Dating Advise for Men In Waikiki

Why Women RUN From “Nice” Guys

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I have a lot of guys write me to say, “I know
this girl who’s beautiful and smart and
attractive. She and I are great friends, we have
everything in common, and we get along
perfectly… but she says that she’s just not
attracted to me…”

Have you ever noticed that:

1) The most attractive and interesting women seem
to be attracted to men who don’t treat them very
well?

2) That the “nicer” you are to a woman the more
she often seems to act like “just a friend” to
you?

What’s going on here? Didn’t mom say to be
“nice” to girls?

Here’s the deal: Women aren’t usually
romantically attracted to “nice” guys. Women are
attracted to men who are funny, confident, and
mysterious. Good looks don’t hurt, but if you’re
not 6’4″ tall and model-handsome, then you have to
learn how to attract women with your personality.

And being “nice” isn’t going to do it for you.

A while back, I mentioned an interesting book
that was written about the band “Motley Crue”.
Remember those guys?

Well, the book is called “The Dirt: Confessions
of the Worlds Most Notorious Rock Band.” As I read
through that book, I realized that these guys have
dated more of the world’s most attractive women
than anyone (except maybe Hugh Hefner).

In case you didn’t know, the guys in Motley
Crue are not very “nice”. They’re famous for
taking every drug known to man, beating their
women, fighting, and having a lot of people die
around them.

Now, the first thing most guys say is, “Yeah,
but they’re rich and famous…”

And this is true, they are rich and famous.
But, and it’s a BIG ONE… all of the women that
they have dated, married, and beaten up are ALSO
RICH AND FAMOUS TOO!

These are supermodels and playmates of the year
and such. These women can date whoever they want.
Tommy Lee was MARRIED to both Heather Locklear AND
Pamela Anderson… remember?

These women didn’t need Tommy Lee for his money
or his fame… they’re dating these guys for some
OTHER REASON!

Are you with me on this?

So what’s going on here? And more importantly,
how can you use this information to be more
successful with women and dating?

First of all, don’t go out and start taking
drugs and beating up your dates. I mean, I know
that an occasional woman will drive a man to
drink, but I don’t recommend going “Motley Crue”
on a girl… lol.

The first chapter of my book “Double Your
Dating” is called “Women Don’t Make Sense”. Here’s
what I mean…

*****Side Note*****

By the way, if you’re just learning about how
to be more successful with women and dating, you
need to go and download a copy of my book NOW. You
can download it here, and be reading it in just a
few minutes:

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Onward…

I believe:

1) Women make decisions very, very quickly about
whether a man is going to be “just a friend” or if
he has romantic potential, and once her decision
is made, it’s probably going to stay made.

2) These decisions are made “subconsciously”,
meaning that women make all of them quickly and at
a “gut level”.

3) If you know how, you make her feel attraction
feelings rather than “friend” feelings.

4) The way to do it is to stop acting “nice” and
start acting, well… something else… and I
don’t mean “not nice”.

So what DOES attract women? And how do you do
it exactly?

Good questions…

At the beginning, I mentioned three qualities:
Funny, Confident, and Mysterious.

Before I talk about each, I first have to
remind you that WOMEN DON’T USUALLY MAKE SENSE.
Remember that.

Here’s a good metaphor: Remember when you
learned to drive? It all made sense… turn the
wheel left and go left, turn it right and go
right…

But do you remember when you learned to back
up? Backing up was a whole new game. Everything
that used to work now works in a different way. At
first you feel disoriented. Turn the wheel left
and go right… and you have to learn how to
maneuver with the back wheels staying straight
while the front wheels turn… all with your head
turned around.

For most people, this takes some time and
practice. But once you “get it” then you can do it
anytime you want.

Well, women are very similar. At first it’s
very confusing. You have to try things that don’t
seem to make sense. But once you get the hang of
it, then you see how it works and can make it
work… just like backing up a car.

As much as many women would hate to admit it,
there’s something very attractive about a man who
is just a little more confident than he should be.
And if you combine this with the right amount of
humor, you have a magic combination that will
charm almost any woman.

Here are a few ways to use this idea:

1) When you first meet a woman, tease her about
something. It doesn’t matter what it is, as long
as you do it early on. For instance, you might
say: “So what’s with the big purse? Are you
carrying a gun in there?” or maybe “Those are some
pretty tall shoes, what are you like 4′ tall
without them?” If you tease a woman, it shows that
you’re not intimidated by her, and that you have a
fun sense of humor. KEY: Make sure you say
something FUNNY. If you don’t know how to be
funny, get a book on it. The test: If she’s not
laughing, then it wasn’t funny!

2) Look around at other things and seem kind of
pre-occupied when you first start talking to her.
Make your funny remarks with a carefree, detached
tone. You want to sound like you’re talking to
your best friend. Attractive women are approached
all the time. It’s not attractive to a woman when
you look like you’ve just met Madonna. This “just
a little too confident” attitude is very
attractive to women… especially when it’s
combined with humor.

3) Don’t answer her questions directly. Women love
to ask questions like: “What do you do?” and
“Where do you live?” and “Tell me about your
family”. Answer with funny answers, and don’t give
her what she wants. Most guys say, “Oh, I’m an
engineer” or “I’m a stock broker”. BORING,BORING.
If she asks what you do… say, “Oh, funny you
should ask. I’m a Calvin Klein Underwear Model…
What do you do?…” (This is especially funny if
it’s OBVIOUS that you are NOT a model) Do you get
it? Keep it up and keep her laughing.

It’s important to remember that I’m not telling
you to be mean, or to be a jerk to women. I’m
telling you to start being confident, funny, and
mysterious.

If this is starting to make sense to you, and
you’d like to learn more about the art of
communicating with a woman on a “sexual” level,
then you might want to go and check out my “Sexual
Communication” program.

This is an entire educational program that will
teach you how to use your COMMUNICATION to trigger
and build ATTRACTION with women. All the details,
plus some great video clips are here:

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Now, if you want to REALLY learn how to get
away from being a “nice guy” who never gets
anywhere with women, I recommend that after you
read my eBook, you get yourself a copy of my
Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

This program will give you an in-depth
education on how to think and behave in such a way
that will spark a woman’s GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for
you… no matter what your looks, height, income,
age, etc.

You will learn literally HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS
of killer ideas for getting over your fears,
approaching women, getting dates, and taking
things to a physical level.

The best part? I’ll send it to you at MY RISK.

I’m not kidding around here. You can order it
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Trust me, I don’t get many of them back! But I
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success that guys are having meeting women after
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I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

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“Lines” That Get Women To Pick You Up

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***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

Hey David D!

Who says there’s no such thing as magic? When it
comes to women, cocky+funny is PURE 100% magic. It
is one of the major keys to getting her making her
comfortable with you, to getting her number, to
getting the date, kissing, getting laid,
EVERYTHING! Your stuff is pure platinum my man!
Looking back on mailbags from over a year ago, I
still shake my head and say: “Man, this guy is
good. I cant wait ’till I am able to pull off
those lines like that!” The lines are so funny and
with cockiness, it just blows them away! Every
time
you do it, you can just FEEL the women responding
to you in a positive way and not trying to ignore
you or get away from you when you act like a wuss-
bag. They are always laughing and smiling and even
THEY tend to get touchy-feely, asking me for MY
number and then calling ME (of course, I always
get their numbers too) or asking me to call them,
asking me when we’re going out, and even asking ME
for sex. I could not believe it! And often, this
could happen within minutes or hours of
meeting…not weeks, months, or years like I once
thought it took. I suggest all guys especially the
skeptics out there to get your stuff. It works!

What I LOVE is how you say making it look like as
if a woman is picking YOU up. It sure takes the
pressure off of the situation. It’s all in the
mind set. You are not nervous because you know she
wants you and is trying to get you…not the other
way around. Then you act accordingly. Here’s just
a few of the lines I use:

“Look, just because you’re being sweet to me
doesn’t mean I’m going to sleep with you. What?
You
thought I was THAT easy? Common!”

(with women at work or women working somewhere)
“How can you possibly get any work done when
you’re flirting with me all the time? I know I’m a
stud and all but if you lose your job, don’t think
I’m going to support you!”

(after seeing a woman) “I know we had fun, but
please don’t become a stalker and call me 50 times
a day or else I’ll have the cops pay you a visit
with a restraining order in hand!”

(If a woman hints at sex or sometimes I’ll bring
it up)

“I don’t know if I could have sex with you…what
if you could only last 2 minutes? I don’t know if
you can even kiss…I tell you what, I’ll THINK
about it” (then I kiss her)

(cocky+funny for a common situation)

Her: “How are you?”

Me: “Well, I’ve been told I’m pretty damn good!”
with a ‘wink’

(If a woman walks past me)

Me: “What are you doing” (or where are you going?)

Her: “I’m going to such and such or I’m doing such
and such”

Me: “You’re a lousy liar……It’s really
ok to admit you were just trying to get a look at
me… and as long as you’re not a stalker, I may
give you a chance!”

(If she makes fun of herself) Her: “I’m such a
retard” or “My hair looks awful” or “My lipstick
doesn’t look good does it?”

Me: “Well, I didn’t want to say anything!” lol
“But
I think those guys over there were thinking
‘What’s
her problem? She’s so clueless!”

OR

Her: “My hair looks bad doesn’t it?” (or any other
line where she makes fun of herself)

Me: “You can say that again!” (with a playful
tone)

I love it! I love it! With this type of
communication, they react SO differently! A lot of
times, they will break down and admit they DO like
me! And this keeps you out of the “lets just be
friends” category and reduces the number of fake
numbers and blow-offs you get from women. It also
keeps you from appearing “TOO NICE”. AND I don’t
have to CHASE them anymore! It’s a wonderful
feeling. Now on the other hand, what if you said:

“I bet you have a boyfriend, right?”

“Hey baby, you’re so beautiful!”

“Can I take you out sometime?”

“Oh, baby, there’s nothing wrong with you! You’re
gorgeous!”

AH! David, just like you say…THIS STUFF IS
TERRIBLE! Wuss, kiss-ass behavior at its best!

It’s so lame, so boring, and so wussie, and so
blah! Using cocky+funny, we can have more fun
without sounding like a loser plus women respond
1,000,000% times better with cocky+funny. Probably
only 1-2% of the male population know what
cocky+funny is and probably half of those do it
without realizing it. This type of communication
is DIFFERENT from what MOST guys do which makes
you stand out! But it’s a lot like water. For
water (H20), you need 2 hydrogen atoms and one
oxygen atom. If not then you get some other
element you aren’t looking for. You have to have
the right mixture of cocky AND funny or else it
doesn’t work as well (although sheer cockiness
with
mild humor CAN work to a degree).

Now, I have a question and observation that is
important to me, David. SOMETIMES when I throw out
a cocky+funny response, they will say “Oh
whatever!” or roll their eyes or say you’re mean,
get mad, or something like that and walk away.
This happens not often but on rare occasions.
These women are probably uptight anyways and not
worth getting know. When they say “whatever” or
“You’re so mean” and they’re laughing or smiling,
and they still keep talking to me, then I know
it’s working. Also, when you say something like:
“…Oh quit lying, you were just walking near me
because you want me” and they say “No, I don’t
want
you” or “No I wasn’t, I was just doing _ _ _ _ _”
in a semi-serious tone, how do you respond to that
to keep the cocky+funny going? In other words,
what do you do when they act as if they ARENT
picking you up?

Thanks a million Dave…you’ve changed my life
forever… seriously.

GT from Nashville, Tennessee

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, so let’s talk about the great comments that
you’ve shared, and then I’ll address your
question…

I was amazed when I first realized that you
could actually turn the tables around, pretend
that you’re trying to “resist her advances”, and
make fun of her for trying to “put the moves on
you”… and wind up having the woman you’re
talking to actually start feeling attracted to you
as a result.

It really is amazing.

Now, I know that a lot of guys hear this
approach and think, “Yeah, right. There’s no way
that just pretending that a woman is pursuing you
will MAKE her pursue you”…

But this isn’t just any old common way of
“pretending”.

What you’re doing here is a very special, Cocky
& Funny, flirty, engaging way of pretending.

I’m sure you’ve watched the Discovery Channel,
and seen animals “play fighting”. It’s common
among young animals in particular.

Now, how do animals know that it’s only “play”,
as opposed to “real” fighting?

I mean, have you ever seen the way some
animals, like lion cubs and wolf pups jump on and
bite each other?

It certainly LOOKS like real fighting.

But it’s not… it’s play.

Well there’s a very similar thing that happens
when you flirt with a woman using the Cocky &
Funny technique… and when you use this further
to pretend that she’s trying to “pick you up” and
you’re “resisting her advances”.

You have to use just a LITTLE EXTRA drama.

You have to be a little “overly suspicious”
with your tone.

You have to act just a little too serious and
offended.

These little cues, along with a good sense of
humor and timing are the hints and triggers that
make a woman instantly switch into “Oh, this is
play” mode, instead of behaving as if you’re a
loser who has no imagination.

There are some other key benefits as well, as
you mentioned above, when you’re using this
approach.

One is that you don’t come across as nervous or
intimidated. The fact that you’re turning the
tables around, having fun, and acting like you’re
something special sends the message that you’re
totally cool, calm, and comfortable in your own
skin… and, in fact, you’re SO comfortable that
you’re going to go immediately to “play” mode.

Another is that it gives you a “character role”
to play that is the OPPOSITE of being a WUSS. This
is handy, as most guys switch quickly into Wuss
mode when they start talking to an attractive
woman.

Finally, it gives you all kinds of great ways
to end the interaction…

You can say:

“OK, well I’m not going to give you my number,
but you can write down your email for me, and
maybe I’ll get back to you sometime…” etc.

It even makes taking things to the next level
easy and charming, because you’re “resisting
forward”.

A quick personal story:

I was at Hooters Restaurant yesterday afternoon
with a friend, and the waitress approached us to
get our order.

She walked over and said something like, “Hi,
can I get you something to drink?” etc.

I pretended not to notice her, and kept talking
to my friend.

Then, as she finished asking the question, I
turned to her with a surprised and “fake offended”
look on my face and said, “Oh, that’s OK, I was
just TALKING” (as if she had interrupted me).

She opened her mouth with the “Oh, no you
didn’t! I can’t believe you just said that” look.

I shook my head at her.

Then my friend looked at her and said, “Wow,
you’re very forward. Next thing she’s going to be
asking for your phone number”.

I shook my head at her again, and rolled my
eyes.

We gave her the drink order, and she went away.

She came back a few minutes later to tell me
that my drink was going to be delayed, because
they were making some kind of change in the
kitchen.

Of course, I threw up my hands in despair,
rolled my eyes at her, and shook my head (as if
she was disappointing me horribly).

She laughed and said, “Hey, you’d better watch
out, I might have to ask you for your phone
number”…

THAT FAST.

We had talked for a grand total of about a
minute, and she was already joking around about
asking me for my number.

Keep in mind, this is a HOOTERS waitress (and a
cute one, at that). She works in an environment
where hundreds of guys try to pick up on her, one
after the other…

Now, as you can imagine, this kind of thing
happens all the time when I interact with
waitresses, etc. I’ve found that it’s no harder to
get a waitress to give you her email/number than
it is to get any other girl’s info, by the way.

What’s the secret?

Being playful, fun, different, Cocky & Funny,
and not acting like a Wuss who wants to call her
100 times a day and tell her how pretty she is.

Now I’d like to address your question…

**By the way, if you’re reading this right now
and you’d like to learn the secret of using my
technique of Cocky & Funny, then you should go and
check out my DVD/CD program “Cocky Comedy”. It’s
the ultimate education on not only this technique,
but many other conversation skills. You can get
all the details here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/CockyComedy/

Onward…

Here’s your question again:

“…SOMETIMES when I throw out a cocky+funny
response, they will say “Oh whatever!” or roll
their eyes or say you’re mean, get mad, or
something like that and walk away. This happens
not often but on rare occasions. These women are
probably uptight anyways and not worth getting
know. When they say “whatever” or “You’re so mean”
and they’re laughing or smiling, and they still
keep talking to me, then I know it’s working.
Also, when you say something like: “…Oh quit
lying, you were just walking near me because you
want me” and they say “No, I don’t want you” or
“No
I wasn’t, I was just doing _ _ _ _ _” in a semi-
serious tone, how do you respond to that to keep
the cocky+funny going? In other words, what do you
do when they act as if they ARENT picking you
up?…”

What I’m about to tell you is sometimes hard
for guys to accept, so get ready.

SOME PEOPLE DON’T HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR.

No, really.

My guess is that something like 60%-80% of the
population just plain aren’t very interesting or
fun to talk to.

Some people are actually ARROGANT about their
lack of a sense of humor.

These are my personal favorites.

I remember meeting a girl at a bar a couple of
years ago.

I was in Hollywood, CA at a fancy bar, and she
was one of these “I’m a beautiful actress, and I
know it” types.

I was ordering a drink, and she bumped into me.

I turned and said, “Don’t touch me!”

She just looked at me with a “You’re a jerk”
look, and leaned away from me.

I smiled at her and said, “It was a joke, it’s
OK” (with kind of a slightly sarcastic “you didn’t
get it” tone of voice).

She said something like, “Well, it wasn’t
funny. You seem like an arrogant jerk”.

LOL!

I couldn’t help myself… I burst into
laughter.

She, of course, got even more annoyed.

Now, most guys would have gotten all upset,
thought that they must have done something majorly
wrong, and tried to apologize and get the woman to
like them.

I immediately recognized this girl as a person
who just plain doesn’t have a sharp sense of
humor, and who is probably a HUGE pain in the ass
to deal with in real life… so I laughed at her.

