Dating Advise for Men In Waikiki

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 Dear Miss,

Hi, it’s Christian here.

I wanted to take a minute and tell you my
story and explain how I learned what works for
women when it comes to finding and attracting a
great guy, and building an amazing relationship.

I also wanted to give you some pointers on
how you can get the most out of my different
techniques, concepts, and programs.

First let me answer two questions I am asked
all the time:

“Who am I?” (Who is Christian Carter?)

And…

“How in the world did I become so successful
helping women create the love lives they’re
looking for?”

I’m going to start answering these questions
by taking a minute and tell you my story and
explain how I learned what actually works for
women with men in dating and relationships.

And… I’m going to give you some pointers on
how you can get the most out of my different
concepts, strategies, and programs.

From an early age, I was fortunate to have
been surrounded by open and communicative women
among my family, friends, and work relationships.

I got to hear a whole range of female
perspectives across generations and experiences,
which included my single mom who raised me, my
older sister, women friends, and many many family
friends who were single and divorced women.

Being around these women, I listened intently
and developed insights and compassion from what
I heard.

I began to understand intuitively what these
women experienced and what they FELT as I heard
their perspectives on men, emotions, relationships,
and love.

I started to understand what “made sense” to
them, how they saw the world, and how they
looked at and responded to interactions with men.

I got to hear all kinds of “inside” stuff – the
kinds of things that young men don’t usually
get to hear.

Things like…

How men really act on dates with women.

What attraction is for a woman, and how men
are who don’t “get it”.

The turnoffs women have with men.

The how’s and why’s of failed relationships
from the female perspective.

And of course all about flirting, sex,
infidelity, divorce… EVERYTHING.

As a young man, every woman who sensed I was
open to hearing them and understood them as a
young guy, wanted to tell me their story.

Looking back I can see that they did this in
part so that I wouldn’t “be like the other guys”.

But one day when I was listening to a woman
share her stories and experiences with me something
clicked.

“Aha!”

Just as MEN need to become better at
understanding women and what they want…

Women also have to learn how men think and
communicate to be SUCCESSFUL in a relationship.

In a way, I was brought up to be a kind of
bilingual – a man who had his own male experience
and guy friends… but someone who had also grown
up listening to and fed the insights and
perspectives of what women really go through with
men, dating, and relationships.

And yeah, I’ve had all kinds of dating
experiences and relationships myself…

I’ve had love and lost it.

I’ve been a player and been played.

I’ve hurt women and I’ve been hurt.

And of course, I’ve also gone through that
typical “bachelor syndrome” where I’ve been in
relationships, but secretly felt that I wasn’t
ready to settle down or to commit.

And like most men who have made some of the
same mistakes I’ve made in the past, I denied
these doubtful feelings inside because I cared
about the woman I was dating and what she meant
to me.

But ultimately I didn’t know how to address
them for myself and in the relationship and ruined
what was a great relationship at the time.

I’ve seen and experienced my own issues over
and over before learning that I had to deal
with them before I could move past the limitations
they put on my and my life.

In other words, I’ve been “that guy” who isn’t
“ready”, and doesn’t know how to commit… and
I’ve seen how myself and other men work through
this and grow past it with a great woman in our
lives.

WHY I DECIDED TO MAKE HELPING WOMEN TO UNDERSTAND
MEN AND RELATIONSHIPS ONE OF MY LIFE’S GOALS…

Over the last 10 or so years it’s been hard to
watch the women around me (even those I dated)
struggle to understand the men they were
attracted to or dating, and to see them analyze
and “process” what was going on… only to have
little or no growth or progress in their
situation and their love life as a result.

Seeing smart, caring, loving, intelligent,
“good women” spend their time worrying about
what to do with a man to help their relationship
along… only to come up “empty” for all their
time and energy has really frustrated me.

So much so that I made the decision to do
WHATEVER it took to help the women I knew learn
how to be SUCCESSFUL with men and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and doing all
kinds of crazy things to learn the real-world
truth about men and women, I finally figured
things out for myself.

I’ve read HUNDREDS of books on psychology,
human behavior, dating/relationship advice for
men and women, love, attraction, communication,
and more.

And I can tell you first hand that there are
a WHOLE bunch of psychologists, social scientists,
writers, thinkers, etc. who tend to focus on
the “later stages” of love when people have
found each other or are already married.

Yet what I’ve learned and heard from other
women is that there’s a whole lot that happens
BEFORE two people commit in a relationship,
and these earlier stages and processes usually
don’t get much attention.

I’ve also learned that I can help women get
what they want with dating, love, and
relationships by sharing what I’ve learned from
knowing hundreds of women, hearing thousands
of stories, and having done a lot of my own
personal research.

wHY LOVE DOESN’T COME EASY ALL THE TIME

Some people like to say that when you meet
the right person you’ll know, and that everything
will fall into place.

