Hi Casanova,
I recently got a question from a student
who calls himself SGH, trying to stump
me.
Here’s his question…
QUESTION
Hi Joe,
When we think about the whole concept of
dating, and why most men struggle to get
a girlfriend or in some cases even
simply just a date for the evening or so,
we need to go way down the rabbit whole,
where no man has gone before.
Simply put, I believe that the whole
“Mating Game” is based on a set of
fixed rules, which cannot be changed.
For example your material teaches
guys to rely on their personality to
achieve success in the dating game.
The simple truth however is that like
other animals we mate with those which
are the strongest candidates. This is
all based on physical qualities.
Call it survival of the fittest is you
like, but someone who is tall/muscular
is automatically perceived as being
essentially in a better state of health,
thus a stronger candidate.
The truth is that people are more likely
to be attracted to someone who has all
the “required” physical qualities than
someone who has a attractive personality
example.
I mean, would you rather sleep with someone
who is physically attractive yet has no
personality … or would you rather sleep
with someone who has a great personality
but not so much physically attractive?
Can you please express your views on this.
thanks, SGH
MY ANSWER:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Well, HELLO MR. FANCY PANTS. =)
You break it down like you got a PhD in
evolutionary biology. But there are some
massive flaws in your argument that I hope
you don’t mind me pointing out…
First of all, human beings aren’t animals.
Sure, we’re a species, and though we share
some similarities with the animals on our
planet, I assure you, we are DIFFERENT in
many ways.
For instance, I’m willing to bet you don’t
go around sniffing people’s butts, eating
your poo, and picking fleas off of strangers
just for a snack.
(And if you do, I’m afraid you’re beyond my
ability to help! =)
See, you’re the type of guy who still buys
into the idea that “Looks Matter.”
And thought they DO matter, they don’t matter
in the way YOU think they do.
It’s important to look as good as you can,
but you don’t have to be tall and muscular
to get hot chicks.
Just look around life and see how many short,
scrawny guys are out there with hotties. That
should be proof.
Your problem my friend (and the problem of
many men) is that you focus too much on YOUR
insecurities about your looks, and then
project your own biases onto other people.
Let me ask you this…
Would you ever want to bang a fat chick?
Answer honestly now…
In your case, judging from your email, I’m
willing to bet the answer to that is NO.
But there are lots of guys out there who
like to bang Large Women.
(Heck, some of them ONLY like fat women!)
How do you explain that one with your evolution
theory?
Answer: YOU CAN’T!
Because human beings have a more complicated
mental and emotional structure than any other
animal on the planet.
And because it’s complicated, it allows for
lots of leeway when it comes to so-called
“survival instincts.”
The fact is, we don’t always mate with the best
possible match for us.
And that is DEFINITELY true for women.
Dude, I’d take the Pepsi challenge with my
tubby old ass against a mute muscle-man any
day of the week.
Because personality, willpower, and smarts
can get any chick you want against muscles and
looks any time.
I’ve seen it happen time and time again, and
experienced it myself.
Women are emotional creatures. If you can tap
into their emotions, you can generate attraction
with them, no matter what you look like.
Physical attributes may be a factor in the short
term, but in the long term, unless you have an
emotional connection, you’re going to fall flat.
The only good looking guy I would ever worry about
is one who also knows and practices my techniques!
And in that case, I’d wish him well, and find
another woman to pick up…
(Because there are a gazillion of them out
there!)
And out of all the women on the planet, I’ll
bet you good money there are ones that like
short scrawny guys.
But even if you find them, there’s no guarantee
you’ll be able to attract them…
UNLESS you know my material.
Check it out here:
http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?Tv9qdiiw83h593wAPqjtAQ
And if you really want to hedge your bets
and make sure you have no competition with
the ladies, learn from my advanced course
here:
http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?eZhblCgHiT.xYrnlISrc9g
It’s the new world order, my friend. Welcome
to it.
Talk soon,
Joseph Matthews
Bizlancer, Inc.
368 North Ave
Los Angeles, CA