You’ll notice that a lot of guys write in to
the Mailbags with questions like, “I’m dating four
women right now, and they’re all wonderful, but
there’s this ONE girl that I just can’t get… how
do I make the one that isn’t interested LIKE me?”

This is a curious thing.

We humans always want the approval of the
person who doesn’t want to give it to us.

Instead of just walking away and saying, “your
loss”, we often chase after them, begging and
pleading for their approval… and thinking that
we must have done something wrong.

Remember, some people actually ENJOY making
other people feel bad. Some women actually ENJOY
rejecting men. It gives them a feeling of power.

There are MANY women who will spend all week
shopping, two hours putting on their clothing and
makeup (and doing their hair), just to go out and
get attention from men… so they can reject those
men, and complain to their friends about what
“losers” and “pigs” men are, and how they hate it
when men look at them like a “piece of meat”.

Go figure.

Let me give you a little “tough love”.

Part of growing up, becoming a REAL MAN, and
getting this area of your life handled is
realizing that not all women are nice people, and
not letting those that aren’t nice AFFECT YOU.

You can reach a point in your life where your
attitude should become “I do not give anyone
permission to take my joy, happiness, and good
mood away from me”.

When you get to this point, then IT DOESN’T
MATTER if a woman doesn’t respond positively to
your approach.

It doesn’t matter if she rejects you.

It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t have a sense
of humor.

None of this matters when you don’t give anyone
permission to TAKE YOUR JOY AWAY FROM YOU.

My advice: Learn to walk away. Learn to blow it
off. Learn how to IMMEDIATELY disconnect and
detach from these types of situations, and NOT let
them affect you.

The “numbers game” goes both ways.

If you start meeting a lot of women, you will,
by nature of meeting a LOT of women, meet quite a
few that don’t have a sense of humor, aren’t
friendly, aren’t available, etc.

You need to learn the skill of keeping your
power and joy for yourself, and NEVER giving it to
someone you don’t even know.

Make a decision right now that your joy is your
own, and that you’ll never allow another person to
take it away from you.

Dude, someone give me a hug.

OK… on a more serious note…

If you’ve been reading my newsletters for
awhile, or you’ve had a chance to download a copy
of my eBook or check out my Advanced Series, then
you know that I really believe it’s important to
get your “inner game” handled.

By “inner game”, I mean things like your
emotions, your outlook on life, your “mental map”
of how things work between men and women, etc.

It took me a long time, and a lot of trial and
error to find the things that REALLY work best
when it comes to making women feel that powerful
emotion called ATTRACTION.

And one of the most important things that I
realized is that if you don’t get your INNER GAME
together, and learn how to THINK about women and
dating, all the techniques in the world aren’t
going to help you very much.

In my Advanced Series, I spend several HOURS
going over everything from the evolution of human
mating to the beliefs and attitudes of guys who
are “naturally” good with women.

I think it’s important to change the way you
THINK as you change the way you BEHAVE.

Women use little clues to figure out if you’re
the “real deal” or if you’re just “faking it”.

If you don’t BELIEVE in what you’re doing, then
you’re going to come across as a fake. You’ll feel
like you’re being “manipulative”… and like a
fraud.

When you UNDERSTAND what is happening, how and
why women act the way they do, and how to make
women feel ATTRACTION, then your behaviors feel
“right” and they come across as AUTHENTIC…
because they ARE.

In my eBook and Advanced Series, I take a lot
of time to help you get your “inner game”
together, so you can feel GOOD about your success
with women.

Of course, I also reveal dozens and dozens and
dozens of killer techniques for approaching,
meeting, dating, and taking things to a physical
level with women.

I recommend that you check them out.

The Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program
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Your Friend,

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***QUESTION***

Hey David,

I want to thank you for all your advice in your
newsletters and in your ebook. This stuff really
works! I just got a new job at a clothing store
and all the girls that work there are all over me.
Not to mention the ones that shop at the store! I
have a question that I have been thinking about
ever since I ran across your material. I know in
your ebook you say to always make the decisions
(like where to go, what to do on a date, etc.) and
to be in control of the situation (don’t let her
insult or treat you poorly). What is it about this
that attracts women? Is this some kind of test to
see if you are in control of your life, or is it
like a subconscious trigger in a woman’s mind, or
what? I would appreciate any feedback on this
issue. Thanks again for all the help you have
already given me.

C.P. St. Louis, MO

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Here’s the deal about always making decisions
and staying in control…

Women aren’t attracted to WUSSIES.

So how could you characterize a Wuss?

A Wussy is a guy who is weak, indecisive, and
insecure.

A Wussy isn’t in control, and he doesn’t make
decisions.

Women feel ATTRACTION for men who demonstrate
the qualities of a LEADER.

How could you characterize a LEADER?

A LEADER is a man who is in control of the
situation, and who makes decisions and follows
through on them WITHOUT needing approval from
others.

You’ve asked a great question, but it’s a
complex one.

In my CD Audio Program “Advanced Dating
Techniques” I talk at length about the qualities
and beliefs of men who are NATURALLY attractive to
women, and how to communicate all of this with
body language, voice tone, and words.

If this topic is fascinating to you, then I
recommend that you check out my CD program. It
will blow your mind. You can find it right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/

***QUESTION***

Jedi Master,

Your material has unbelievable results. After
reading your book and newsletters, I am finding
myself in a dilemma of needing to let some of the
women down in order to make room for others.

The problem is they keep wanting to fill my
schedule and I haven’t learned or need to learn
how to let these women know that like yesterdays
newspaper, I have read and prefer to read current
events as opposed to rereading the same newspaper
over and over. I guess I am being a wussy in this
regard cause I just do not know how to say See Ya?

How does the master say this without being mean. I
want to let them go without hurting their self
esteem, they have done nothing wrong, they are
beautiful, I just want to move on and enjoy, the
riches you have endowed upon me, without hurting
them, and without being a wussy in the process.

G N Portland OR

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I’d say that the problem you’re experiencing is
probably being caused BEFORE it actually happens.

How do women know if a man is interested in
them for a “long term” relationship… or if he’s
just interested in dating casually?

The trigger for this is HOW OFTEN YOU SEE THEM,
and how often you CALL them.

Of course, there’s more… like whether or not
you buy gifts, talk about how you feel, ask her to
be your girlfriend, etc.

But if you want to just see a woman casually
and not have her become “hooked” on you, then
don’t call her more than a couple of times a week,
and don’t see her more than once a week… maybe
twice sometimes.

This should solve your problem.

***QUESTION***

I’m a 25 years old guy that never understood
women. Now I realize the WUSS I have been for such
a long time. Anyway, I was lucky because I got a
girlfriend casually, and I experienced with her,
but some years ago we broke up and I have been so
LOST with the women task and suddenly YOU, sensei
David, appeared in the middle of my nightmare, and
things started getting sense (I bought your ebook,
of course)

THE JEALOUS STUFF

The thing is that I have a bisexual friend (girl)
that I like, but I’ve never told her anything
about my feelings. Some days ago she and some of
her friends came to visit me and we went out. We
were in a nightclub, and next to us there was a
group of girls, I made eye contact with one of
them. And then I thought about something that I
wouldn’t have figured out in my WUSS- PAST-WOLD:
Let’s get that girl, and see the reaction of my
bisexual friend. After some C&F stuff, I was
french kissing the girl of the eye contact in
front of the face of my friend. And guess what was
the reaction ???? Now I can’t get rid of her. It’s
like I’ve been a kind of ghost, until that night

Thanks, David. Keep on giving us some perspective.

AS FROM SPAIN

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Hey, I never said that women made any damn
sense!

Jealousy is a powerful emotion.

Some think that it’s the MOST powerful emotion.

It might be interesting for you to know that
many of the guys I know who like to date a lot of
different women don’t hide the fact that they date
a lot of girls.

Many female animal species choose males by
finding the ones with the most other females who
are attracted to him.

Women are often the same.

Women can be very competitive, and if a woman
knows that you don’t have any trouble meeting
other women, it will often inspire her to feel
even more attraction for you.

But be careful. I don’t think that it’s a good
idea to try to deliberately make a woman jealous.
It doesn’t feel good, and if you meet the wrong
women you just might wind up with a rabbit boiling
on your stove when you come home one night.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

I won’t even begin to tell you how awsome your
book is and how it breaks everything down for ex-
wusses like myself because that would take up too
much time, but I’ve got a situation for you. A few
weeks ago, I met this girl in my class. She was
definitely a 8-9. Anyways, I got her number and
asked her if we could study sometime. We
eventually set up a date to get a paper done. She
didn’t show up! I was like…. okay, I’m not even
gonna get mad. So a few days later, I saw her
walking with this dude.. I was like… “ok, she
has a bf, thats why”, but here’s the funny part;
I’ve been working on my body language and eye
contact lately and it’s been doing wonders. When I
see her, I just speak and keep walking. I haven’t
held a conversation with her in like 2 weeks and
yesterday she left a message on my phone that
said…”Hey, this is —- from your english class,
I was just calling to tell you that I think that
you are a VERY attractive man, and I think you are
really fine. But I have a boyfriend. I know you
tried to study with me in the past, but you know
how things can be when you have a boyfriend… so
i guess ill talk to you later” Whats up with this?
I didn’t talk to the girl in two weeks and she
leaves this message? Was it a movement I made?
Could you anyalize this for me please?

B in FLA

P.S.- I never knew body language could be so
powerful!

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This kind of thing always makes me laugh.

I can remember when I used to call women too
often, and if they didn’t show up, I’d get upset
and try to set up another date with them, etc.

Of course, they’d usually play hard to get, and
wind up thinking that I was a Wussy because I just
accepted their flaky behavior.

Well, after I stopped calling women back who
flaked, and basically stopped CHASING women, I had
the strangest thing happen…

I had women call me… but sometimes it was
literally WEEKS later. Just like your situation.

You probably just have a girl who was in a
fight with her boyfriend the day she set the study
date with you… but fixed things up with him
before she was supposed to see you again… and
then maybe got into another fight with him so she
decided to call you and see if you were
available.

Don’t worry about it. Just move on. She’ll
probably start flirting with you again when she’s
single.

***QUESTION***

Dave –

Hey, your advice works wonders! It is amazing
how much it works. I tried it on this girl I
hardly knew, and we hit it off real well. In fact,
we hooked up, and that was pretty cool.

I need advice, though. The girl and I started
to really hit it off, and we became closer
everyday. Then, we started talking, and it seemed
as though we were over, and I was devastated.
She’s really cool and REALLY hot. We kept talking,
and she ends up telling me that she needs to know
herself before she knows me, so she asks for time,
and that I be her friend in that time. My
question: how do I keep her falling head over
heels for me while I give her the time, and that
she doesn’t become another friend.

Again, thanks for the great advice.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, let me do a little translation for you…

If a woman says, “I need time to get to know
myself” or “I need to find myself” or any
variation of this common theme, it usually means:

“YOU WERE ACTING LIKE A WUSS, BEING CLINGY, AND
GENERALLY NOT A CHALLENGE ANYMORE. I WANT YOU TO
LEAVE, BUT I DON’T WANT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS, SO
I’M GOING TO TELL YOU THAT I NEED TIME TO “FIND
MYSELF” TO GET YOU TO LEAVE ME ALONE WITHOUT A
HASSLE.”

I’m harsh, aren’t I?

Well, here’s the deal. In general, if you
become too predictable, too involved, too needy,
too wuss-ish, and too “head over heels” too early
in the relationship, it will drive a woman away.

Think about it this way: The REALLY attractive
women have guys chasing them FAR more than the
average/below average women. You need to do
something DIFFERENT, while at the same time being
ATTRACTIVE.

Probably the best thing you can do when you
finally meet a really great girl is call her HALF
as much as you normally would, and give her twice
the space. Think about it.

***COMMENT***

I just got back from eating with a woman I started
dating 3 weeks ago. Somehow we got on the topic of
what she likes in a man and what is the quickest
time she has ever jumped in the sack with one. She
stated that she met a guy one night and slept with
him the next. She said that she did it only once
in her life and then gave me the reason why she
did that time. She stated that all the guys she
dated before him would always say something on the
wild side, that she was really interested in
doing, but would back down and say, “oh, I was
just kidding” when she looks at them to see if
they were serious. She said that this guy she
slept with the next night and I are the only two
men that have ever said something cocky and funny
and not flinched when she looked on in disbelief.
In fact, I would look at her and repeat things I
said whenever she looked at me with that “I can’t
believe you just said that to me,” stare. She
tells me it is such a turn-on.

I had only begun to do this after subscribing to
your websight newsletter about a month or two
ago… I would just like to thank you for the
advice and tell the other guys to stick by what
they say, no matter how off the wall it may sound.

B.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is JEDI LEVEL wisdom, read it again.

***QUESTION***

Dear David,

Great stuff. I was that nice guy… after reading
your book and your e mails I have been able to
change into the cocky and funny guy. The other day
one of the 3 women I am dating called giving me a
little grief. I said you know maybe we should not
see each other any more and she was like but I
have been thinking about you all weekend PLEASE
come over now and F#% me, after a little delay I
agreed it was great. I do have a ? The one I
really like who is totally hot never makes the
first move and while she is very receptive when I
do it, would be great to get her to seduce me, any
suggestions?…

c.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

For some reason, I LOVE your question… how
fun is it to have a woman pursuing YOU? OK, here’s
a tip from my personal experience…

Next time you’re with her, and you’ve started
getting physical… just when you know that she’s
really enjoying what’s going on (and it can be at
any stage, kissing, etc.) just stop. Then whisper
in her ear, “You want more, don’t you?… you’re
going to have to say PLEASE.”

Then just keep working up to the same level and
saying the same thing until she finally does. Once
you’ve done this, it’s easy to transfer the same
idea to other things, like getting her to make the
first move.

Note: This is all done with a very playful,
teasing tone. It’s not a psychological control
strategy… Keep things on the nice nice, don’t be
a controlling loser. Done right this can be a big
turn on for all involved.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

I did exactly what you had said for the
personals… I actually cut and paste your letter,
made one or two changes and I actually got a
response…

Now, you talk about getting that phone number?
How?

What should I say in the e-mail not to come off
like a looser, but to come off confident, cocky,
and funny?

Thanks!

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Can I just tell you how much I love it when
guys actually go out and USE the materials? This
is great stuff…

OK, step two is to get her live on the phone,
and to do it soon. You don’t want this to take too
long or she’s likely to get 100 more emails and
forget about you.

Try a cocky funny response like this:

“Wow, you’re a real person. Great. I guess we
have a couple of options here. We could start an
email relationship, fall madly in love, and maybe
even get a priest to marry us in a live chat
ceremony…

Then again, maybe we could get together for a
cup of tea and some stimulating conversation and
make friends. And then after I can validate that
you’re actually the cute gal in this picture I saw
of you, we can talk about the online marriage
thing.

Give me a call tonight. My number is (insert
number here). I’m a pretty busy person, and I
can’t guarantee that I’ll be home, but give it a
try. And please call before 11 PM because that’s
when my mom makes me go to sleep.

By the way, where can I reach you if I want to
call you ten times a day?

Talk soon.”

I’m a funny guy.

But all kidding aside, this is a KILLER model
for a follow up letter to a personal ad response.
It says so many things in the right way that
you’re very likely to get another response,
probably a call, and probably her number.

***COMMENT***

David,

A few weeks back you used what I think is one of
the most important words in dating (next to cocky
and funny of course) that word is “NEXT.”

We always want the one that we can’t get. Forget
that! I say NEXT. If you have this idea of
“Next” in your brain, you will come across as a
man who is not needy and you will be more
attractive to women. Why waste time with woman
who are not interested? Its a lot more fun to
find a nice looking lady who wants to be with you
then it is to chase someone who isn’t interested.

The book was great. Keep up the great work!

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is another psychological step that is very
important. I get so many emails from guys who have
met a great girl, but they screwed it up because
they made her “too important” mentally. In other
words, when things started to get difficult,
instead of taking the attitude of “NEXT” (which
creates all kinds of attraction), they CLING and
act NEEDY and generally do EXACTLY THE THINGS THAT
CAUSE THE WOMAN TO HIT THE ROAD FOR GOOD.

Much better to have the mental attitude of “I’m
going to enjoy this woman’s company for as long as
it stays a good thing. The moment that she becomes
a strain or a pain I’m out of here. I don’t need
problems or drama in my life, and my happiness is
more important than this woman.”

The first response to this is usually, “But
this woman is SPECIAL. She’s not like other women.
She’s the one.”

Blah blah blah…

If she’s the ONE, then all the more reason to
take this attitude.

“THE ONE” ISN’T LOOKING FOR A WUSS.

The “NEXT” attitude will do a lot of good
things for your success with women. Use it.

***NOTE: If you’re reading this right now, and
you are thinking to yourself, “I sure wish I could
get up the courage to say “Next!” to a woman… or
you’d like to learn more about how to build a
powerful “Inner Game” confidence that is
UNSHAKABLE, then I highly recommend that you check
out my “Deep Inner Game” program. It is
specifically designed to help you overcome your
insecurities and build massive confidence. It’s
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/DeepInnerGame/

***QUESTION***

David,

I got your mailbag, and bought your book right
away a few months ago and it has truely changed my
life. Thank you. I realized that in all of my
relationships I have been a total wuss and that is
why I was not having sucess. I am actually a
pretty funny guy (amatuer stand up comedian) but I
am not cocky at all. As soon as I added a bit of
cocky to my usual sacarstic humor, the success
followed.

My problem is this. I met a woman who is an
extremely skilled player. We went out as “freinds”
and then it escalated nicely (kiss test worked
like a charm) and then it got really screwed up
when I had to leave the country for a month on
business and things got a bit muddled. When I
returned we went out right away and I missd her so
much I fell back in to my wussie ways and I think
I ruined it, in only one 6 hour date!