But that’s the exception, not the rule.

If you’re like most women in the world, you
know that relationships, love, and especially
commitment take A LOT more than just luck and
timing – although these can play a part.

The good things in life, such as meeting
people you value and trust, don’t always settle
in the way that you want them to happen.

Meeting people can be spontaneous and easy,
but to maintain a meaningful and fulfilling
connection in your life requires some real work
on both sides – like it or not.

I believe in love and fate.

But I also believe that if you’re running into
some trouble along the way and things aren’t
“perfect” for you… you do have the power to help
things along.

But you’ve got to learn what really works, or
else you’ll end up spending more time and energy
and have the exact same outcomes.

Yikes!

The good news is that learning and experiencing
new things in life is the most rewarding and
gratifying thing you can ever do – because once
you know how to do something you can take it with
you and make it work wherever, and with whoever
you are with.

If you want to create GREAT situations in your
life, you need to THINK POSITIVELY about your
present situation, learn as much as you can, and
set out to do something in small realistic steps.

You have to do this part without expectations
of immediate success to give yourself enough room
and time to learn.

In the process, you’ll encounter some failures
which will only help you to grow.

The most successful people I know are the ones
who have thought HARD about what they want and
have come to terms with how to pursue their dreams.

They PLAN how to get there and follow through
with consistent long-term effort WITHOUT blaming
other people for not getting what they want.

And they DON’T expect easy or instant success
with any pieces of the puzzle.

It’s no surprise that the women I know who are
HAPPIEST in their relationships are the ones who
have adopted this long term realistic attitude
in their love lives.

I LOVE the idea of helping women become more
successful with men, but I HATE the idea of
playing games, manipulating, etc. is the right
approach.

Because deep down, I know that most women are
good people who want to be good to others and to
the men they’re around.

WHY SHOULD YOU BELIEVE THAT I CAN HELP YOU?

My answer to you is that you SHOULDN’T just
blindly believe me.

In fact, I would recommend that you approach
my materials with a healthy skepticism, and a
“realistic” approach.

I want you to TRY what you learn.

I think you’ll find that I’m not interested
in things that don’t work.

I’m not interested in things that will hurt
EITHER party in a relationship or give any
person the “upper hand”.

What I am interested in is helping you find
the best ways to understand men, AND helping
making it easier for you to have a man be a
better partner by understanding more about you
and your feelings, dreams, and desires.

I can help you gain insights into how a man’s
mind really works…. Such as why he tends to
withdraw when you get closer, and how the
commitment process actually works for a man.

I’m also interested in helping you, as a woman,
to overcome your own personal challenges that may
be keeping you from having the love life and
experiences you know are possible.

I’m talking about things like fear, over
analyzing, a lack of self-confidence, not being
able to share your feelings in a way that gets
him to listen or respond, or low self-esteem.

The real truth is that if you struggle with
some of these things, even the most reassuring
man and relationship can’t keep you from running
into these same problems within yourself.

YOU need to learn how to grow within yourself
in order to be FULLY READY for a fulfilling
relationship with a man.

I’m also interested in sharing how ATTRACTION
works, because without it, you can’t have a
committed, loving, passionate, lasting relationship.

And I mean the kind of attraction that lasts a
lifetime.

Nature has “pre-wired” men to feel attraction
in different ways than most women.

I can help you “get” what’s going on inside
his mind and what triggers a deep level of
ATTRACTION.

And I can show you how and why a man will all
of a sudden have serious “long term” thoughts
with one woman after telling his ex-girlfriend
that he wasn’t sure if he would ever “settle down”
and truly commit.

By the way, my materials aren’t “perfect”.

I’ve spent a lot of time trying to explain and
describe what I’ve learned over the years… and
to do it in a way that allows you to get results
and experiences you want as fast as possible.

The fact is, like you, I’m learning and growing
all the time.

I’m a person, and as a person I have my flaws.

But I also think my programs are the best out
there on the subject, and I stand behind them.

I honestly hope you get a TON of value from them.

“TRY BEFORE YOU BUY”

I truly believe that you should only have to
pay for any of my programs if it improves your
relationships with men.

Because if it doesn’t, you shouldn’t have to
pay for it… right?

So before you take a look at all my
“Catch Him & Keep Him” programs, let me tell you
that EVERY program comes with a “Try Before You Buy”
no-risk guarantee.

You can try ANY program you want, learn
everything inside, take the time to absorb the
materials and apply them to your own life BEFORE
you have to pay for it.

If you don’t get the results you are looking
for, then just send it back to me and I won’t
charge you.

It’s that simple and absolutely hassle-free.

