make the Art Of Approaching the best
frackin’ “How To Meet Women” course out there.
When it comes to the seduction game, I personally
don’t believe you need to “get into a girl’s brain.”
No sir, when it comes to seduction, it’s more
important to get into a girl’s HEART.
What I mean by this is — seduction is about
the manipulation of emotion, not the understanding
of their thoughts.
This is because emotions are so powerful, that
they over-ride thoughts.
Therefore, if you aren’t a woman’s “physical”
type, but you can make her feel happy, excited,
turned on, etc. – she will still be attracted
to you.
But when it comes to actual attraction, I
find it’s easier to be ATTRACTIVE, as opposed
to creating ATTRACTION.
There is a distinct difference between the two.
Creating attraction is about trying to control
the uncontrollable.
It’s about trying to MAKE someone think, feel,
and act the way you want them to – despite all
the environmental factors that are working
against you.
This leads to a great deal of FRUSTRATION.
Because you simply can’t MAKE a woman magically
attracted to you.
But when you try to be ATTRACTIVE, you have
complete control – because being attractive
is all about how YOU think, feel, and act.
In my course, I outline some effective
techniques about how to turn yourself into
an attractive man that naturally draws the
type of women he wants towards him.
QUESTION:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Hi Joseph,
Ok I have a question 
If a woman is going out of her way
to meet you, for instance, making
a special journey from another city
or even another country, and you
flirt with her, is she interested
in you, even if she makes little
throwaway comments about it being
a friendly meeting?
I’ve had this a few times and its
gone both ways. Sometimes its gone
further, sometimes not, but the
times it didn’t I held back from
making a move because I wasn’t sure
if I was doing the right thing
and didn’t want to spoil the
atmosphere.
Thanks
Lee
ANSWER:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Okay…
I am of the belief that if a girl is
willing to meet with you AT ALL, you
should look at it as a definite
indicator that she’s interested in
you.
And the more inconvenient it is for
her to meet with you, the greater
the probability that’s the case.
But regardless, you should be able
to read what the girl is feeling
towards you so you KNOW for sure
when to make your move.
By not knowing the signs she’s
now attracted to you, you could
easily miss your opportunity
to move to first base.
This is KEY. And that’s why I devoted
an entire section of my course to
teaching exactly how to spot the
signs.
Check it out here:
http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?od5o22PHV6Crn.xlIfmbow
QUESTION:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Hi,
My question is that if a girl has a boyfriend
already should you still try an ask her out
or just leave it?
Andy
ANSWER:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
It depends on your own personal beliefs.
I personally believe that if a girl is happy
with her boyfriend, she’ll never cheat on
him, so if she does go for you, it just
means she was on her way out anyway.
And the fact is, most girls who are worth
going after are already seeing SOMEBODY,
so if you just go for girls who are single,
you may not be finding the right ones.
But as I said, it’s a personal preference.
If you DO want to go after a girl who has
a boyfriend, I have some techniques that
will help you.
In my special report “The Boyfriend Is Not
And Obstacle,” I give you some extremely
effective techniques to steal any woman
away from the loser she’s currently seeing.
You can find it here:
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QUESTION:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Hi,
Which is the most sure way of bedding a girl
who works in a bar?
Recently, I bought one lots of drinks but
she cruelly left without telling me, although
the whole night she was leaning on me and
showing signs of wanting to sleep with me.
Shem
ANSWER:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
D’oh!
You fell for the oldest trick in the book, my
man.
You REWARDED a girl before she earned it!
When you offer to buy a girl a drink before
you’re actually dating her, you’re portraying
yourself as a “walking wallet.”
As long as you’re paying for her bar tab,
OF COURSE she’s going to be hanging all
over you!
Listen: You can’t bribe a girl for her
affections.
(Well you can actually – it’s called
prostitution.)
The real trick here in picking up a woman,
whether she works in a bar or not, is about
establishing a CONNECTION with the girl.
This is where RAPPORT comes into play.
In order for a girl to actually like you
and want to see more of you, you have to
have some type of reciprocal emotional
connection.
The most basic way to do this is with my
patented “Fish and Hook” method.
But when my next course, Renegade Rapport
comes out, you’re going to get a crash
course in how to quickly establish powerful,
lasting connections with any woman you want.
QUESTION:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Joseph:
Your emails have aided in my continuing
quest to become a master seducer. Thank
you for your help thus far.
One of the things I’m having difficulty
with is ambiguity between one or two women
who would make good potential girlfriends.
I see the body language signs that they are
interested in me (dilated pupils, excitement
in vocal range, light touching, etc), but
I’m on the fence whether to push it further
after a night out.
Of course, I’d like to keep these women in
my life without it being awkward if my read
on the signals is incorrect. A physical move
in on my part that gets pushed away would
forever damage the relationship.
Certainly many have experienced this before,
but I don’t personally know anyone who’s
handled this situation, shall we say,
masterfully.
One of my friends said the only way I’ll
get it out of them is to get them lightly
drunk. That makes sense, but I wonder if
you have any insight by asking one or
two indirect or roundabout questions to
these hot women without directly asking
the obvious?
Thank you.
Jeff
ANSWER:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Hi Jeff,
First off, using alcohol to find out if a
woman wants to sleep with you is always a
bad idea.
Not only does it impair judgement, but if
the girl DOES go further, she may wonder
if the fact she was drunk made her make
that decision.
And once that happens, you may never see
her again.
It’s always best if the girl is fully coherent
when making her decision.
But here’s the thing…
I’ll tell you there is no REWARD without RISK.
If you want to be with these girls, at
some point, you’re going to HAVE to make
a move.
(And if you wait too long, you may be
permanently stuck in the “friend’s zone.”)
If you’re getting “go signals”, then chances
are you’re not misreading the situation.
If you REALLY want to be sure, there are
a few tests you can do.
The first is to start talking about sexual
subjects, and see how she reacts.
If she plays along with the sex talk, then
chances are she’s open to it.
You can also judge by intrusive touching,
suck as brushing her hair, touching her
cheek, etc.
If you can touch her close to her face or
on her neck, then chances are she’s
comfortable enough to have you make your
move.
I will say: Don’t be afraid of blowing
a possible friendship with a woman by
going in for a kiss.
If she’s not into it, she’ll say so, and
you can go back to being friends.
But is she IS into it, it opens up new
possibilities for both you and her.
In the end, the more skillful you are with
women, the less work it is.
If you want to get AMAZING when it comes
to meeting, dating, and all that other
good stuff, you just have to get my
course The Art Of Approaching.
I created it for the specific reason of
teaching guys how to get EXACTLY the kind
of women the want, WITHOUT getting rejected.
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And if you want my most advanced tactics
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You’ll be glad you did.
Talk soon,
Joseph Matthews
Bizlancer, Inc.
368 North Ave
Los Angeles, CA
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