Since then I have been trying to turn the tables.
I mean I try to end the conversations first all
the time but she just seems to beat me to it each
time, like she is psychic or something. I try to
tell her I am busy and I’ll have to call her back
but unless I do it at an awkwardly early point in
the conversation she always seems beat me to it.
In my opinion if I continue to play “hard to get”
and don’t call her (which seems to be working
lately) she will get the wrong message. I want to
send the “I like you but you haven’t got me
wrapped around your finger” message, not the “I’m
not thinking about you at all while everything
around me in society screams ‘couple’ and
‘romance’ ” message.

What would you do in this unusal time?

Thanks again for all your help and advice.

To anyone who has not dowloaded the book, you
deserve the miserable lonely nights I know you are
going through, put a crowbar in your wallet and
get the full information!

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I like the crowbar idea.

As for your situation. You’ve learned an
important lesson the hard way.

When I think about women and attraction, I
imagine it like an on/off switch. If it ever gets
turned off, it’s VERY hard to turn it back on.
ESPECIALLY if you’re dealing with a woman like the
one you’re talking about who is very experienced
and knows the game well.

The best thing you can do is start dating other
women, not call her for a month or so, then drop
her a line and say, “Hey, let’s get together for a
cup of tea. You were a nice friend…” Then tell
her about what’s going on in your life (the other
women, I mean).

YOU’VE LOST CONTROL, AND YOU NEED TO TAKE IT
BACK.

‘Nuff said.

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

I am a 23 year old single father i having a tough
time getting a date because i have a kid. Most of
the girls i ask out, I tell them I have a kid and
they dont want to be any more than just friends.
Any suggestions?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, I have one for you…

STOP THINKING OF YOUR KID AS A LIMITATION. I’m
going to suggest that you don’t have a tough time
getting a date BECAUSE you have a kid… it’s
because you THINK IT’S A PROBLEM.

Just don’t bring it up early on. Don’t answer
any questions about your status as a father. Make
a decision to share that info only with women who
are EXCEPTIONAL.

If a woman is REALLY attracted to you, she’ll
overlook almost ANYTHING. I mean, hey… look at
Steven Tyler and Mick Jagger…

***QUESTION***

Hi David!!

I just wanted to tell you that what you say in
your emails is true and it works. I’m from a small
central american country and your advice works on
women here too!!! Now to my question, I met this
gorgeous girl, she is incredible and hot as hell.
But I have competition, some guy who doesn’t know
a thing about women (he should subscribe to your
newsletter, dont you think), but she seems a
little interested in him and interested in me too.
What would you suggest to “neutralize” him?

Thanks,

A.

P.S.: I used the cocky and funny technique and it
worked!!!! thanks for sharing you wisdom

>>>MY COMMENTS:

If you focus on the competition it will only
distract you and cause you problems.

Forget other guys and what they’re doing. Just
focus on what you’re doing and your own success.

It’s very natural to let competition upset
you… and jealousy is a very real emotion. But
remember, it isn’t going to help you in most
cases. Just do your best, keep using the
techniques, and stick to your methods. Chances are
that any other guys involved will screw it up at
some point, and you will be the one left with the
prize.

Note: In situations like this one, we guys
often start to put too much value on getting the
girl BECAUSE there are other guys involved. We
think to ourselves, “Well, this other guy likes
her, so she must be something REALLY special. Even
more than I thought.” This leads to making all
kinds of mistakes, being a wuss, acting clingy,
etc. Don’t fall into this trap.

***QUESTION***

I need some help and i think that you have the
best advice so here is the problem, I like this
girl at my college and she works at the college
bookstore. A while back i was buying books and she
was asking me questions and being super friendly,
then the following semester she said hi to me on
campus but like a dip sh** I didnt respond. Now i
really want to hook it up but have this feeling
that she is not interested anymore. Everytime I
see her we make eye contact but I can’t tell if
she wants me to go in for the kill. Please help me
so i can go right up to her and talk to her, I’m
having trouble starting out the conversation.

Thanks.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

No killing please. Why don’t you just go in for
the email instead? Much less messy. Just get her
email and then take it one step at a time. This is
the best way to find out if it can go somewhere…

***GREAT STORY***

David-

I was enjoying a bagel this morning in the outdoor
chairs at a little donut shop I go to on
Saturdays. I doubt if the guy I’m going to tell
you about has ever read your book…but he’s a
walking advertisement for it.

The only other person out there with me was an
elderly woman, who was about 8 years older than
God. A guy pulls up in this old caddie with a USMC
license plate on the front bumper. He’s about a
few minutes younger than her.

This old guy goes in, orders a bag of donuts, and
comes back out. He walks right up to her table and
says:

“Hi ya, toots. You’re a classy lookin’ dame. Are
you friendly?”

She says, “How dare you call me some dame. My
given name is Julia”

This guy never misses a beat. He says, “Got your
feathers ruffled, did I? Well, you know the first
airplane I ever rode in during the war started
witha J, too. She was a hardbody, with a shapely
tailpiece. I still remeber what it felt like to
run my hand over her headlights.”

The old girl, says, “That’s atrocious. You better
have a seat sailor. It sounds like you been away
from shore for too long.”

It was all I could do to keep from busting up
laughing. I didn’t know whether to throw a blanket
over them or go give this codger a high five. He
had it down, buddy, just like you’ve been telling
us. This guy could be me 35 years from now if I
follow what you teach.

Keep getting the word out, Dave. We’ll still be
using it when we’re on Viagra.

C.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I love this story. Use the things I’m teaching
you and hopefully you’ll find success before
you’re 100 years old and cruising the old folks
home for babes…

But, as you can see, the Cocky & Funny
technique works even if you ARE cruising the old
folks home…

***QUESTION***

Well, what can I say, David, you’re a dating God!
Your book is nothing less than a masterpiece. Now
that i’ve got a good handle on some of your
techniques, I’ve had no problem meeting women.
I’ve recently started dating a woman whom is a
pleasant distraction. My fear is she is falling
way to hard for me. My problem is, my friend of
two years who I’ve been smitten with since the
beginning is now single. There is another guy
friend of hers who has recently made his feelings
known for her. I’m pretty sure there has always
been chemical tension underneath our friendship.
She has told me things like you have the sexiest
voice ever, I listen to your cd every night cause
I love falling asleep to the sound of your voice,
when you’re lost in thought you have the sexiest
eyes. We went for coffee last night and she
touched me 3-5 times on the hand.

The problem comes in that before your book I was
the nice sensitive guy always bearing my feelings,
catering to a woman’s needs, and very humble. Now
i’ve got a great routine down for getting dates
but she doesn’t know me as that type of person. So
i don’t know how to approach trying to instigate a
relationship with her. Any suggestions??

A.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, I have any suggestions…

KEEP DOING WHAT WORKS!!! DON’T TURN BACK INTO A
WUSS NOW THAT YOU HAVE THE CHANCE TO GET THE GIRL
YOU REALLY LIKE!!!

Wow, I don’t use that many exclamation marks
very often.

And for the girl who is smitten with you… let
her down easy. This is a great opportunity to
borrow a technique from our book on female dating
tactics. It’s called:

“You’re really nice, but I think that we should
be friends.”

All’s fair in love and war… just don’t be a
bastard.

***QUESTION***

First off…you are the smartest man alive. I have
really enjoyed reading your litterature and it has
helped me build a confidence I’ve never had
before. Here’s the question…. I recently visited
an “exotic dance club” and met an “exotic dancer”.
I used the cocky funny attitude and had a nice
chat before my lap dance. Within minutes
afterward… I got her e-mail addy. The problem
is…The setting in which we met and the
circumstances involved. How can I start a
relationship with her without her seeing me as a
customer… or a pervert that liked what he saw
and just wants more? I know it can be done I just
need a little insight from the master. Help me out
Mr. Miagi.

Sincerely,

Daniel-son

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Start a RELATIONSHIP?

With an EXOTIC DANCER?

After talking to her for a few minutes?

OK, let’s do a quick reality check before you
do something that you’ll regret for a long time…

About 80-90% of the time, exotic dancers are
the LAST type of woman up for a “relationship”.

If you’re interested in taking things to the
next level, you need to be cocky & funny, bust her
balls a lot, make sure you keep being a challenge,
etc. Of all the people in the world, these women
are probably pursued by the most men.

If, after going out with her for AT LEAST
several months you can prove beyond the shadow of
a doubt that:

1) She’s not addicted to drugs or alcohol

2) She doesn’t smoke like a fire and have dirty-
carpet breath

3) She wasn’t sexually molested more than a dozen
times

4) She isn’t manic-depressive, bi-polar, or
borderline

5) You can deal with the idea that she’s not
quitting for you

Then maybe you might consider a “relationship.”
I mean, hey… most exotic dancers are bi-sexual.
And I’ve heard that some of them even know other
cute girls (but I’m not certain on this one). In
any case, don’t forget the protection. Big time.

Oh, and if you change your mind, try finding a
woman who comes from a good family… who has
fantastic relationships with her mother and
father… and who is emotionally mature.

It might surprise you, but I think you’d enjoy
a long-term relationship more with this kind of
women.

Just my two cents…

***QUESTION***

Your like a god to me! I’ve been going out about
five times as much as I used to (which wasn’t
much) and women see me in a new way. Now for the
important part. I stepped up my cocky/funnyness
to the max and this one girl is crazy about me.
She delayed one date, never stopped appologizing.
I teased her for it all night. She keeps acting
so needy and I can’t get enough of it (I don’t
tell her) but that brings up a question. If she
is acting needy to me and I can’t get enough of
it, why did women dump me when I used to act
needy? Please put something about this in your
newsletter.

Bye.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

What’s with all the God comments this week?
Let’s stick with David from now on… I’m not
ready for all of the responsibility.

As for your situation…

The reason why it’s fun for you having her act
needy is YOU’VE HAD IT THE OTHER WAY AROUND ALL
YOUR LIFE!

It’s a nice change.

But trust me, after a short while it gets old.
If she keeps it up, you’ll see. Eventually a
mechanism will kick in and you’ll lose your liking
for it… just like women do at a very young age.
But enjoy it while it’s fresh and fun.

***SUCCESS STORY***

For 18 months I tried to score with this woman I
wanted but because she saw me as needy she kept
the “goodies” away from me. Now one night I
stopped trying. I focused on having a good time. I
was determined to be polite to her but ignore her
and make no moves. I danced with other women, I
drank, I had fun. The more independant, confident
and fun-loving I became the more attractive I
became. Things changed. She wasn’t used to being
ignored. She felt left out. She then put out and
seduced me by the end of the night. I wasn’t even
trying and I wasn’t even nervous!!!

A few months later I bought your book Dave and
realised that for 18 months I’d been doing it
wrong. Little did I know but that fateful night
was the way to do it right. I’ve been doing it
right since then. Thanks Dave.

Regards.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Congratulations, good job, and keep it up.

***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

On behalf of all women, I think your e-mail sucked
today.

I am so tired of dating cheap men. There is
nothing wrong with a man who is able to provide
doing so. Let’s face it, men make more money than
women.

I’m not a gold digger. Not at all. I’m 34 years
old. I own my own townhouse which I am struggling
to get by with the mortgage and expenses having
been laid off by IBM after almost 7 years.

I do like the e-mail first idea, in fact that is
always what I initiate when I’m out. I’d much
rather do that to get to know someone before the
dinner out but the LAST thing I want to do is have
someone show up late and let me know right up
front that he’s not willing to buy me a cup of
tea.

I just spent almost five months with someone who
was making three times my income and we went Dutch
on everything. Am I wrong to *want* someone to
flip the bill for me? I don’t think so.

Warm regards…

>>>MY COMMENTS:

No, there’s nothing “wrong” with you “wanting”
someone to take care of the bill. But there’s also
nothing wrong with a man not paying… or even
better, avoiding typical expensive dating
situations all together.

I personally think that starting off a
relationship by paying for things creates an
imbalance that isn’t very healthy.

As an interesting aside: You spent FIVE MONTHS
paying your own way. He obviously had something
else going for him if you spent that long with
him… hmmmmm.

I wish I could give him a high five!

Oh, and the little smiley in your email clearly
communicates that you like and want me. Be a
little more subtle next time, OK? Don’t let the
world know everything that’s going on between us!
It’s not classy…

***SUCCESS STORY***

I found your site a couple of months ago and
subscribed to your newsletters and I downloaded
the book . I’m 18 years old and I’m in my first
year of college, so you can imagine the hot, young
women that are there .

Anyways, I’ve always been the “wuss , loser ,
nothing more than a friend” type of guy (man it
hurts to admit it) but since i started reading
your e-mails i’ve gotten so much better. Some of
my girlfriends don’t see me as a friend anymore (I
can’t imagine what your book will do ). So not
long ago I’m sitting where everyone goes to eat
and they’re playing “The Fast And The Furious ” on
the tv’s when I look down and this really
beautiful woman keeps looking at me . So by the
second time our eyes meet, I smile , at that same
moment I’m thinking, “Wait !!! , remember the e-
mails, you always do this and you always end up as
a friend”. The problem was that she had 2 more of
her friends on the table with her, but she
wouldn’t expect me to get up and go to her, so I
got up from my chair and went up to her, she had
that “what is he doing” look, then I sat down on
the table and said, “Hi , I know I’m pretty and
that your attracted to me, but could you maybe
hide your impulses”. Of course this was said in a
funny way, with a cocky look. Her friends started
laughing and said, “she was that obvious , huh?”
She was shocked at the beginning but she relaxed
and started laughing. Almost immediately after
that her friends said they were hungry and left,
so I asked for her name and thought to myself,
“Forget the e-mail , just ask her number “. She
gave me her celular number , but I haven’t called
her yet. Anyway thanks for your great advices and
I’ll keep you posted on the outcome.

P.S. For all you wusses out there , you can change
you don’t always have to be this way . Buy the
damn book !!!!!!”

L.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I couldn’t agree more.

***QUESTION***

Hey man, I have to admit, I have been getting your
newsletter for about 2 weeks now and I have
dramatically improved the number of women i have
been meeting and getting numbers from! Thanks so
much for the help and tips. Usually when it comes
down to the first date everything goes fine and I
lay down the c&f attitude which gets me good
places with her. But i have a problem. This last
weekend i had a date with this woman i just met
and we were in the hot tub and me friend and his
date were with us. Well the problem was that my
mind was totally blank for some odd reason and i
couldn’t come up with anything interesting to talk
about if my life was on the line. So obviously I
really didnt get anywhere with her but she said
that she would like to see me again. So my
question to you is what are some topics of
interest that i could talk with her about that
wouldnt put me in the wussy boy category and would
also get me in good with her, when i cant think of
anything? Please help!

Thanks a lot! B.F TX

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, if you think about it, there are a few
main topics that women PAY TONS OF MONEY to enjoy.

Think daytime dramas, Cosmo magazine, and
romance novels.

For whatever reason, women just love
relationships, drama, and humor.

So talk about famous people, their
relationships, and their drama.

If you’re at a loss, and you want to start a
funny conversation, just say, “What’s with…” and
finish up with any current gossip topic taken from
any famous person’s life.

“What’s with Brittny and Kevin breaking up?”

“What’s with Lindsay Lohan in re-hab?”

Of course, these kinds of topics lend
themselves to all KINDS of opportunities to be
Cocky & Funny. So do it.

Great job getting more dates… keep up the
good work.

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

You always have success stories with guys that say
“Im a good looking guy”. What about us guys that
are average or slightly below average, balding, or
thick?? Does this stuff work for us as well? Or
is this just help guys that already get dates get
MORE dates?? Are us average or below average guys
out of luck?? I get an occasional hot girl but
they are few and far between.

M

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I’d say that 1 in 100 of the emails that I get
are from guys who say, “I’m a good looking guy”.

And most of the guys who I know that are really
successful with women aren’t unusually “good
looking”.

Some of my friends who are unbelievably good at
attracting BEAUTIFUL women are not at all “good
looking”.

And if you think about your own life, I’ll bet
that you’ll realize that the guys you know
yourself who are best at getting dates with
attractive women aren’t the guys you know who are
the richest, tallest, or most handsome.

In other words, YES… this stuff works for
“regular” guys!

…and, in fact, if you’re reading this
newsletter right now and you’d like to really take
your success with women to the next level, then I
have a few words for you.

It wasn’t that long ago that I personally
didn’t have the ability to even TALK to a woman I
didn’t know… never mind getting a date.

I spent a few YEARS trying just about
everything I could find to help me.

I read books, listened to tapes, went to
seminars… I tried it all. But nothing really
worked consistently for me.

The real breakthroughs came when I started
spending time with a lot of guys who were
NATURALLY successful with women. When I say
“naturally” I don’t mean that women walked over
and threw themselves at these guys… I mean that
they had each figured out how to attract a lot of
beautiful women ON THEIR OWN.

What I found was incredible…

Even though most of these different guys had
NEVER EVEN MET one another, they had a LOT in
common. They did a lot of the same things… they
said a lot of the same things… and they behaved
in a lot of the same ways.

So I took what I learned, I tested it all out,
and I refined it and created a whole system for
how a regular guy can increase his success with
women and dating.

That’s it in a nutshell.

I personally went from not knowing how to even
talk to a woman I didn’t know to being able to get
dates with even the most beautiful women… and I
practice what I preach.

The things that I teach in my eBook and
Advanced Series are things that I use PERSONALLY
in situations with women.

It’s not a bunch of made-up garbage and old
recycled books from 25 years ago.

If you have any doubts or hesitations at all
about investing in my materials, remember that you
can order both of these from me and actually TRY
THEM OUT with zero risk.