WHY I LOVE WHAT I DO

I’ve helped thousands of women get rid of that
sick, uncertain or insecure feeling… the one you
get when you’re lonely, you’ve been hurt or lied
to, you can’t figure out what in the world a man
is doing, or when a man you have feelings for says
“he’s not ready”.

It’s been a very rewarding experience being
able to help so many women, and it’s how I became
FASCINATED with the female perspective in the
dating world.

I want you to reach a point where you don’t
have to be afraid you might wind up being lied to,
cheated on, or that you’ll end up alone.

I want to help you create an AMAZING
relationship with the right man… without having
to deal with all the wrong men, be “manipulated”
or experience pain and loss.

I believe that ANY woman can have the love life
she wants, and I get emails every day with success
stories from women who have read my ebook or tried
one of my programs.

They’ve taken what they’ve learned and found
great guys and are growing committed, fulfilling,
meaningful relationships.

Every single one of my programs will
DRAMATICALLY increase your success, comfort and
happiness when it comes to men, dating and
relationships… I absolutely guarantee it 100%.

SO WHERE SHOULD YOU START?

Once you start seeing improvement in your
love life with men and relationships, you’re
going to naturally start seeing things in a
new way and really “get” more of what I’ve
been sharing in my newsletters and programs.

But if you are starting out, the best place
to begin is with my first ebook.

It’s called “Catch Him & Keep Him” and you
can read all the details and download your copy
and be reading it in just a minute right here:

http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/eBook/

My ebook contains dozens of specific strategies
for overcoming the common challenges, frustrations,
fears, and resistance that comes up in situations
with men.

Inside the book, you’ll learn how to quickly
take the ATTRACTION going on between you and a
man and move it to an even deeper “emotionally
connected” level quickly and easily… and this
is the beginning of lasting relationship.

If you’re looking for the real, genuine, no
B.S. ways to make a man CRAZY for you, get what
you want out of your relationships – and at the
same time – avoid ANY of traps and mistakes that
could cost you a lifetime of lost loves, this
could be the most important book you ever read.

Seriously.

I have women write to me all the time and tell
me they wish they had read my book 5, 10, 20, 30
years ago, as it would have saved them years of
wasted time and energy with men.

Most of my best ideas are in this book, and it
will have an IMMEDIATE IMPACT on your success
with men.

You can download the ebook and be reading it
in literally minutes. Just go here:

http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/eBook/

If you’ve decided to take this part of your
life “seriously”, and you’d like to get a more
in-depth education, then here’s how to do it…

“Interviews With Dating & Relationship Experts”

Every month, I interview a different dating
and relationship “expert”… someone who is one
of the BEST TEACHERS in the world when it comes
to understanding the amazing and seemingly
unpredictable world of men, dating and
relationships.

As you know, one of THE BEST things you can
do to improve your relationships with men is to
learn directly from people who are “masters” in
helping others have near instant success in their
dating life or relationship…

And who can give you the quick “inside track”
on what’s really going on inside the male mind
when it comes to dating and relationships.

The fact is, it’s hard to find these people
in real life. And it’s harder to get them to
spill their secrets!

I’ve been at this for quite a while, so I’m
lucky enough to have access to a ton of amazing
experts, and I have the distinct pleasure of
having an IN-DEPTH interview with one of them
every month.

Getting several different perspectives will
open your mind to the possibilities that are out
there for YOU… and you’ll also learn TONS of
practical, real-world, step-by-step techniques
for creating loving, fulfilling relationships
with men.

If you’d like to learn more about my monthly
“Interviews With Dating & Relationship Experts”
program, go here:

http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/InterviewSeries/

“Natural & Lasting Attraction”

I created this program because I realized
that attraction was the single most important
experience you need to create in a relationship
with a man to let him know, in his heart and
mind, that you’re the woman he wants to be with
and stay with.

This amazing program takes an in-depth look
at the REAL REASONS WHY a man either “feels it”
for you and KNOWS that you are the one and only
woman for him (and thus pushes your relationship
forward on his own)…

Or if he’s going to remain UNCERTAIN about
his feelings for you and seem almost INDIFFERENT
about where things are going between you both.

This program shows you exactly how to create
the kind of deep emotional connection with a man
that takes you both beyond the physical… and
brings you together in a deeper kind of EMOTIONAL
CONNECTION and ATTRACTION.

I’m talking about that strong, gut-level
experience and attraction that allows a
relationship to last FOREVER.

I’m sure you’ve had experiences when your
relationships started off with amazing
“chemistry” that drives things forward at
first…

But once this initial experience reaches its
greatest potential or wears off, the man seems
to pull back, change, or grow distant.

The real reason for this: a man wasn’t
FEELING the level of attraction for you that
is going to make him want to move things forward.

