Dating Advise for Men In Waikiki

Hello Casanova,

Only two more issues of the minicourse to go! I hope you’ve been
getting a lot out of it so far.

We’ve covered a LOT of ground in the past five days, and I know it
can be a bit overwhelming. I hope you’re taking these lessons to
heart and will make a commitment to apply all this free golden
information I’m sharing with you.

When I was first starting out trying to get better with women, I
WISH there had been a resource like my book, The Art Of
Approaching, to guide me in my quest to improve my love life.

But it’s because there was no resource like The Art Of Approaching
that I decided to write that book, so you wouldn’t have to go
through all the trial and error I did!

And one of the hardest things I had to figure out what to do
AFTER I meet a woman.

I mean, flirting is good, and it’s a powerful tool. But you need
to have a framework that will allow you to use it.

And that framework is…

STORYTELLING!

Yes, I know, that sounds dumb, but bear with me…

When I was struggling to meet women, I was able to get to the point
where I could talk to them, I could even flirt a little with them,
but after that, the interaction just peetered out.

Basically, I couldn’t think of anything to talk about! And the
woman would get bored, and eventually move on to something more
interesting.

Then, one night, I was out with a friend of mine who’s naturally
good with women, and we went to a bar. Now, I had never really
taken the time to sit back and observe what this friend of mine
did, but this night, I decided to hang back and watch him work.

And I was SHOCKED at the results.

I came to realize that I was doing everything my friend was doing,
EXCEPT telling stories!

The funny thing is, I’ve heard his stories so many times, that I
learned to tune them out when he’d retell them to women. What I
realized was that though I was bored with the stories, the girls
were completely captivated by them!

It’s funny, because most men who are naturals with women are
usually good storytellers. They’re able to tell a story that’s so
entertaining, you can’t help but have a good time with them!

Remember this: Storytelling = Entertainment = Good Time

And if you can show a woman a good time, they’ll always want to be
around you!

Now, another interesting fact about naturals with women, is that
they always tell the same stories over and over again. This is
because they perfect their stories every time they tell them, and
they also know which stories work to get the women they’re talking
to interested!

But these stories all have something in common, no matter who is
telling what story. There’s one common factor that binds them all
together. It’s the “secret” of every natural ladies man anywhere,
and I’m going to share it with you right now.

THE STORY IS ALL ABOUT THEM!

That’s right. They talk about themselves.

There’s a very specific reason for this that I’ll get to in just a
moment.

Now, I cover the art of storytelling in great detail in my book,
but I’m going to share some fundamentals here with you so you’ll
know how to do it.

The first thing you have to do is KNOW SOME GOOD STORIES. They
should be stories from your life that are entertaining. Beware
boring stories! They will KILL the vibe of your interaction.

Next, when you meet a girl, ask her some questions about herself.
Simple things like “Where are you from,” or “What do you like to do.”

Keep asking her about herself until you find something you can
relate your story to.

For instance, if she’s from Chicago, and you have a story about
living in Chicago or visiting Chicago, that’s the perfect time to
tell it!

It’s important to tell stories that relate to the woman’s
experience, because that helps you to create a sense of connection
with her. It’s a way of creating a common experience you both
share. Remember that old phrase “We have so much in common!”?
Well, that’s important because people gravitate towards that which
is familiar. And the more familiar you can make yourself to her,
the easier time you’ll have getting a date.

Finally, make sure you’re story is about YOU! I mentioned this
before, about how most naturals just talk about themselves, but
there’s a reason for doing this beyond seeming self-centered.

When you tell a story that’s fun and entertaining, where YOU’RE the
main character, others will associate their good feelings that
story creates with YOU.

The more good feelings you can associate with yourself, the easier
your job becomes, because trust and comfort are created in your
audience.

That’s why so many women are attracted to rock stars and musicians.
Their songs create such good feelings inside them, they associate
all those feelings to the people playing the songs!

You’re doing the exact same thing, only instead of music, you’re
doing it with words.

In my book, The Art Of Approaching, I show you how to craft your
own stories and all the elements you need to have in place to
totally captivate a woman and get her interested in you. If you
only learn one skill from my book, this is the one to learn! You
can download your copy and be reading it in just a few minutes by
clicking below:

http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?rxptYSo20S8IuEAk__XGFw

If you can create your own stories where you’re the main character
and others will have fun listening to you weave your tale, I
guarantee you’ll start to have amazing success with women.

Wishing you success with women,

Joseph Matthews

PS: In the next issue of this special minicourse, we’ll go into
detail about how to build trust and comfort with your conversations
and how to set up the first date.

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