You can get them, use them, see if they work
for you (they will), and THEN decide if you want
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Go check out some great samples for my Advanced
Series here:

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I’ve spent a lot of time working on the
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Go check them out!

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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***QUESTION***

Hello David,

I want to say, your books are great, I just got
them and I feel a lot more confident. I have a few
questions. I go to a site… and read some of
their articles every so often, they talk about
wingmen and how to use your buddies to your
advantage when trying engaging in conversation
with women. What is your opinion about this and
how do you use this if you do?

And the second question is also from the site; I
have been talking to a woman for a few minutes and
the conversation goes ok. I ask her name and she
tells me. She never asks my name ever in the
conversation ,is that a sign she is not
interested? Any help in clearing my confused head
would be helpful.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

To answer your first question, there are
positives and negatives about using a buddy for a
“wingman”.

My opinions:

1) If you go out with a wingman, make sure he’s A
LOT better than you at meeting women. Pay
attention, let him lead, and learn from the
situations you get into.

2) If you don’t have any friends that are good
with women, FIND SOME. I don’t care what you have
to do, just go do it… make some friends that are
good with women, and watch closely as they
communicate with women. You’ll learn about 100
TIMES as much if you first read my book and listen
to my CD Audio Series, because you’ll know what to
look for.

3) It’s also a good idea to use a wingman if you
need the “moral support” of a friend to get
yourself started meeting women. But make sure that
your friend can handle himself when talking to
women. If he can’t, he’s probably going to make
things worse and scare women away from you. Trust
me, I’ve been through this one MANY times.

What I’m trying to say is that using a
“wingman” is great if it works for you. Try it.

To answer your question of “if a woman never
asks my name, is it a sign that she’s not
interested?”…

I’m going to answer this in two ways.

First, I’ll say that if a woman doesn’t ask
your name, it MIGHT mean that she’s not
interested.

But the thing that concerns me about your
question is that you’re really looking in the
wrong direction for clues to decide if a woman
“likes you”.

IT DOESN’T MATTER IF A WOMAN “LIKES” YOU!

The only thing that matters is whether or not
she feels that powerful, magical, all-important
emotion called ATTRACTION!

I’ve had women who were annoyed by me, bothered
by me, and basically upset at me still feeling
ATTRACTION for me because I did the right things.

I’ve had women who started out fighting with me
feeling so attracted to me that they wouldn’t
leave me alone for the evening until I gave them
my number.

My point is that you need to get over caring
what a woman thinks about you… and start doing
the right things.

If this doesn’t make sense to you, then stay
tuned and check out my Advanced Dating Techniques
Program… really.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

Just want to tell you your material is very
good and effective. I find that women love a guy
that teases them and busts their balls. I find
that they like it when a man approaches them and
he is completely calm and cool, and even better in
control of the situation. Now I admit this,
sometimes the way I approach a girl or what I seem
to talk about doesn’t “hit em” how I wanted it
too, like I seem to get boring, pretty damn
quikly…and that is when my mind just starts to
draw a blank and I dont know..it sucks. But
sometimes I say the right things and I just know
this for a fact becuz the girl will either have a
smile on her face or I’ll see her licking her
lips…and from what u said in the DYD book thats
a good thing…For example: today I was sitting at
a round table with just me and a girl, we were
facing each other, and I’d say she was about an 8.
She dresses real pretty and I said something like
“Do you dress nice everyday…Or are you just
trying to impress me?” She smiled and licked her
lips so I knew that I was right on track…but
then I drew a blank… I didnt kno how to continue
that convo. What are some normal topics to bring
up in a conversation with a girl? What are some
interesting ones that they just seem to be very
into? What else would help me to keep the convo
going and so I don’t draw a blank and feel like a
dork? I appreciate all the help your book has
done, reading about confidence and all that did
help..and now I would just like to touch up and
become more than just an amatuer. You do not have
to post this on the newsletter but hope to hear
from you soon.

Later,

D from CT

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great question.

One of the most important things you can do is
MENTALLY PREPARE for these kinds of situations.

Now, I don’t want to sound like a weird
motivational self-help guy, but mental preparation
WORKS.

Take some time when you’re alone, close your
eyes, and actually plan out how you’d like
interactions with women to go. If you’ve never
done this before, you’ll learn A LOT from it.

You’ll think of things that you never would
have imagined when you’re taking things step by
step in your mind.

One of the OTHER best things you can do is GET
A JOURNAL so you can keep notes to yourself.

Try this:

Sit down and write out 20 great things you
could have said in that situation, then go through
and mentally imagine saying each one five times.

Another important thing to do is ALWAYS KNOW
HOW TO GET HER INFORMATION AND WALK AWAY.

If you really sense that the conversation is
about to end, you need to know how to ask for her
email/number and go.

You can do this at any stage in the
conversation, as soon as you’d like.

Here are a few good topics to try when talking
to women:

1. Why women are crazy, and men are perfect.

2. That she should stop thinking of you only as a
sex object.

3. What she needs to change to have a chance with
you.

Of course, you need to be able to present these
topics in a COCKY & FUNNY way so she LAUGHS while
you’re talking about them…

You’ll find that topics like these can create
some good fun with women.

***QUESTION***

Hi David,

You are absolutely right! Being nice and wussy
doesn’t work AT ALL!! Now, this technique of
getting e-mail in three minutes… I must admit
that it works very often. But it fails rather
often too. Guess my success rate is only about 50%
or something. That is, 40% gives a dummy address
and 10% does NEVER respond. Maybe i’m doing
something wrong here. But somehow i get the
impression that most women are smarter than that.
The most common response to that situation is
something like: “What? You talk to me for a few
minutes and you expect me to give my e-mail?”

My question could either be: “What am i doing
wrong?” or “Is 50% the outcome that you would
expect from this technique?”. I let you decide
which question you want to answer in the interest
of your readers. Anyway, you don’t hear me
complain. Because i’ve learned an awful lot from
your book. And my success rates have at least
doubled, if not tripled, after reading your stuff.
And 50% is far better than where i come from.

Now, for my success story, this is an approach
that gives me about 80% success. I talk to a woman
for ten minutes (not three ) and then i say
something like “Hey, you seem to be rather
smart… or is that just an impression?”. When she
says “no” i respond with: “Yeah right, that’s what
they all say! I bet you don’t dare me to double
check that!”. Then i don’t give her much time to
respond. I immediately come back with: “Oh… you
do? Okay… if you’re up to the test, give me your
e-mail. I’ll send you some tricky questions and i
expect SMART answers.” I never mention “meeting”
because that always seems to trigger some
“pushing” alert. Obviously, when she refuses to
give her e-mail, i say: “See! That’s exactly what
i mean! Boy! Am i disappointed!”. I very often get
her e-mail after that. And those seem to be ALWAYS
correct addresses Keep up the terrific job
David! You are really HELPING! Bye, PhD (Belgium)

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I love letters like this one.

You get good email addresses from HALF the
women you talk to for three minutes?

I’d say that you’re doing pretty well, cowboy.

Probably half of the women in this world are
either married, in a relationship, lesbians
(YES!), or in a bad mood.

Your technique for getting it up to 80% is
great.

Challenging, funny, and interesting. It creates
curiosity and comes across as low risk for the
women. Very nice.

Just keep working on it, and you’ll improve
over time.

Good job!

***QUESTION***

Dear David,

I have to say, I am bloody disappointed with your
advice at the moment…

I’ve used your tips, and written you on 2
occasions concerning different subjects. Your last
mailbag actually spoke about an issue I’d had with
a woman who I KNOW is interested in me, who gave
me her number, told me she was busy and never
called back.

I love music, so, I’m always in the CD shop at the
local mall. There just happens to be a number of
attractive women who work there. To make a long
story short, one the girls starts being really
nice to me after I start ripping on her, always
waving saying hi, going out of her way to serve me
on occasions. Hell, once I heard a co worker run
out the back and say “he’s here” and she came
running out to ask if I need looking after…
Never really acted interested though, didn’t speak
about much other than “how was your weekend”
stuff.

So I start running into her at a club. Again she
goes out of her way to say hi. So finally she
waved from across the room one day and I signal
her to come over as I was getting a drink, she
runs over and gives me a hug and a kiss hello!! (I
don’t really know this girl from a bar of soap). I
was really tired, had only slept 4 hrs the night
before, was pretty drunk, it was late too and I
was about to leave.

Basically I could have taken her home right then
and there (trust me!!) but instead I just said for
her to give me her number that I’d take her out
sometime. Didn’t offer her a drink, just said I
had to go back to my friends, then we left.

I had been supposed to visit her the next day, it
was usually the day I went shopping, but I was
busy. I call her the day after, she acted fully
uninterested said she was going away for 10 days
and that she’d call after she’d packed that day.
Such as yet, no call… I don’t care, she’ll pay
when I see her again… in a few weeks (sometimes
it’s a weeks in between visits). I’d say we r
playing a game now.

Also, just recently had a girl who I’d known thru
a friend start msging me, asking to come over to
spend time with me, she said ‘chat’, but she
didn’t want to chat. I’d busted on her a bit
before that started happening.

The issue here with your advice is this…

How the hell do I get these girls to stop throwing
“IT” at me?? It’s no fun when I just get it served
up. It’s not like I get a chance to tell em that
I’m not easy, they don’t say in that many words
that they want to sleep with me. You just know.

I like to play with them a bit and see if they r
gonna be worth the trouble… and I want to know a
bit about a girl before I sleep with them.

Damn dave, what’s going on?? I’m just too good for
my own good it seems, how can I slow things down
and get em to play a bit longer??

Cheers!!!

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You’re asking the wrong guy the wrong
question… Ha Ha! I’ve helped you get to the
point where women are “throwing themselves at
you”, and you want to know how to SLOW THEM DOWN?

Maybe go check out some “mars and venus” books
or something.

Or watch some Dr. Phil or Oprah.

I don’t know… this just isn’t my area of
specialty.

You’re killing me over here.

***QUESTION***

Thanks a lot David, NOT!!! I’ve been reading your
mails for a while now and I’ve unconsciously been
integrating the “Cocky&Funny” into my personality
(which is great by the way), and it’s so much fun
that I’ve realized that I do it all the time (I’ve
also realized that being cocky and funny with a
girl is just as if you were messing around with
your male friends’ heads). But yeah so I’ve got a
complaint or success story, I’m not sure which it
is: so there’s this girl who I’ve met about a year
ago and we’ve been best friends since then… and
then the other day she admitted to my face that
she had been in love with me for the past six
months!!!!!!!! It makes me feel great about
myself…but on the other hand it sucks cuz she
was a really great friend, almost a sister, so
I’ll never be able to go out with her (and there’s
nothing wrong with the looks or anything). So
yeah, I think you should put a surgeon general’s
warning on your “Cocky&Funny”. WARNING: May cause
you to be unexplainably attractive to (almost)
anyone! So yeah, a word of advice to all those
reading the newsletters, be careful who you use
the C&F with!

Nick, the Belgian

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, another horrible side effect.

I really should stop teaching this stuff and be
a monk or something.

By the way, you can learn some more Cocky &
Funny techniques here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/CockyComedy/

***SUCCESS STORY FROM A WOMAN***

You answered my email in a recent mailbag, thank
you for answering me so quickly. Your mini- van
comment, while making me want to vomit, made me
realize I had to do something – and fast! On our
next date I said something obnoxious to him and he
gave me a funny look. Before he could say anything
I said, “you know sometimes I can get kinda
obnoxious, and when I do… just tell me to
shutup, – and from that point on he didn’t let me
get away with anything! He is a “real man” after
all!! Yeah! And you said trying to teach a guy
how to stop acting like a WUSSY isn’t easy

Later that night when we were saying good-bye, he
said he was going to come by my work to visit, I
asked him what time he’d be there, and he just
said “you’ll see” with a smirk. I smiled, said
“good answer,” kissed him, and left.

Ah, the miracle of attraction! Can’t wait to see
him again…thank you for saving this
relationship, and for saving me from dying of
boredom!

Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you
Thank you

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Am I really reading this stuff?

I’ve now got women who are teaching men this
material because they just can’t deal with the
WUSS FACTOR any longer…

It’s really too much.

The lesson:

A WOMAN WOULD RATHER TEACH YOU HOW TO ACT LIKE
A REAL MAN THAN DEAL WITH A WUSSY.

Unreal.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

I just got your book after receiving the
newsletters for a few months and my eyes were
really opened to how many new skills I need to
acquire. In the past 6 months (before reading your
book) I went from being too nice to becoming a
prick. After reading your book, I now see that
there is much, much more to it and that it’s ok to
be nice sometimes, but only on your terms. I am
having a ton of more fun now and am def. getting
reactions from women, but I realize I need to find
a middle ground. Being cocky came a little too
easy for me and right now I am focusing on adding
humor to my personality to balance it. I got
Helitzer’s book but it seems a bit overwhelming.
What helped you the most when it came to adding
humor to your personality and where is a good
place to start? One thing I would recommend to all
readers is to find a good female friend to discuss
your material with. They will prove to you that
this stuff is really attention getting and will
help you improve overall.

Thanks in advance.

AW in Pa

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You’ve brought up a great point here.

It’s SOOOO important that you find the balance
between Cocky and Funny…

If you’re too cocky and arrogant you’ll come
across as insecure, and if you’re too funny
without adding any of the magic of being Cocky,
then you’ll come across as stupid and goofy.

You must strike the balance.

You’ll know when you’re getting it right,
because the responses from women will become very
powerful.

Even if the reading is difficult, I still
recommend that you read the comedy book you
purchased. It’s great.

As I recommended to another reader above, take
the time to write out ideas for different
situations, then rehearse them in your mind.

You’ll know when you find the right balance.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

I am from a Latin American country so forgive my
english if i make some mistakes. I met a girl in a
trip to the beach and i really liked her very
much. I met some of her friends and asked what was
her phone number. Several weeks after that i call
her and talk some time and i had to hang up. some
time after that i called her again and we talked
for hours and she seemeed very interested in me so
we stop talking. One time i called her to her
celular and she didnt answer and inmediatly she
called to my house that showed me that she was
interested in me. But then i called her almost
daily and she sort of got bored and when the
conversation got to about a minute she told me she
had to go. I insisted on calling her more but that
only brought bad results and i ask her if i didnt
like her i think i realy blew it with her because
i acted like a wuss.

It has passed about 3 months without talking to
her i have run with her a few times but ignore her
i dont know why. i was really pissed off but some
friends of her that are also my friends told me
that she sort of liked me. i knew she liked me
before i acted like a wuss but i think enough time
have passed and i would like to talk to her again
because during those 3 months i thought about
calling her everyday and i would want some advice
so i can know what to do. Please answer quickly i
am waiting eagerly for your answer. Please excuse
some of my expressions english is not my first
language.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, you hit the nail on the head.

When you start calling a woman too often,
acting clingy and needy, and generally behaving
like a total WUSS BAG, you’re probably going to
drive her away.

Don’t do it anymore!

You need to move on, and get over it.

It’s a hard thing for most guys to accept, but
when you’ve convinced a woman beyond the shadow of
any reasonable doubt that you are a world-class
WUSSY, you just need to move on.

It’s an uphill battle to try to convince her
otherwise, so just get on with your life, and
don’t make the same mistake again.

Repeat after me:

“I will stop acting like a WUSS”

***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***

I don’t think I’ll start my e-mail with a success
story since I’m a woman and have the freedom to
walk into any bar, walk up to any man and tell
him, “by the end of tonight you’ll be in bed with
me” and it will happen.

I’ve been using your techniques on men for years
but never could put into words how or why it
worked. I think most of your principles are true
for both sexes. My friends often accuse me of
being a man on the inside and this is why. I am a
very confident, self sufficient 22 yr old woman,
about an 8 on a 1-10 scale. Add on top of this
the fact that I use your C+F techniques.

Most times I just meet men that I can walk all
over and lose interest in the first 30 seconds
(this is why I’m compared to men). Every now and
then I meet a man who also knows how the
attraction thing works and we hit it off and have
a great “mental tennis” match. This is the
problem. The men I do meet that can match me and
keep my interest are great for a little while, but
then once they realize I can keep up with them and
please them in bed like most women won’t, they get
over excited and turn into wussies. They start
telling me how they’ve looked their whole life for
a woman like me and yadda yadda. That’s great and
I appreciate the compliments, but they aren’t
keeping up the C+F/self confidence and I lose
interest–FAST. Case in point: I met a guy who
was about a 6 on a 1-10 scale. He had the whole
C+F thing going on. Everything was great for a few
dates until he confessed to me that he felt like
he was “playing out of his sandbox” and that he
didn’t understand why someone as beautiful as I
would continue to see him. In the snap of a
finger I lost all interest in him because at that
point, I was above him instead of on equal playing
ground.

So this is my question: Is there a secret
underground society of double your dating fanatics
that actually know how to keep a woman’s interest?
and if so where do I find these men? Also, since
I’m sure there isn’t one, can you give me any
ideas as to how to keep men at a safe enough
distance that they don’t feel like confiding all
their insecurities in me?

Thanks, David, you truly are an attraction genius!
Keep up the great work!

K.H. in Ogden, UT

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, there is a secret underground society of
Double Your Dating fanatics who actually know how
to keep a woman’s interest.

But the bad news is that THEY’RE NOT IN OGDEN,
UTAH!

Was that your first guess about where they’d be
located?

Are you sure that you’re as sharp as you say
you are?

I don’t know if I personally buy it.

I’ve used your email to point out something
VERY IMPORTANT TO MY READERS…

MOST GUYS, EVEN WHEN THEY “GET IT”, EVENTUALLY
TURN INTO TOTAL WUSS-BAGS AND STOP DOING THE
THINGS THAT ORIGINALLY MADE A WOMAN FEEL
ATTRACTION FOR THEM.