I know these unfortunate realities can be
irritating and frustrating when it comes to men
and relationships.

But the GOOD NEWS is you can prevent this
from happening and make a man FEEL, on a deep
emotional level, that he wants to be with you
and only you… and my program will show you
EXACTLY how to create this kind of emotional
experience with a man in short order.

Check out some free sample video clips of
this program here and also see what other women
have been able to do in their relationship with
the material they learned in this program:

http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/NALA/

“From Casual to Committed”

As you know, I spend a lot of time in my
newsletters helping women take their relationship
to the next level- to where they finally can
experience the trust, comfort, and certainty
that comes from knowing that a man is truly,
deeply committed to the relationship.

This program was designed to provide step
by step instructions, as well as invaluable
insights, into the way a man’s mind works so
you can move forward towards a deep physical
and emotional bond with a man ? regardless of
whether a man has been RESISTANT or WITHDRAWN
in your relationship in the past.

The truth is, too many women never learn how
a man’s heart works over the LONG TERM… and
so they never get to enjoy that “secure” and
certain feeling that comes from knowing that
a man is completely COMMITTED to making your
relationship fun and lasting.

It’s time for you to finally have the “map”
to how a commitment and a relationship works
for a MAN. (It’s different than for women.)

Once you do, you’ll no longer be trying to
hold the relationship together on your own -
he’ll be there with you to help keep you both
close and connected.

You don’t have to do all the “work”.

In fact, as strange as it might sound right
now… things will be even more committed when
you aren’t doing all the work and he’s choosing
to do his part on his own.

But you have to learn how to get him there
with you if you want to experience this with a
man.

To learn more about this program, and take
your relationship to a deeper level of commitment
not just for you, but for the man in your life
too, visit:

http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/FCTC/

So What Should You Do Now?

I’d like to wrap this up by pointing out a
couple of things to you, and making a couple of
recommendations.

First of all, let’s talk about your future.

There’s an old saying that goes like this:

“If you keep doing what you’ve done, you’ll
keep getting what you’ve got.”

In other words, if you wand different RESULTS
in your life, then you’re going to have to DO
something different.

Having a successful relationship with a man
isn’t an “accident”.

Attraction isn’t an “accident”.

Commitment isn’t something that works if a
man isn’t “with you”.

You’re not going to wake up tomorrow and know
how to create a lasting and meaningful relationship
with a man and break the patterns that have
happened in the past, without doing something
DIFFERENT.

But the GOOD news is that you can LEARN how
to successfully meet great men, experience
fabulous first dates, cheat-proof your
relationships, and really connect emotionally
and physically with a man for more than just
a fling or a casual relationship if you want to.

YOU have the chance to take advantage of all
the hard work and time I put into figuring this
stuff out.

YOU have the chance to learn stuff that has
taken me YEARS helping other women get to the
love life they want… and get all this in just
one click of your mouse.

If this sounds good to you, then MAKE IT HAPPEN
for yourself.

Take a look at my programs and ebook.

WATCH AND LISTEN to the video clips from the
programs to see and hear the comments from women
who have found this material INVALUABLE to
improving their relationships with men NOW AND
FOREVER.

Congratulations, by the way. You’re taking an
amazing step by investing in yourself, and soon
you will have developed your own insights that
will make the relationship you’ve always wanted
not just something you’ve dreamed of.

And do me a favor if you wouldn’t mind…

After you have spent some time with my programs,
email me and let me know how they have worked for
you.

I LOVE to hear Success Stories from women who
have used my programs to improve their
relationships with men and the happiness it brings.

Your Friend In Life And Love,

Christian Carter

P.S. If you want to look at all of the different
programs I’ve created to help you find and meet
great guys, connect with them on a deeper emotional
level, create the type of intense attraction that
leads to a man wanting to commit to more, and help
you build and enjoy a secure and lasting
relationship…

You can see all of my programs, get the details,
and watch some great free video preview clips of
all of them right here:

http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10452/Catalog/

P.P.S. I’d LOVE to hear what you think about my
newsletters, my eBook, and my other programs.
Feel free to email me at Stories@CatchHimAndKeepHim.com,
as I do read my email.

*Important Note*
If you’re going to write me, please follow
these quick guidelines so your email gets my
attention right away…

1) Keep it short and to the point. A few paragraphs
at most, please.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your program works” comments, but the fact is that
I DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other women to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these emails first, before all others. And if
you’d like to ask me a question, write “Question
for Christian” in your subject line.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at: Stories@CatchHimAndKeepHim.com
….don’t just hit “reply” to this email because I
will NOT receive it if you do.

Thanks!

P.P.P.S. For help or support questions, please email
Support@CatchHimAndKeepHim.com and I’ll make sure
you get your question answered quickly.

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