This is when the woman usually hits the road,
and the man is left thinking “What did I do
wrong… I was such a NICE GUY.”

This is a bad thing, so don’t do it.

***QUESTION***

Dave the Expert, i never in a million years
thought a book like yours would ever come out and
help millions of guys out here that constantly
struggle to find the exact way to attract a woman!
And your book is IT…!! i have had a lot of
success these past eight months ever since i
bought your book and from reading your
newsletters. i’ve never dated so many women, it’s
grrrrrreat! but the time has come for me to ask
you a question that i am practically begging you
to respond to. i finally met this terrific girl
who i think is the “one” 4 months ago and we’ve
been dating since but we just recently broke up
because she moved to college about 4 hours away
from me. it hurt me so bad. i used the cocky/funny
approach to reel her in at the beginning and kept
up the cocky/funny attitude the whole way through
until…the break up. ouch! you see, we are both
dancers and we both dance in the same dance studio
but she only comes down from college to practice
maybe once every couple of weeks because her and i
are in a duet together. we have a competition in
about a month so i couldn’t just back out of it
but it is really awkward having to dance with her
because i still have feelings for her and our duet
is avery emotional dance w/ a lot of feeling
involved. we broke up because she said that
college was stressing her out so much and she felt
that our relationship wouldn’t work because long
distance relationships are hard and we couldn’t
see each other as much as we wanted to. plus, she
is on scholarship and she can’t let herself make
bad grades or else she can’t maintain her
scholarship. she didn’t mean this in a bad way but
told me that i was a little cause of her stress
because we would talk on the phone when she was
supposed to be doing homework. w/ all the homework
and the dance team practices up there she stays
busy and rarely ever gets to come down except to
practice our duet. we’ve agreed to just be friends
but dave, it just doesn’t feel right. i want to be
more than friends but i just don’t see a way for
this relationship to work out and have it be the
way it was when we first started dating! i miss
her so much and would do anythingto get her back
and i think i screwed up by telling her that! i
told her that i would make time for her and that i
never felt this way about a girl before, which is
true. god, i know i was a complete wussy after we
broke up but i felt that it was the right thing to
do because after 4 months it didn’t seem to matter
if i spilled my feelings to her, right? dave, i
need to know what to do to get her back because i
still have to dance w/ her and i don’t want to
feel uncomfortable and insecure when i’m around
her. any advice would greatly be appreciated!

-R.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I’m glad you’ve had so much success with the
materials, and I appreciate the feedback.

I don’t usually respond to “relationship”
questions… but I just can’t help this one.

You’ve switched into WUSS BOY mode, and you’re
only shooting yourself in the foot, man.

Get on with your life, stop acting like a
wussy, and quit telling her that you’d “do
anything to get her back”.

I know it’s what you FEEL like saying, but it
will only make you look weaker and weaker if you
keep it up and don’t just put it behind you and
move on.

If you want to have any chance at all of this
relationship work out, then you’re going to have
to quit acting whipped and needy.

Now use what you’ve learned to go meet some new
women and stop acting like a Wuss.

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

I’ve been reading your articles for the past 2
weeks, i think it is so awesome, and i’m soon
going to buy your book. i wanted to tell you that
i have no problems with women when i’m not
attracted to them, but if they are a perfect 10 i
get scared, and i can’t even say hi to them, help
me, how can i overcome this fear of pretty girls?

When the girl is not so hot i don’t have any
problems talking to them, getting their phone
number and going on a date with them, the problem
is how do i attract the beautiful women and how
should i approach and actually start a
conversation with them?

thanks G. i appreciate your help.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, first of all, go check out an issue of
the magazine that goes by the name of Perfect 10.

You’ll see that the women in there are all over
the map.

In other words, every guy has a different idea
of what a “10″ is.

Yes, some women are obviously more attractive
or “fixed up” than others, but we all have
different tastes, and in the morning when she
wakes up she’s going to look a WHOLE LOT different
than she does when you first see her.

So remember that this girl who is a “10″ to you
is only a 6 or 7 to another guy. That should help.

Next, if you can’t figure out how to get over
your fear of approaching attractive women, then
you’re going to have to just face your fear and do
it anyway.

To start with, just focus on saying ANYTHING to
the women you see. You need to see for yourself
and teach your mind and body not to be afraid of
women.

I don’t care if you walk up to the next 100
women you see and say “You’re beautiful… can I
have your autograph?”

lol… that’s pretty funny… I just might try
that one myself, come to think of it.

My point is that you need to JUST DO SOMETHING!

Most of the anxiety involved in approaching
attractive women comes from the FEAR OF THE
UNKNOWN and the FEAR OF EMBARRASSMENT OR
REJECTION.

Once you actually approach a bunch of women and
talk to them, you’ll find that nothing bad is
going to happen to you. This works wonders.

Then, when you’ve gotten past your fear, you
can lead the conversations to getting numbers,
etc.

And SPEAKING of overcoming fear, starting
conversations with women, getting numbers, getting
dates, and learning how to take things to a
PHYSICAL level with women smoothly and without
rejection…

…I’ve spent a loooong time studying this
topic.

In fact, I’ve put more time, effort, and study
into this area than just about anyone I have ever
met (and I’ve met some guys who are pretty darn
good with women).

A few years ago I decided to do something kind
of crazy with all this amazing stuff I learned
about women and dating… I wrote it all down. In
fact, I not only wrote it all down, but I
organized it into logical sections, then created a
BOOK.

That book is called “Double Your Dating”.

And then I did something ELSE that’s kind of
crazy.

Instead of printing copies of the book, I
decided to only make it available on the
INTERNET… as a downloadable “eBook”.

Gotta love technology.

And get this… if you’d like to get a copy of
this book, you can download it right now and
literally be reading it within a few minutes…
from your computer screen.

Go here to download it:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/

And if you’ve already read my eBook and you’re
ready to REALLY get this entire area of your life
handled, then I’d like to suggest EXTREME
MEASURES…

My Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

This program contains over 12 hours of
digitally recorded and edited video and/or audio
of me personally teaching ADVANCED techniques for
overcoming fear, approaching women, getting email
addresses and numbers… and I’m talking about
HUNDREDS of ideas.

When you go through this program, you’ll also
meet some of my personal friends and guest
speakers who will teach you incredible secrets for
meeting women online, giving women fantastic date
experiences for little or no money… and
communicating in a way that makes women feel an
incredible “animal” attraction for you.

All live and all THE VERY BEST STUFF.

If you’d like to get a copy without risk to you,
go here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/

And I’ll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Make sure you take a minute to check out the
other programs I’ve created. You can see them all
right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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Hey Casanova,

Have you ever noticed that “funny guys” tend to
fall into two categories:

1) Dorky Funny – The type of guy that a woman
laughs AT (not WITH)

2) Confident Funny – The type of guy that not only
makes women laugh, but makes women laugh in a way
that ATTRACTS them

…?

So what’s the DIFFERENCE between these two
types
of guys?

Why is it that women find some guys “dorky”
even
though they’re LAUGHING?

What causes that “key difference”… where a
woman
is laughing WITH you and not AT you?

More importantly, how can you actually USE
humor
to create ATTRACTION?

As you already know from reading these
newsletters, I’ve developed a technique that I
call “Cocky & Funny”… and it is like MAGIC when
it comes to creating a powerful attraction with
women.

I have gotten so many questions about how to
use
this technique, that I actually took the time to
create an entire VIDEO DVD program on the topic.

I call the program “Cocky Comedy” – and it’s
the
most powerful education available on how to use
humor to create attraction.

Did you know that MOST laughter is NOT in
response
to something that’s funny?

It’s true.

Think about most of the things that people
laugh
at… things like the weather… or like a common
experience… or a million other things… NONE of
which are FUNNY.

Laughter is not about humor. Not USUALLY, at
least.

Laughter is about TENSION and RELEASING
tension.

And I’d like to teach you how to create and
release tension… in a way that is both CHARMING
and FUNNY to women… and how to do this in a way
that makes conversations easy and natural… and
that ultimately creates a POWERFUL attraction.

Inside this program, I’ll also teach you
different
Cocky & Funny “lines” for every type of situation
with women – so you’ll be prepared for ANYTHING.

Take a minute and read this letter, learn a few
techniques, and watch the video clips of the
program:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/CockyComedy/

I really believe that this program can help you
create powerful attraction with women.

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. You can watch video clips of all of my other
programs, plus read the story of how I first
learned to meet women right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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>If you’ve discovered the connection between
making women LAUGH and making women feel a
powerful ATTRACTION for you, then you’ll also
enjoy THIS:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/CockyComedy/

One of the things that I discuss a lot is the
idea of why women feel ATTRACTION for some men
while NOT feeling it for others (even though the
men that women feel ATTRACTION for might not be
good choices for them because they’re abusive,
etc.)

If you recall, one of the concepts that I teach
goes something like this:

* ATTRACTION isn’t something that is logically
chosen.

* ATTRACTION is basically an EMOTIONAL RESPONSE to
certain cues and behaviors.

One of the things I’ve isolated that seems to
cause women to feel this magical ATTRACTION to men
is the idea that I call being “Cocky & Funny”.

This is simply using an arrogant style of humor
when you’re dealing with attractive women that
leads to them feeling the emotion of ATTRACTION
for you.

At the seminars I teach, I realized that
several of the guys were having trouble getting
the idea that a woman could feel an emotion like
ATTRACTION in response to something as seemingly
unrelated as making arrogant jokes (especially
about her) and making her laugh.

I mean, how COULD this possibly work?

I thought I’d take this newsletter and talk a
bit about why I think that something so illogical
could help you to create ATTRACTION, and some
specifics about how to do it.

FIRST THE “WHY”…

Remember, women feel ATTRACTION for a very
different set of reasons than men do.

Where men focus more on LOOKS, women focus more
on PERSONALITY, SELF ESTEEM, POWER, and several
other more “intangible” qualities.

Women also love men who can make them laugh.

And by watching a lot of guys who are VERY good
at attracting women, I’ve noticed a common
pattern.

Most of these guys use a common way of
communicating with women that communicates the
above qualities WITHOUT ACTUALLY HAVING TO SAY
THAT THEY HAVE THEM.

I call this way of communicating “Cocky &
Funny”, and it’s one of the cornerstones of
attracting women.

I believe that when a man is Cocky & Funny, he
triggers a primal response inside of a woman that
creates an instant emotional ATTRACTION.

This is because women come “pre-wired” with an
internal template of what comprises a desirable
mate, and a set of emotional trigger buttons that,
when pushed, create that powerful emotional
response called ATTRACTION that compels her to
mate with the man who triggers it.

Most men have no idea that this mechanism
exists or how to trigger it, so they do
traditional “nice guy” things like buying dinners,
gifts, and flowers… and giving women
compliments… and calling them all the time
(which usually have the OPPOSITE of the desired
effect when used too much, and too early on).

As I got to know more and more guys who were
REALLY GOOD with women, I started to see that they
weren’t afraid to make fun of attractive women,
bust on them, and even challenge them… but it
was always done in a VERY FUNNY, even charming
way.

At first I just assumed that it was the fact
that this pattern was just a technique that my
friends were using to make conversation.

Only after really paying attention, trying out
this technique myself quite a bit, and LOOKING
CLOSELY AT THE ACTUAL RESPONSES I WAS GETTING did
I begin to realize the UNBELIEVABLY POWERFUL
EMOTIONAL RESPONSES that this one concept was
generating.

And after working on it, testing it, refining
it, and studying the finer points about women,
men, and the whole “mating process” did I begin to
really understand how well this worked.

By the way, if you want to understand more
about WHY this works so well, you should take a
minute and read this:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AttractionBook/

Here’s the basic formula:

1. Take an arrogant comment.

2. Add humor to make it funny.

3. Feel free to use this combination when poking
fun at the woman you’re dealing with.

Here’s a simple example:

Let’s say you’re walking down the street with a
woman and she says, “Wow, I really like those
shoes in the window” and you answer, “You would”.

Here’s another one:

Let’s say you’re talking to a woman who’s
wearing a pair of shoes with four inch heels, and
you say, “So what, are you about four feet tall
without the shoes?”

Get it?

You’re saying things that are FUNNY while at
the same time A BIT ARROGANT.

An added bonus that these two examples
demonstrate is that neither one is quite clear.

It’s obvious that you’re making fun of her, but
it’s not exactly clear what you mean.

When you communicate like this, you
communicate:

1. That you’re confident.

2. That you’re comfortable.

3. That you’re intelligent.

4. That you’re funny.

…which, of course, are all qualities that
lead to a woman feeling ATTRACTION.

Of course, most men wouldn’t even THINK about
saying things like this to a woman that they find
attractive because they fear REJECTION.

Most men would also say that I must be CRAZY
for thinking that these kinds of comments would
trigger an EMOTIONAL response of ATTRACTION inside
of a woman.

I can understand this because when I first saw
guys being Cocky & Funny with women, I PERSONALLY
couldn’t believe that it was what was creating the
ATTRACTION.

But the fact is that IT DOES CREATE ATTRACTION.

And as illogical as it seems, if you learn how
to cultivate the skill of being Cocky & Funny,
you’ll notice an AMAZING difference in the way
that women respond to you.

You’ll find that the more you refine and
perfect the technique, the more women will want to
talk to you, be around you, and feel the
uncontrollable urges associated with ATTRACTION.

So here’s the formula again: When you’re in a
situation with a woman, say things that are both
Cocky & Funny.

Let’s say you’re talking to a woman, and she
says, “Here, let me buy this round of drinks”.

You might respond by saying, “Look, don’t think
that just because you buy me a drink that I’m
going to go home with you. I’m not that easy….”

Or maybe she mentions that she just started
working as a waitress… and you say, “Well,
that’s a deal breaker for me, because I need a
woman who makes enough to support the both of us
so I can pursue my life-long goal of being a house
husband.”

Are you with me?

These are all FUNNY and at the same time
ARROGANT.

One of the exercises that I recommend is to
take some time and come up with a whole bunch of
Cocky & Funny comments that YOU can use in the
most common “real world” situations you find
yourself meeting women in… and then mentally
rehearse them so you have them ready in your mind
to use.

When you use this magical way of communicating
with women, you’ll find that it often sparks an
INSTANT sexual tension, and sets up a perfect
interaction between you and the woman you’re
talking to.

It creates a wonderful, entertaining CHALLENGE
that women just LOVE to engage in…

It not only sets you apart from other men, but
as I mentioned, it also triggers that wonderful
emotion called ATTRACTION at the same time.

Double Bonus!

Of course, this is one part of a much bigger
picture of how to use your personality to create
sexual tension and ATTRACTION from the VERY
BEGINNING of your interactions with women.

And if you want to learn all of the secrets
that have taken me literally YEARS to figure out,
then I’d recommend that you check out my Advanced
Dating Techniques program.

It’s JAM PACKED with killer concepts,
techniques, and step by step tactics for
approaching women, starting conversations,
creating attraction, getting numbers, getting
dates, and taking things to a “physical” level…
all with very little risk of rejection.

You can go check out some AWESOME video samples
of the program here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/

And if you’re reading this right now and you
haven’t taken the time to download my online
eBook, then you need to go and do that RIGHT NOW.
You can download it and be reading it within a few
minutes. Go get it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/

I’ll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Take a minute and look at all of the
different programs I’ve created to teach you how
to meet women and get dates. You can see them all,
plus watch some great video clips here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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different programs in one place. Just go here:

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***QUESTION FROM A READER***

Hey Dave!

I am an avid reader of your newsletters and
mailbags …this stuff literally blew me away. I
also have your e-book. I had never seen or read
any other “dating expert” use the word
“attraction”…period! They never mention it in
anything they write yet it is the MOST IMPORTANT
thing that determines your success with women. Out
of literally dozens of articles and e-books from
so-called “dating pros”, the word “attraction”
just doesn’t ever come up! I even read in one e-
book that to attract women you need to get a
golden tan. I was like: “What the hell? That’s not
the key to attracting women you dummy! Besides,
what if you cant tan?!!”

When attraction is imminent, women try to be with
you and chase you. If attraction is not there,
they make up excuses and try to avoid you. This is
so simple… yet so easy to understand but many
guys who haven’t read your eBook miss this vital
point and thus waste time on women that aren’t
interested! Attraction is EVERYTHING! That is why
anyone reading this that hasn’t bought your e-book
or your Advanced CD series should do it
IMMEDIATELY! It’s definitely worth the investment.
In fact it will pay you back over the rest of your
life because you will be so much better with
women! Don’t pay hundreds of dollars or waste time
on the other material that’s out there…buy
Dave’s materials! Ok, Dave, I’m sure your head has
grown 10 times as big now and since I’m not
getting paid for making you a few extra sales, so
I’ll quit now! But really, buy the stuff…it’s
excellent! It’s things in there you have never
heard of before that is so critical to your
failure or success with women!

Anyhow, that was my insight on how great your
material is…now I have a question about
something I read in your mailbag previously that
really stood out to me. It was the one about the
guy who said “Can I kiss you” to a woman that was
getting out of the car as he dropped her off. I
thought saying “Can I kiss you?” was wussified
behavior? That didn’t sound like something you can
say without looking like a needy dork but the guy
said it worked for him and he got the kiss anyhow.
Did I miss something here? Explain that Dave.
Also, have you learned of any other “Kiss Tests”
like the one on your site?

GT from Nashville

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, thanks for the shameless advertisement
for my ebook and Advanced Series. I’m glad you’re
having success with the material.

I’d like to comment on your observation that
there’s no one teaching guys about ATTRACTION…

I noticed this exact same thing when I was
first learning about how to meet and date women.

It took me probably two years of trying things
before I finally realized that there was something
else going on with women that NO ONE was talking
about. Finally, I realized that this magic
something was an EMOTION.

Women don’t meet men and say to themselves
“Well, he’s my physical type, he has a good job,
he dresses himself pretty well, and he looks like
he’s good in bed… I think I’ll TURN ON MY
ATTRACTION for him…”

No way.

There’s something that happens to a woman,
usually in an INSTANT, that sparks the “Chemistry”
or “Sexual Tension” or “Attraction”. And then, if
the man knows how to build that tension and
AMPLIFY the EMOTION called ATTRACTION that the
woman is feeling, there’s a very good chance that
they will get together.

If, on the other hand, a man does NOT
understand this simple fact, and more importantly,
how ATTRACTION works, then no magic technique in
the world will work consistently for him.

I’ve learned that ATTRACTION is EVERYTHING.

SO WHY HASN’T ANYONE FIGURED THIS OUT?

Well, I have a theory about that, too.

In a nutshell, I think that because men are
sexually attracted primarily to LOOKS, they just
ASSUME that women must be the same way. We guys
just simply never take the time and energy to
figure out what women are actually attracted to…
so we act like failures with women… and they
treat us like failures.

And many of the guys I DO know who are good
with women don’t realize WHY what they do works so
well. They just do what they do, and women are
attracted to them. Most of them haven’t taken the
time to figure out that what they’re doing is
triggering the powerful emotion called ATTRACTION
inside of women.

To finish my thought on this, you’re right.

No one talks about ATTRACTION… and that’s a
problem, because if you don’t “get” attraction,
then it’s going to be hard to “get” women to be
interested in you.

Now, you asked a question at the end of your
email.

You wanted to know if the guy who asked, “Can I
kiss you?” was being a Wuss.

OK, I’m about to share a VERY, VERY powerful
tool to use when you’re interacting with women…

*** Before I share this secret, I want to mention
that if you want to get a SERIOUS education on the
topic of attraction, check out my eBook
“Attraction Isn’t A Choice”. You can download it
right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AttractionBook/

When I tell you what it is, you’re probably
going to say, “That doesn’t sound important”…
but IT IS.

Trust me on this one.

When you asked your question in the way that
you asked it, you indicated to me that you MISSED
WHAT WAS GOING ON. You missed the point of the
question.

One of the things I tell guys to do is TEASE
women.

Teasing can mean one of a couple of things.

Teasing can mean starting to kiss her, then
stopping, starting, then stopping… over and over
again. In this context it’s usually considered a
good, pleasurable thing.

For instance, if you kiss a woman gently, then
pull away… then do it again… then again… and
you can tell that she wants more, but you’re not
giving it to her, you’re teasing her.

Also, teasing can mean “poking fun”.

An example would be saying, “Wow, those are
some tall shoes. What, are you like three feet
tall without them?”

Think of how you used to tease girls on the
school playground when you were a kid.

That’s a different kind of teasing.

Now, BOTH kinds of teasing are great to use
with women who you have a romantic interest in…

Let’s talk about the “Can I kiss you?” example
for a minute.

As you might remember, it went something like
this:

He waited for a moment when it was clear to him
that it would be OK to kiss her. She wanted it.
Then he said…

Him: “Can I kiss you?” Her: “Yes” Him: “OK, I’ll
make sure to do that”

At this point, she said “Right”… and leaned in
to kiss HIM!

What happened here?

What happened was a little bit of GENIUS.
That’s what happened.

He was TEASING HER. He was doing something
that, at first glance was kind of Wuss/Nice Guy
thing to do. But remember, he had so much momentum
built up, that this little “slip” was perceived by
her as OK. In fact, he had so much momentum and
ATTRACTION built up that she WANTED IT.

He says, “Can I kiss you?”, she says, “Yes”,
then he TEASES her by saying, “OK, I’ll make sure
to do that.”

Yeah!

In that moment, she realizes that his Wuss
behavior was actually a JOKE, and that he was
actually MESSING with her and teasing her.

And at that point she leaned over and kissed
HIM.

Now, let me share something that I made up that
I have used with women on many occasions…

Let’s say I’m out and I meet a girl walking
down the street, and I get her email and phone
number.

We send a couple of emails back and forth, then
we get on the phone.

Because I’m always teasing and busting balls, I
KNOW that she’s enjoying it and interested in
me… so in that first phone conversation I’ll
say:

Me: “You know, I was telling my mom about you
today” Her: “Really?” Me:
“NO, you dork! Why would I tell my MOM about you?
Get over yourself!”

Are you with me?

Remember, I’m being charming, Cocky, Funny, and
unpredictable from the start… and I KNOW that
she’s enjoying it. The tension is building, even
as we have our first phone conversation.

So I then say something that just plain doesn’t
fit (“I was telling my mom about you today?”). She
says, “Really?” in a half flattered/half surprised
way, wondering what’s going on.

I then pause to build up the suspense.

As the pause is happening, and she’s starting
to think to herself, “Uh oh, he really likes me”,
I drop the “No, you dork! Why would I tell my MOM
about you? Get over yourself!” line.

It’s funny, confusing, and a HUGE tease.

It usually gets a huge laugh… and it
communicates that I not only “get” what’s going
on, but I’m so confident that I’ll tease her about
it.

Now, this is what you might call an “advanced”
move.

If you don’t know how to tell if a woman is
attracted to you, how to spark attraction, how to
amplify the attraction, and how to move from one
step to the next, you’re just going to sound like
a dumb ass when you say something like this…
because you’ll say it at the wrong time, or you’ll
say it to a woman who isn’t very interested in
you… which will make things WORSE instead of
better.

I hope you hear what I’m saying.

One of the GREATEST things you can learn is how
to use SUBTLE humor with women to IMPLY what
you’re thinking without actually SAYING it
directly.

As I say in my ebook, “Double Your Dating” and
in my Advanced CD/DVD Program, men take things
literally and women are always interpreting…
they’re always trying to figure out what
everything you’re saying and doing “REALLY MEANS”.

Communicating with women on a “sexual” level is
a skill that you must learn and develop… and
thankfully ANY man can learn how.

Once you learn this new “language”, you’ll
start to experience women in a whole new way.
You’ll be sending and receiving signals in a
language that you never even knew about.

And it’s FUN!

And the best part is that WOMEN WILL REALLY
APPRECIATE and ENJOY the fact that you actually
know how to communicate with them.

You need to go back through these materials and
pay attention to the SUBTLE things that I’m
saying, and start to really pay attention to the
details of how you communicate with women. You
won’t believe how much fun you can have.

And if you haven’t yet invested in my eBook and
Advanced CD/DVD series, then you need to do that.
Both come with a “stupid-proof” guarantee… try
BEFORE you buy… and both take your dating
success through the roof.

You will not find a better education on women
and dating ANYWHERE… at ANY price.

The eBook is here for download:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/

The Advanced Dating Techniques Program is here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/

I’ll talk to you again soon!

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Don’t forget to check out all of my different
programs in my online catalog. You can see them
all, plus watch video clips of every one of them
right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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know how to “speak” this secret language, you can
create MASSIVE amounts of ATTRACTION with women
almost INSTANTLY. If you want to learn more, check
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***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

Hi David,

I attended your seminar in LA and it was a real
eye opener for me. I’ve listened to the advanced
CD series 2 times since then and each time I’m
learning something new. I’ve noticed that the
trick is to go out and gain experience meeting
more women and then come back and listen to the
CDs again and you’ll be surprised how much more
you’re picking up. After attending your seminar
I’m now able to start a conversation with a woman
in a bookshop and get her to follow me from there
to another location to have coffeetea etc, and
I’m now able to this on a CONSISTENT basis,
something I didn’t think was possible before.

My question to you is regarding and Answering (or
not answering) questions from women. I now
understand that if you directly answer
‘qualifying’ questions from a woman then you’re
accepting her qualifying frame, which is VERY bad
for attraction. But how about questions that seem
like she’s genuinely trying to get to know you
better? Also how do handle it when a woman says,
“You never answer my questions…” and then goes
on and on about it? I’ve had this kind of
situation many times, I know it’s a sh**-test but
I haven’t found an effective way of dealing with
it yet.

For an example of this kind of test please read
the chat below which is an excerpt from an online
chat I had recently. I met her online but we’ve
spoken on the phone several times, she lives in a
different country from me so we haven’t been able
to meet yet, but plan to do so soon. Not so much
for this particular chick but I would like to know
how to deal with this kind of situation with any
chick in future. Tell me what you think, and if I
handled her questions (and accusations) properly
and what I could have done better. With thanks.
Your loyal student. G. (London, England)

==================messenger convo===============

(Good initial C+F conversation, then she asked the
question) . . Her: how many girls have you met
from online so far? Me: 5000 Her: it’s a minus,
that u never answer to my questions Her: but it’s
true, that u never answer to my questions Me:
really? Her: hm…… every time I ask you
something about u….you just answer with a
slapstick something Me: You know my name, where I
live, my age, where I had the craziest sex etc etc
Me: you want more? Me: wow! there are greedy
people in this world Me: still there? Her: yes….
I was just thinking what to say Me: aha you’re
lost for words Her: I don’t want you to get me
wrong here…… Me: shoot away! Her: but I have
the impression that you don’t want to talk about
your outlook on relationships…. Her: that sounds
weird Her: are you dating somebody right now? Me:
outlook on relationships? Me: is this a marriage
proposal… you’ve got to be rich though Me: and
be able to tell a story for 40 days and 40 nights
Her: here it comes again….. no, I’m just
interested in getting to know you….. Me: I like
to get to know u too Me: of course you’ve got to
be a great story teller Me: then the marriage will
be ON Her: so, then why is it so bad to ask maybe
how long your longest relationship was… or when
u did get out of the last one…. Me: you think
it’s bad? Her: I really love fooling around and
chatting around….but I don’t like it if I never
get answers to just normal not indiscreet
questions Me: Indiscreet… hmmm. Ask whatever
questions you want Me: you’ll get to know me as it
goes Her: I already did…. and I don’t have a
list to write that down…. I just noticed that…
last time when you called me on the phone… and
today, too…… every time I ask something about
your past I get a slapstick answer Me: don’t mind
me that’s how I talk. I’m playful but we’ll get to
know each other as we go along Me: it’s a natural
process Me: you can’t force it Her: hey….. now
you got me wrong….. see I didn’t want that Me:
want what? Her: that you get this message the way
you got it….. I’m not that needy and I don’t
want to force anything. Me: cool, I like that…
Me: needy people scare me Me: I know you’re not
needy Me: so when are u thinking of coming? Her: I
told you…. it would not be possible before march
because in Feb. I’m on training… and work… and
will have no (NO!!) day off the whole month Me:
working all month, not even free for the weekends?
Her: no…. Me: what training is it? Her:
especially not the weekends….. from march on I
will have a little bit more time (especially the
weekends) Her: I worked on getting me free time on
weekends because I want to have a private life
again one day…. Me: time to go out and stuff
Her: I’m doing my A-licence for aqua-training the
next 3 weeks, and then the last diploma for
Pilates Her: for example Me: you’re going to put
me through some steps when you get here Her: put
you through some steps? Me: workouts… were you
thinking of something else… bad girl! Her: no…
I just wanted to know what you want to
learn…what where you thinking about Me: whatever
is nice and easy, anyway we’ll see when come Me:
what are you uo to next tonight Me: up Her: not
much…. watch a movie maybe and then go to
bed….. Me: ok, hope you get better wrap warm.
Me: I’ve got to hit the sack now Me: tired from a
long day at work Her: do that…. and talk to you
soon…. just have to work 2 hours tomorrow
night…. I need that break, maybe I’ll cancel
that, too and stay in bed Her: nite nite
then……xx Me: good night

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Great job!

It’s good hearing from you, “G”. I remember you
very clearly from the LA seminar… and I remember
the breakthrough you had.

Congratulations on getting to the next level.
It’s exciting to hear that you can now go out to a
bookstore and get a woman to join you for tea on
the spot on a consistent basis. Nice!

On to your questions…

First of all, let’s talk about the whole
concept of “testing”, and why women do it (and,
more importantly, how to deal with it when it
happens).

In a nutshell, “testing” is a woman’s way of
QUICKLY finding out a lot of information with a
very small investment.

You must remember that beautiful women are
being approached ALL THE TIME in one way or
another… just about every man they meet tries to
pick them up or come on to them.

Women can FEEL this happening, even before it
actually starts.

Now, if a woman is “available”, she must figure
out a way to “separate the men from the boys” so
to speak, and figure out if a particular man is
going to be worth her time.

Enter the TEST.

Also, if an attractive woman is out on a date
with a man, or having a phone conversation, etc.
(or anything else that could be perceived as
taking things to the next level) she must find out
quickly whether this particular guy is:

1. Long-term relationship material

2. Short-term “affair” material

3. Friend material

4. Wuss material

5. The Gimp from Pulp Fiction

Keep in mind, a beautiful woman has LOTS of
options. She’s being approached probably 100+
times a month with date offers, etc. and could
never hope to spend even a small fraction of her
time with all the men who are interested in her.

She must use TESTS to quickly cut to the chase
and find out what a particular guy is REALLY all
about.

Tests can take many forms.

Here are a few common ones:

1. Canceling plans with little notice, or flaking
out entirely without notice

2. Asking for gifts or favors outright

3. Acting snotty, demanding, dramatic, or
manipulative to see if you’ll put up with it

4. Asking or telling you to change your behavior

5. Threatening to leave or take her attention and
give it to someone else if you don’t comply with
her wishes

….and the list goes on.

As you already know, women often use more
SUBTLE tests as well.

For instance, complaining that you don’t answer
her directly, to see if you will.

Or telling you that what you’re doing is
annoying to her.

In your email, you wrote…

“But how about questions that seem like she’s
genuinely trying to get to know you better? Also
how do handle it when a woman says, “You never
answer my questions…” and then goes on and on
about it? I’ve had this kind of situation many
times, I know it’s a sh**-test but I haven’t found
an effective way of dealing with it yet.”

…well, the good news for you is that you know
a guy who has had this happen A LOT more times to
him… and that person is ME!

And the “effective” way to deal with it is to
keep doing exactly what you’re doing.

The “problem” here is how you’re interpreting
the situation.

My guess is that all of the problems you’re
having around this issue come from the fact that
you “see” it as a problem… not because there
actually IS a problem.

Here’s a little chunk of the dialogue that you
included with your email…

Her: I really love fooling around and chatting
around…. but I don’t like it if I never get
answers to just normal not indiscreet questions

Me: Indiscreet… hmmm. Ask whatever questions
you want

Me: you’ll get to know me as it goes

Her: I already did…. and I don’t have a list to
write that down…. I just noticed that… last
time when you called me on the phone… and today,
too…… every time I ask something about your
past I get a slapstick answer

Me: don’t mind me that’s how I talk. I’m playful
but we’ll get to know each other as we go along

Me: it’s a natural process

Me: you can’t force it

…OK.

The way I read this, you GAVE IN when she
started complaining and said, “…don’t mind me
that’s how I talk…”.

You basically said, “Don’t mind me, I’m
actually kind of a Wuss, and that’s how I talk”.

Are you with me here?

You didn’t need to EXPLAIN yourself, or make an
excuse for yourself.

What I’m trying to say is that YOU are the
problem here, not the women who complain about you
not answering their questions.

Try this instead:

Her: I already did…. and I don’t have a list to
write that down…. I just noticed that… last
time when you called me on the phone… and today,
too…… every time I ask something about your
past I get a slapstick answer

Me: I’m glad you like it. Maybe that’s why you
keep messaging me and thinking about me so much!

…see the difference here?

If a woman complains because you’re being
difficult, LAUGH. Pretend you’re a bad little boy
on the school playground, and you just pulled her
hair… and she’s upset with you…

What would the little boy do?

He’d laugh… and then snap her bra!

Keep things fun. Don’t let her change your
direction or upset your mood.

You absolutely CANNOT turn into a Wuss and
start explaining yourself. As a little side- note
here, you might have to give yourself an
industrial strength de-wussing… which you can do
very quickly by getting THIS:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/OnBeingAMan/

Back to what I was saying…

There’s ALWAYS a better way to do things.

For example…

Let’s say you’ve decided that the woman you’re
talking to is really starting to get annoyed, and
you want to give her a little chunk of info.

Instead of saying, “Don’t mind me”, say, “OK,
I’m 27 years old, I work for an accounting firm, I
pay my own rent, I wear socks that match, and I
love my mom… is that better? How boring is
that?”

In other words, TELL HER what she wants to
know, but say it in a sarcastic way that also says
“Fine, you’re boring and since you can’t think of
anything fun to talk about, I’ll answer you…
Brat”.

Keep in mind… this whole style of
communication is VERY different from what most
guys do… and it’s often surprising to a woman.

When she kicks and screams a bit, it’s usually
because she’s genuinely surprised. But don’t
mistake her whining for REAL resistance.

If she actually gets upset and doesn’t want to
talk to you anymore just because you didn’t answer
her questions, and instead busted her balls a bit,
then let her go. You learned something VERY
valuable, and you didn’t even have to marry her to
learn it.

Also, when a woman starts resisting your
evasive and humorous comments…

…LAUGH!

Have fun.

You need to learn to enjoy yourself during this
process. It sounds to me like you’re letting this
stuff get to you… which is NOT useful.

By the way… there was something you said to
this girl that I absolutely LOVED…

Her: are you dating somebody right now?

[deleted comment that was out of sync]

Me: is this a marriage proposal… you’ve got to
be rich though

…this is great!

She asks if you’re dating someone, and you ask
her if she’s proposing! And then you said “You’ve
got to be rich, though”.

Now THAT’S the right way to answer a question
like that one.

Nice!

To finish, I’m going to do something a little
bit unconventional, and include another email that
I just received from a guy in Australia (He has
the same first initial as you… I wonder if
there’s a relation…).

Read this:

“You ROCK,

Since I am new to your publication I am unsure if
you get much mail from Australia.

What a difference a week makes. Last Saturday I
had a date with a great young lady. Smart, sexy,
beautiful etc. Well the 1st date didn’t go to
badly, some passionate kissing and fun, but when
it came time to try to take her top off, the
answer was a firm NO. That is where the night
ended. Mustn’t have been too bad cause I got a
follow up date the next Friday, but I also got the
cold(ish) shoulder. What she didn’t know is I got
you book on Wednesday. Wow, what a difference. I
realized she was lining me up for the hoop jumping
as a potential “long term relationship” and sex
was at least three dates away-way too far.

She was playing games, but your book came to the
rescue. When i phoned her to make the date, she
said “I will PENCIL you in”. Well in my old ways I
would have said “Yeah sure”, but there is a new
Greg with Double Your Dating Power. When she tried
the line I came back with “Well let me know. I am
a busy man, if you can’t make it, I need to know-
NOW.”

When I picked her up, she kissed me on the cheek
(after playing tonsil hockey the week before, was
a little strange). So I put your strategies into
play.

I didn’t touch her for 4 hours, didn’t hit on her,
didn’t look at her, was very standoffish. Went out
of my way to point out her strange behavior. At
one stage I called her “A walking contradiction”.
When she went down the “But it will change our
friendship if we take this further (read long term
relationship) path-I said “That’s fine, I just
want to have a little FUN.”

When I finally did kiss her she melted. Only for
me to stop after about 45 seconds. I then didn’t
touch her again for about 1/2 an hour. She
finally took her own top off (I couldn’t budge it
6 days before) and then she said “I will make you
a deal, if I take a piece of clothing off, then
you must take one off as well. She was chasing
me!!!!

Well we undresses and had a great time for about
three hours. Afterwards, she invited me out! Love
your stuff. Must go and re-read your wonderful
words again. I can’t wait to get the DVD’s.
Regards, G.

PS So if any of you want to come over here, know
it works and works really well. And there are
plenty of great looking women. G.”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

…OK, so I included this story because I
wanted to demonstrate a different aspect of
testing, and of “passing” this kind of testing
with FLYING colors.

Often, a woman will test you by RESISTING you,
or by telling you that “things are moving too
fast” or even by asking you what your intentions
are with her long term (when you’ve only known her
a short while, and have no intentions of any
kind).

What this gentleman above did was to SEE her
bet, and then RAISE her.

He called her bluff, basically.

WOMEN LOVE THIS!

It INSTANTLY shifts the power from one side to
the other, and totally changes the situation
around.

Points I’d like to comment on:

1) The first time you saw her, you kissed. When
you tried to take off her top, the answer was a
“firm NO”.

>>>The reason why the answer was a “firm NO” was
because you gave her something to resist. Instead
of amplifying the ATTRACTION in the situation, and
building the ANTICIPATION, you just went for it.
Next time, you’ll know better.

2) The second time you saw her, you didn’t do
anything that even LIGHTLY indicated that you were
interested in her.

>>>Great job! This is perfect. Most guys can’t go
four MINUTES without screwing things up by trying
to kiss a woman, asking her how she’s feeling, or
doing some other Wuss Bag thing that blows
everything. You were able to stay cool and calm
for FOUR HOURS… and allow the tension to build.
I guarantee you that she was wondering what the
hell was going on.

3) When you finally did kiss her, you STOPPED
after 45 seconds… then didn’t do anything else
for a half hour.

>>>Again, great move. Perfect. It doesn’t surprise
me at ALL that she took her own top off, then told
you that you had to take something off as well.
This is what happens when you understand the
process by which women test… and the process by
which women become sexually aroused.

…thanks for the email.

Now, in this newsletter I’ve focused on the
topic of TESTING. I’ve also discussed amplifying
attraction, and eliminating resistance from women.

The reason that these two guys who wrote in are
doing so well right now is because they understand
something that most guys DON’T understand.

They “get it”.

And, like most of the people I’ve met in life
who are trying to be the best they can be, they’re
always looking to improve. They’re continuing to
educate themselves, even though they have a level
of success that most men would envy.

It took me about three or four YEARS to finally
“get it”, and to have total confidence that I
could go out anywhere, anytime, and meet women.

That was partly because I couldn’t find any
good models to learn from… and partly because I
had to “unlearn” a lot of bad programming I had
obtained along the way.

The reason I wrote my original eBook “Double
Your Dating” was because I wanted to be able to
help other guys out there to understand how to be
successful with women and dating… without having
to go through all the hassles and wasted time that
I had to deal with.

My Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program is
the natural extension…

It allowed me to go “deep” and spend a lot more
time teaching the “inner game”, as well as the
“outer game” and specific techniques for meeting
and dating women. It also allowed me the
opportunity to interview some of the guys I know
who are REALLY good with women… and get them to
share many of the great ideas that I learned from
them that helped me become successful.

In other words, my eBook and Advanced Program
are the BEST. They’re what I wish I would have had
when I started learning this stuff… and they
probably would have saved me YEARS of my time, and
a lot of frustration.

I invite you to check them out.

You can check out some great free samples from
my Advanced Series here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/AdvancedSeries/

You can download my online eBook and be reading
it within a few minutes here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/

I’ll talk to you again soon!

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. You can see all of the different dating
advice programs I’ve created, plus watch some
great video clips of each of them right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/Catalog/

P.P.S. If you’d like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.

2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the “Your stuff
is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
Story” in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.

4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you’re from.

5) Send it to me at:

SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com

…don’t just hit “reply” to this email.

Thanks!

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Hey Casanova,

If you’re serious about getting your INNER GAME
together and learning how to attract women without
relying on “lines” or “techniques”… then this
could be the most important letter you’ll ever
read…

Here’s why:

I just finished up an interview with a guy who
I consider to be the BEST IN THE WORLD when it
comes to showing men how to get their inner game
together… and start attracting women in a
NATURAL way.

I’m very excited… because I’ve been trying to
nail down an interview with this guy for YEARS.

He’s appeared as a guest speaker in a couple of
my programs, and I’ve received more emails
requesting him than I could ever count.

He’s one of the main characters in Neil
Strauss’ now famous book, “The Game”… and has
been one of my personal mentors for many years
now.

He’s built up quite a reputation as an inner
game “guru”… and the things I’ve seen him do for
other men—myself included—are incredible.

He has a unique talent for helping guys break
down their own internal barriers to success with
women… and showing them how to develop that ROCK
SOLID confidence that all woman notice and respond
to.

Not to mention that he’s personally been with
some of the most beautiful women in the world. In
the last few years of teaching this stuff I’ve met
a ton of guys who are great with women… but this
dude’s game is at a WHOLE ‘NOTHER LEVEL…

The things he shared in this interview will
expand your mind… and increase YOUR game
immediately.

Here’s just a few of the secrets he shared:

-How to identify the LIMITING BELIEFS you are
carrying around with you that are affecting your
success with women (Use this simple exercise to
rid yourself of your own “baggage” and replace it
with knowledge that helps you ATTRACT women
instead of repel them)

-The 4 questions you can ask yourself to figure
out EXACTLY what is keeping you from having the
success with women that you want… and what you
can do to FIX those problems and make sure they
NEVER come back

-How to turn a woman on over the phone… and get
her EXCITED about “getting physical” with you
before you ever even hang out

-How to easily figure out your true purpose in
life (A QUALITY woman can sense instantly when a
man is “on his path”… and if you DON’T know what
your purpose is she’ll get a vibe from you that
FORCES her to see you as LESS OF A MAN… even if
you’re good looking and successful)

-What to say when you meet a woman in a club to
get her to call YOU first

-A powerful “in the field” exercise that trains
your brain to become IMMUNE to rejection – My
friend has studied those who NEVER feel the sting
of rejection and those who feel the pain before
they even approach, and has figured out what you
need to do to avoid EVER letting the way a woman
responds to you hurt your self-esteem again)

-The exact point in the conversation where you
should start getting “sexual” (Surprise! It’s NOT
what you think…)

-HOW to start getting sexual in conversation in a
way that gets her thinking that way about YOU
instead of creeping her out

-A powerful word-for-word routine you can use to
make a woman feel INTENSE sensations in her body
without even touching her (She will automatically
assume you are a ROCKSTAR in the bedroom when you
do this one)

-An exercise to train yourself to hold eye contact
with a woman… and develop a confident, powerful
gaze that makes women intrigued and EXCITED when
they are around you

-My friend’s eye contact “trick” he uses to build
SEXUAL TENSION with a woman during the very first
conversation (Trust me, you’ll want to use this
one with every woman you meet from now on)

-How to set it up so things go well in the bedroom
with a woman BEFORE you get there (Use this to
ensure your first time together is one she will
brag about to her friends)

And…

-The AMAZING routine my friend uses to seduce a
woman in 15 days… practically GUARANTEED (He’s
never revealed this one before anywhere… and the
best part of it is you can actually TELL a woman
what you are doing and it gets her MORE turned on!
Here is the entire easy-to-use formula, spelled
out for you step-by-step)

Ok, I’m going to shut up now.

Words just can’t do this interview justice. You
need to hear it for yourself.

I’ve decided to release this interview as this
month’s edition of my “Interviews With Dating
Gurus” Monthly CD Audio Program.

If you’re already subscribed, GET EXCITED…
because this one has been a LONG time coming…

If you’re not?

This interview is hitting the press this Friday
morning… so you’re going to need to be on board
by THIS THURSDAY, March 15th to be sure you get
your hands on it.

When you sign up, I’m also going to send you a
KILLER “Starter Kit” featuring 2 other DOUBLE
INTERVIEWS (2 CDs each) that are ALSO among the
best I’ve ever done.

But don’t take my word for it. I want to prove
it to you… so here’s what I’m going to do:

Sign up right now… and I’ll rush these
interviews out to you in plain, discreet
packaging.

Listen to them. USE what you learn.

If you don’t like them, just let me know.

I’ll refund every cent of your money… and you
can KEEP all 3 interviews ON ME for giving it a
fair shot.

Of course… the reason I can make such a
“crazy” offer is because I’m not at all worried
about that happening.

In fact… I’ll be AMAZED if you don’t listen
to each one of these CDs until you wear it out.

Trust me… they are that good.

The information inside will improve your game
instantly. I guarantee it.

Here’s the link… go sign up RIGHT NOW while
it’s fresh on your mind:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/InterviewSeries/

You’ll be glad you did.

Talk soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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***QUESTION***

Hey -

I am 18 years old and just graduated high school.
I used to be a MAJOR wuss and when I was younger I
was always a shy kid who was picked on a lot
because I was a short, skinny kid that never stood
up for myself. And worst of all, I never took
advantage of high school to get girls! I started
getting your newsletter earlier this year and the
cocky + funny attitude changed my life in more
ways than one. I hang out with guys that get the
hottest high school girls you can ever imagine.
Not only do they get 9′s and 10′s, I see these
girls obsess over them. I was around them so much
that I tried to model thier behavior around girls
and I noticed that EVERYTHING you preach about,
comes to them NATURALLY. Every tip of advice
you’ve given to guys ACTUALLY works, and Ive seen
it first hand.

I started using cocky + funny myself and even use
lines that Ive seen my friends use in past cases.
I saw a HOT girl in the mall and she was checking
herself out in a pocket mirror so I said “don’t
worry, your hair doesn’t look THATTT bad”. She
started laughing even though I just made fun of
her! I asked for her email and when she said she
doenst have the internet, I used your line “well
do you have electricity”? AGAIN the girl laughed,
and I ended up getting her phone # and I hooked up
with her that weekend!

MY QUESTION – my natural personality has
transformed from a wussy shy nice kid to a guy
that’s gonna bust your balls, but a nice guy at
heart. I made a lot more girl “friends” too, but
whenever they try to tell me their sad stories, I
let them know Im not their boyfriend and do not
care. Whenever I gain the courage to use
cocky+funny, it WORKS but my problem is even
though I’ve seen this work in action, I fear I
don’t know enough cocky+funny lines to keep up a
conversation with a girl. Also, do you recommend
hitting on random strangers you see, because my
friends say they never really hit on strangers
unless they have a reason to go up and talk to
them. My friends also say to ALWAYS have 5
“project girls” and never focus on one girl. Is
this true? please write back.

E from NYC

>>>MY COMMENTS:

It’s interesting, because I actually discovered
the Cocky & Funny technique by watching guys who
were good with women. In fact, a guy who is now a
good friend was trying to explain the concept to
me a few years back… and he was the first one to
say “Cocky & Funny”. Of course, I had no idea what
he was talking about at the time. It really made
no sense to me.

But after I started working with it and
watching other guys who were really successful
with women, I learned how it worked.

It sounds like you’re really getting it -
congrats!

As for your questions…

Don’t worry about being able to “come up with
enough lines to keep up a conversation”. Just do
what you can, and enjoy yourself. A few Cocky &
Funny lines used here and there are MUCH better
than nothing at all.

If you feel like approaching strangers, great.
If you just realize that most women are going to
be nice, but some will be either unavailable or
unfriendly then you’ll be fine. I have personally
had great success meeting “strangers”, and as my
good friend Rick says, “Every friend you have
started out as a stranger….”

And as for the “5 project girls”, you’re
cracking me up over here. If you like the idea of
staying single and dating a lot of different
women, then this is the way to do it! Just make
sure they don’t turn into your personal
“psychological projects”.

Thanks for your email.

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave….

I’m a premed student who has been subscribing to
your newsletter for quite a while now. I’ve been
meaning to buy your book but im not in the habit
of using a credit card so ill have to open an
account especially for this. Anyway, i’ve been
going out with this girl for 9 months now. She is
smart, attractive, and funny. the way i landed
her was by being cocky funny. EXTREMELY cocky
funny. i was always one step ahead of her. It was
kind of like “Dont even TRY to challenge me, im
already inside your head!”. everything was cool.
but to tell the truth (and no offense) i just kind
of got tired of the constant effort…..so i
cooled it off a bit not always seizing the
opportunity to remind her just who it is she’s
dealing with. And i think i got screwed. Now i
feel like i’ve turned into a wuss….and i HATE
IT!!! no.. I LOATHE IT !!!!!!!!!! When i turn on
the macho act she’s a pussy cat again. You see i
want someone to whom i can genuinely be…. just
nice to, with her appreciating it and NOT taking
advantage. i mean since this is a long-term
relationship i want someone who will give me a
smooth ride without all that continuos
maintenance. I dont wanna be cocky and tough all
my life with her, sometimes a guy just wants to
relax. Is it possible??

F.Z, Lebanon

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Ooooooo, good question.

I’ve seen a trend in the way guys, who are
learning to be Cocky & Funny and to stay in
control, change.

As they’re learning the techniques, they become
more and more attractive to women. Then, they meet
a really amazing woman – a woman that was
previously “out of their league”, and they decide
to start a relationship.

As soon as they start getting closer, the guy
begins to put aside the things that worked, and
start being more and more submissive… which, of
course, drives this new woman away.

Then I get an email saying “I want to be nice
and sweet and a good guy but still have all the
super hot women calling me 24/7″.

Here’s what I say:

“BEING YOURSELF” IS A PRIVELEGE THAT YOU HAVE
TO EARN, NOT A RIGHT.

And the way that you earn it is to learn what
it takes to make women feel ATTRACTION, learn what
it takes to NOT drive women away, then make these
things part of “YOURSELF”.

Are you with me here?

The problem is that “being yourself” for a lot
of guys means “being the type of guy that women
don’t feel any ATTRACTION for”.

If you can’t make a woman feel the emotion of
ATTRACTION, then there’s really nothing I can do
to help you. If you’re not willing to do the work
and make the changes more or less permanent, then
you’re going to have a long uphill battle.

And in your case, you have to realize that this
woman was attracted to you for a REASON, and if
you stop that REASON, then you’re going to stop
the ATTRACTION.

***QUESTION***

Whats goin on Dave?

I would love to say how great your stuff works,
but I haven’t had much luck with it as of yet. I
have seen it put to good use though. My bro does
the whole cocky/funny routine naturally and I see
all its power. Most of the time I was Mr. Nice-
Guy. and, of course, it didn’t work as much as I
would like. Which is why I’m writing this e-
mail.(duh)

My problem is I’m missing the key ingredient to
your ‘super recipe,’ funny. The way I see it,
cocky is like garlic, by itself it is repulsive
and disgusting. But when used as a seasoning to
another main dish (funny), it can do wonders. I’m
missing the main dish. Anyone can be cocky, but I
lack in the funny department. So where do I start
to fix this?

Thanks, P in NJ

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Humor has a structure, and it can be learned.
Some people seem to have an easier time learning
how to be funny, but I’ve seen some not-too-funny
people become VERY funny with practice.

Read some books, watch Comedy Central, and
practice. Start a journal and write down funny
lines you hear so you can use them later.

Get with your Bro’ and watch him. Ask him for
advice and ideas. Practice. You can learn how to
be funny and it’s important that you do if you
want to attract women!

As I’m sure you know, my book has some of my
very favorite “standard” lines for different
situations, plus more on how to create specific
humor for specific situations.

For all the details, go to:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/

***COMMENT***

Dave,

I know that you put real stories in these letters
because I sent one in and it appeared exactly as I
had written it. I laughed till I cried over the
“fat, pimply, and hairy” story.

You are “Da man” I look forward to your wit in
these letters and I must admit I’m going to buy
your book.

GJ

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, all of the email letters I print in my
newsletters are ALL real. Every single one of
them. I wish I had more time in the day, because I
get hundreds of them a week…

Thanks for the compliments, and enjoy.

***QUESTION***

Ok David, first off, I would like to say thank you
for taking the years that you did to get all of
this great info., and then be generous enough to
spread the knowledge. Here is my situation. I
knew this girl back in high school, and I haven’t
seen her since graduation (about 2 yrs ago). I
bumped into her the other day and WOW (she is a
9.5 easy). Well, having not yet tried out any of
your techniques, I thought “What the hell, let’s
go for it.” It worked. The c/f technique was
golden. Got her email AND number. Well, we
eventually went out and had a great time. A couple
of days later, I went over to see her new place,
and well, things got a little wild. (it all
started with your amazing kiss technique- thanks
again) So here’s the deal. She likes me a lot, and
I like her a lot, but I have been playing back in
order to keep the ugly head of the “wussy” out of
the picture. When is a good time (or is there a
good time at all) to be serious with her? Do I
bust on her all the time, b/c I don’t want her to
think I am a jerk? Any help you can give is great.

Thanks again. ME

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, I don’t exactly know what you mean by
“serious”.

If you mean “When can I talk about how I’m sad
because my dog got run over and my inner child
needs a hug”, then NEVER is the answer. Well,
maybe you can have one “serious” conversation like
this on the 10th date, and it can last no longer
than 5 minutes.

Just stay away from heavy emotional issues,
problems, drama, and general WUSS topics.

If you need a friend, GET A DOG!

lol… I forgot where that line is from, but I
love it.

***QUESTION***

Mr. DeAngelo,

Well, I’ve got to say, after trying many, many
different methods, yours have been the first ones
to work. I cut and pasted your online personal add
and sent it out to a few women on a college-
oriented site. This is after trying
(unsuccessfully) for many months to get any sort
of response from the women on the site. Before
reading the newsletters, I would’ve typically sent
out about 20 e-mails, and got 1 response if I was
lucky. This time, however, I sent out about 5 or
6, and got 3 replies the next day! Unbelievable!
Now, for the tricky part…getting the number and
the date. I’ve got some leads, and I want to keep
my C&F attitude up. I’m just normally funny, but
need practice at being cocky. (I’m either too
subtle, or too extreme, so I’m practicing at
finding a middle ground.) But, in the meantime,
what kind of C&F response would you give to a
University-aged woman?

G.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Good job.

There are all kinds of great topics you could
work with.

You could make fun of the classes they’re
taking, bust on them for taking easy classes,
accuse them of taking 10 years to get a 4 year
degree… the list is endless.

Since you’re going to be meeting these women at
some point, make sure you go and do things with
them that have “built in conversation value”. Go
to interesting, fun parts of town with unusual and
interesting shops.

This kind of thing creates all kinds of
opportunity for great comments… and it keeps the
energy up all by itself.

Now that you’re meeting women online, do
yourself a big favor and practice your skills
CHATTING with women.

Chatting is great because it slows the
conversation down to about 1/5 the normal speed,
and gives you time to plan out what you’re saying.

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

I’m real sorry but I still cannot figure out how
to build bridges after getting the email address.
Normally the next day I send the lady an email,
she replies and then I can’t think what on earth
else to do. My overall goal is to get with her -
so can you help me man?

I.M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, I think I can help.

1. Set up a meeting for tea.

2. Have her stop by your place on the way to tea.

3. Have fun, interesting conversation.

4. Invite her back to your place after tea.

5. Use the Kiss Test.

6. Use your creativity and imagination.

Don’t focus too much on “getting with her”,
just focus on getting to THE NEXT STEP.

In other words, when you email – don’t say
something like:

“Hi, it was great meeting you. I’m single and
nice, and you seem like you’d make a great
girlfriend for a sweet, desperate loser like
myself.”

Stay off of heavy conversation. Don’t talk
about relationships and marriage, etc. Just talk
and enjoy yourself. But keep progressing as you
do.

As long as you relax and make each progressive
step easy and natural, you’ll be fine.

Again, just take it one step at a time.

If you don’t know what the “Kiss Test” is, then
download my online eBook right now, and read about
it:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/16874/eBook/

***QUESTION***

Hi David:

I’m 42 and a bald, average, confident guy. After
being recently divorced (Dec/01) after 24 yrs and
thoroughly confused about dating and what women
want. I bought [another dating book] and was even
more scared to do any of what was asked to do. I
bought your course and coupled with watching the
players in clubs I knew C&F was the answer. I
used it successfully on over (9) women since
Jan/02 all resulting in them wanting much, much
more* than I was willing to give. They all call
from time-to-time for fun!

*Here is where I have the problem and it might
help others trying for this type of relationship.
I am single and love my Space and I want to have
fun for a while and eventually marry again I’m
looking for Her and it takes a while to see if she
is Her I get them hooked way too fast and not
trying to do so This is how: Women are attracted
to C&F, They want fun and excitement; I think I
know why they want funny for the fun things to do
in life (too many boring guys out there) and the
cocky part piques their inner flames to what could
happen as far as passion. If when you are
passionate with them you have to be a Leader and
show them as bad a boy as they can handle. This
has in all instances so far lead them to call me
and pursue me: the next day and weeks ahead. They
want a far deeper relationship. They want C&F in
their lives. These are not clingy people (7-9′s)
(24-44yrs) and profess to want to be friends
first. Email is great as it has a way of helping
them say things they wished they could say in
person. Do you have any wisdom on how to do C&F
and not hit all of her senses?

Thanks Again for C&F J.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol… you poor, poor dear. Sounds tough,
really.

I think you’re doing fine. You’re on the right
track, and I think that you’re going to find an
outstanding woman to have a longer-term
relationship with.

I personally think that the problem isn’t the
techniques you’re using, it’s that you’re now
seeing that YOU CAN CHOOSE A WOMAN, rather than
having HER CHOOSE YOU… and it’s making you far
more SELECTIVE than you were in the past.

When you’re seeing several attractive women at
the same time, you begin to realize that you can
have whatever you want. You no longer have to
settle.

This has the effect of making you a lot pickier
about what you’ll tolerate… and it makes you see
negatives a lot more clearly in women.

Again, I think you’re doing fine. Just stick
with it and you’ll find a great woman to marry
again, if that’s what you want.

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave. I don’t think the cocky/funny technique
will work for me. I’m 19 y/o, 5′ 3″ and 117 lb. I
have an average build, dark hair and blue eyes. I
also have a fetish for girls with big bellies.
What do you think? Be honest.

SO

Birmingham, England

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, if I can get myself to stop laughing,
maybe I can answer you!

OK, let’s make sure I have the facts straight
here…

You’re five foot three, weigh 117, and LIKE
WOMEN WITH BIG BELLIES?

Honestly, I think you’re right… I don’t think
that the Cocky & Funny technique will work for
you… in fact

…I DON’T THINK ANYTHING IS GOING TO WORK FOR
YOU.

Make sure you don’t tell any of your other guy
friends about this. It might get ugly.

By the way, you may not have considered this,
but women with big bellies usually got them from
eating a lot… and my guess is that they might be
expensive dates.

Watch out.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave:

Dated someone for 4 years. Turned into a wussy
boy a couple times, and both times she left me for
the same guy. This guy was a selfish, conceited
jerk, but he was the ONLY guy she’s ever dated who
she couldn’t wrap around her finger. He was an
impossible challenge… and so her sexual
attraction to him was enormous. (Hmmm…is there
a lesson to be learned here…?) Since we broke up
about a year ago, I’ve been reading your
newsletters and your ebooks. Now I’M the
challenging one. I don’t flatter women with
compliments, I don’t buy drinks or flowers, I
split the dinner tab, I don’t always call (or call
back) every day, I keep my social life busy and
interesting. And I never ever EVER lose my
composure with a woman – no matter how much I’m
attracted to them. (In truth: I caved to one
woman, told her how attracted I was to her, and
instantly found myself in the “just friends” pit
of no return. Oops. Had to learn the hard way.)
Now every time a woman tries to test my level of
“wussiness” I completely annihilate them with a
cocky+funny comment…and they LOVE me for it.
And…of course…guess who suddenly wants to date
me again…

Thanks D, M.S. Chicago

P.S. Took this off the end of the 1st paragraph
above…it was getting too long, but I love this
perspective from a woman: While investigating this
illogical phenomenon, I asked a somewhat-
attractive female friend of mine “so…can you
shed any light onto the whole ‘why women are
attracted to jerks’ idea?” And her answer
(quote): “Because we’re too leery of a nice guy.
Nice guys creep me out. They seem like I can walk
all over them and I hate that. Women want a bit
of a challenge.”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is truth from the mountain. Read it 100
times a day.

Print it and tape it to your computer monitor.

Put a copy in your wallet… next to the money
so you see it often.

Put one on your car sun visor and mirror.

And go read it again now.

***QUESTION***

Yes Dave, you are 100% correct. Even us older,
fatter, grayer, slower wusses can learn new
tricks. I went from a 4 time loser to being
called biggest old stud in town! Now that was a
hell of an ego boost! Especially since I’m 48 and
close to 300 lbs. and yes, at the moment, I have
steady dates for 3 days of the week every week and
5 others professing their love for me if only I
will come take them away.

Here are what I found to work:

1) Women over 35 expect you to be extremely
inventive with a cocky funny line or extremely
truthful. They all claim it is because they have
had so many used on them, they are totally immune
to them. I tend to go the extremely truthful
route. the ie. you look like the type of woman who
would like a funny witty, intelligent, romantic
friend. Have you found any lately??? I want to
shake their hand. Or something similar.

2) If you are emailing back and forth and they
want your picture within the first couple of
exchanges, run do not walk, that lady to the
discard pile immediately. Most of those are so
shallow they can not and will not see what they
are doing, no matter how funny and blunt you are.
I even tried the “what’s in it for me?” line, only
to get the reply of “me stupid, but only if I like
your picture”

3) When the lady says I don’t think I’m really
your type, you look them straight in the eye and
say “ok, plenty more where you came from” and turn
and walk away. 9 out of 10 of them will be
calling you in 48 hours.

4) They all know about arranging dates for the
week and finding the dates on the weekend. So tell
them you only have like Friday, Saturday OR Sunday
open but not all. Most will tell you to rearrange
your week to fit them in. The ones really really
interested will call you on Saturday to see if you
can go out on the spur of the moment.

5) I tell them all I am too much to handle and too
much to love, so being friends is just perfect.
But I have zero experience in this dating more
than one woman thing at a time. Do you have any
advice. Especially since I am sure to make a lot
of mistakes. Yeah, they all want to arrange more
time with me.

So you see, your techniques work. Even my 21 y/o
daughter who reads these occasionally says, “I
can’t agree all the way, but damn he sure got the
last 5 guys I dated nailed”

Keep up the good work Dave.

M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, more priceless wisdom.

To answer your question, the way to see more
than one woman at a time is to NOT SEE ANY OF THEM
TOO OFTEN.

When you see or talk to a woman more than once
or twice a week, it kicks in the natural
“relationship” emotions and patterns of
communication and behavior.

If you keep things to once a week, and
sometimes twice, you’ll tend to avoid this.

It’s also good to tell the women that you’re
seeing, that you don’t think it’s a good idea to
get into a relationship too quickly with someone
you just met (I believe this is a very important
idea, myself).

Thanks for the great ideas.

***QUESTION***

Hi David,

I thoroughly enjoyed reading your book…very
enlightening. I’ve always found myself attracting
girls I’m not romantically interested in, while
crashing and burning with the hotties. It was
very confusing until I read your book. I realize
now that I was a wuss with the hotties by being a
typical “nice guy”, and that the more I acted
indifferent with the girls I didn’t like, the more
they ate it up. You gave me a new perspective on
what makes attraction work, and I’m glad to see
that your book pointed out that you don’t have to
be a jerk to be successful.

My game has improved but it still requires some
refining. Lately I find I’m stalling out between
the first and second date. So I’m wondering if I’m
screwing up the date itself or the follow-through.
Here are the steps I take after a date:

1) I call within two days to say I had a good time
and basically make contact. I end the
conversation first, and let her know I’ll give her
a shout in a couple days…just so I don’t seem
like I’m rushing into a second date.

2) I let two or three days pass and call to make
arrangements for a second date. At this point I
usually get a vague answer like “lets set
something up for next week”…and then it never
happens.

Where is this falling apart and what kind of
follow- through do you use?

Thanks for the help,

SF London, Ontario

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I’m going to have to guess at a few things, but
I’ll give it a shot.

From the sounds of it, you need to:

1. Stop with the “I had a good time” type comments
when you call for a follow up. You might
experiment with waiting longer to call… or
waiting less time to call. See what works best
for you. But don’t be so “nice”.

2. Do more things to make your date feel
ATTRACTION. Use what you’ve learned to really turn
the dial up. You might test progressing further on
the first date… maybe start getting physical
faster.

3. Make sure you keep her laughing, and keep
busting on her and treating her like a “friend” at
first. Remember the idea of acting like she’s your
Bratty Little Sister.

It sounds like you’re doing something on those
first dates that’s making the women resistant to
seeing you again… you need to figure out what it
is and STOP IT.

***QUESTION***

David,

On vacation in Mexico, a girl asked me if she was
“super hot” and I said “Yeah, you’re alright.”
Next thing you know she made it her business to
prove to me how hot she was, including some freaky
dancing, even flashing me, and a little lip
action. Moral: Never give them what they want. I
moved in to kiss a girl a little too early and she
backed away. So I went back to teasing her and on
the next attempt I went straight for the neck,
ears, hands in hair and well you wouldn’t believe
it; but it worked that time. Your book has a lot
of very good information, thank you for putting it
together. So here’s my question: This girl at my
gym is of those that I’ve always wanted to talk to
but never really had the chance. She was
bartending the other night and I told her I’d seen
her at the gym. She said “yeah, but I don’t make
it in there as much lately.” I replied “Yeah, I
can tell, you’re really letting yourself go.” Then
she gives me a shot and asks me if I’d help her
with her workout.” She also said she remembered me
from the gym and I said “So you were checking me
out?” So I get her number, not bad, eh? So I’m in
the bar for another hour with some friends and I
was going to order a drink from her later, but it
might’ve seemed like I wanted to talk to her
again. She seemed busy and didn’t look at me.
Seemingly wuss behavior or she’s just busy? Who
knows. That was on Saturday and I called her on
Wednesday, still no reply and today is Friday. I’m
thinking either calling her once more over the
weekend, asking about playing hard to get and if
she just randomly gives out shots, or maybe going
back to her bar in a week or two with some
friends. Again, thank you for all you’ve done and
thanks in advance for any suggestions.

A.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I’m going to tell you something here, and leave
it to you to figure out why it’s important:

YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT RIGHT AFTER YOU GOT HER
NUMBER.

This is SUPER ULTRA EXTRA important… and I
want you to consider it in your mind until you
figure out why.

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

I got your e-mails for about a month before i
actually bought the books and I regret waiting so
long. I have never been so confident around
women. I stand as a security guard at the entrance
of a retail store and 8′s, 9′s, and some 10′s pass
by me everyday. I used to turn my head and stare
away. Now I know what they want from reading your
book and I can look at them, talk to them, and
bust their balls even without ever meeting them.

I do have a problem though. I took this beautiful
girl out on a first date, the C&F technique worked
so well all night from the movie to the dinner to
the goodnight kiss (tongue included) that we both
definitely wanted a 2nd date. So what’s the
problem. She can’t stop thinking about me or
leaving me alone. I’m getting 10 text messages a
day from this girl that I really only want to date
a few times. I’m enjoying this bein single dating
around and she wants me to be with her everyday.
How can I slow this down, without losing the C&F
personality?

Thanks Dave.

MM Kentucky

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, another guy who my heart goes out to.

I need to write a book called “Cut Your Dating
In Half: A guide for guys who are too successful
with my materials.”

I think what you need to do is get together
with her and say: “Look, you’re acting like we’re
married, and you need to cool it. I think you’re
great, but I’m not interested in a relationship
right now, so if you want to keep seeing me, then
you’re going to need to chill.”

I realize that it sounds a little bit harsh,
but it’s the truth, and you need to be direct in a
situation like this one…

OK, if you’re reading this right now and you’re
thinking to yourself, “I really need to get my
dating life handled”, then YOU’RE RIGHT.

I couldn’t agree with you more.

I can’t say that my techniques will absolutely
work for you without question. You’re the one that
has to use them…

But I will say that if you get out there and
try them, I think you’ll find that they work
better than anything else, and that you’ll have
more success than you have now. It took me YEARS
to really figure out what women respond to, and I
really believe that ANY guy can use the material
to attract women.

Depending on just HOW shy or nervous you are,
you might need to get that handled… but once you
start working with the techniques, I think you’ll
be VERY pleased with the results…

Get yourself a copy of my ADVANCED DATING
TECHNIQUES DVD/CD program.

It’s the ultimate training program for meeting
women… and it will increase your success
DRAMATICALLY.

And the best part is that you DON’T HAVE TO
DECIDE NOW.

Here’s my offer to you:

Order my program. There’s zero risk.

I’ll send it to you (in a plain box, of
course… so it’s just our little secret)… to
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If you like it, keep it… and I’ll bill you in
five easy payments. If you don’t like it, just
send it back to me… and pay nothing.

I’m serious.

Go here to check out some free samples and get
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If you’d like to become an EXPERT in the area
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I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your friend,

David D.

P.S. You can watch video clips of every one of my
DVD programs, plus read the story of how I learned
to meet women right here:

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Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

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2) Tell me what’s working for you before you ask
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is great” and “I don’t need to tell you how well
your stuff works” comments, but the fact is that I
DO need to hear all of the specifics… because
this helps other guys to see what’s working in
different situations.

3) If you have a Success Story, write “Success
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4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
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5) Send it to me at:

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Thanks!

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